How common is this with sex & top/bottom roles in general?

  • jake392

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    Apr 22, 2013 5:31 AM GMT
    I’m a bi college student and sometimes I mess around with a guy who is two years older than me at his apt. I wouldn’t even say we are fwb, just fuck buddies. Anyway, I’ve been going over to his place late at night about once a week, maybe a little less, for the past two months.

    What usually happens is we start off kissing, I suck him, jack him, then he tops me. Sometimes he will ask me to massage him because I felt like doing it once. After that we cuddle and fall asleep then I leave early in the morning

    The problem is, I feel like I’m the one doing most of the pleasuring. He only ever sucked my cock once, and that was only for a minute. He also never rims me or even jacks me off. The only reason I keep messing with him is because he can top really well (I’m a verse/bottom). It really turns me on to know I’m getting the person I’m with off, but I need to get off too.

    Of course I’m going to tell him that he should start focusing on pleasuring me too or I'm not interested in having sex with him anymore, but I’m wondering if this is common with gay sex. I haven’t been with many other guys, especially not regularly, so I really don’t know if I should expect more guys/tops to be like this in the future.
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    Apr 22, 2013 5:34 AM GMT
    He sounds like a selfish top. I've ran into a few like that before. For me, I don't really care if a top sucks my dick or not. I'm usually way more into giving my man pleasure than me getting it.I get off on knowing I'm giving this guy pleasure, so that's enough for me.

    Not all tops like that, I'm sure you will find one who you sexually click with.