i feel you, man. basically being degraded to a sex object but then again, if you're on a hookup site, that's how it usually is. it's funny how it's easy to find someone on a hookup site BUT folks aren't interested in shit when it comes to dating. if only my okcupid page was treated like the adam4adam one.
folks just get extra uppity on the dating tip where it's "we have to date or i'm not speaking to you" BUT yet they could give a fuck less when it comes to sex which is weird to me. they're like "let's fuck". HUH?
it seems as if folks aren't even remotely interested in being friends if they feel that you aren't a potential love interest which makes absolutely no sense to me at all. like do you suddenly fall in love with someone without even getting to know them even if you're attracted to them. that's what i seriously think some people do. they just jump from a to z and then they want to rush everything. it's as if time flies with some people where they want to immediately get involved. like i've had some guys straight up try to push me into that direction when i'm not even trying to go there like that to begin with.
for the most part, i noticed that there's a lot of people around my age that are full of shit when it comes to dating.