Honestly ,how many of u had a sexual contact with a cousin or distant family member ?

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    Apr 24, 2013 12:06 PM GMT
    3 years back ,my cousin who's 14 yrs old to me, asked me for a whiskey which i never had before.
    after some half hour ,he started showing me porn on his laptop & turned the lights off.
    in some minutes he said ,lets masturbate & I swear i didn't know what masturbation was !
    he took all his clothes off & started unziping my jeans .
    i said i was fine "with them"

    he said he'd show me a fun way to enjoy such moments.

    i was HARD though & as i was a gay & he was a "straight".
    within a moment, he started s*cking me hard ,man !
    he was no straight ,now
    he was biting on my cock & licking it like a candy ,as if it was the best thing he ever saw

    he asked me to do him & he had condoms ,he terribly wanted my piece , & in some minutes ,i backed off & went back home at 2 pm at night.
    we never spoke to each other after that ever, he's now in Egypt (man if ur reading this forgive me )


    im not guilty for that , but today when i saw a survey that most gay man have had or crave for sexual affinity with their cousins or relatives , i was sure ,i was included .


    any out there ,who dare to accept it, like a man.
  • MikeW

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    Apr 24, 2013 1:17 PM GMT
    Yeah. When I was a teenager I had a cousin a year older than I and we 'played around' a bit. Never did butt sex. Beyond the fact we knew we had to keep it secret it wasn't much of a big deal to either of us. He *is* straight so far as I know, married, kids and all that.

    I knew brothers who 'played around' with one another, too (not me, my brother was 20 years older than I). In fact I was sometimes included in their play which I found totally hot. Again, this was as a teenager. So I don't think this is as uncommon as most people think. Also there seems to be a big taboo about it. To me its just 'boys will be boys' no big deal.
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    i lol'ed
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    Jun 15, 2013 12:12 AM GMT
    I was 9 yrs old and my 14 yr old cousin penetrated me atleast two dozen times over a five month period, I also sucked him.
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    Jun 15, 2013 4:47 AM GMT
    awww
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    Jun 15, 2013 3:38 PM GMT
    So many people in the gay community claim to have had sex with their relatives.

    This means that one of these is true:

    Either

    1) The majority are lying and have some kind of sexual interest in saying stuff like this (example, if someone says that they first penetrated their brother of whatever when they were 8, which is pretty much impossible)

    Or

    2) There is an abnormally large number of people in this community and on this forum with VERY fucked up (a pun, sue me) childhoods.

    You have probably gathered by now that I personally subscribe to the first way of viewing things icon_smile.gif

    -Flog
  • HottJoe

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    Jun 15, 2013 4:09 PM GMT
    Flog_62 saidSo many people in the gay community claim to have had sex with their relatives.

    This means that one of these is true:

    Either

    1) The majority are lying and have some kind of sexual interest in saying stuff like this (example, if someone says that they first penetrated their brother of whatever when they were 8, which is pretty much impossible)

    Or

    2) There is an abnormally large number of people in this community and on this forum with VERY fucked up (a pun, sue me) childhoods.

    You have probably gathered by now that I personally subscribe to the first way of viewing things icon_smile.gif

    -Flog


    I'm one of those people you think is "fucked up," and I'm here to say you're ignorant. Same sex experimentation is normal for boys, gay or straight, and most of the time it does NOT involve anal sex at all. Obviously, your deprived, lonley childhood has not done you any favors. Paint the Scarlet letter on your own chest and spare us the homophobic vitriol. I've had enough of people like you. You're part of the problem of sexual misconceptions, not the solution.
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    HottJoe said
    Flog_62 saidSo many people in the gay community claim to have had sex with their relatives.

    This means that one of these is true:

    Either

    1) The majority are lying and have some kind of sexual interest in saying stuff like this (example, if someone says that they first penetrated their brother of whatever when they were 8, which is pretty much impossible)

    Or

    2) There is an abnormally large number of people in this community and on this forum with VERY fucked up (a pun, sue me) childhoods.

    You have probably gathered by now that I personally subscribe to the first way of viewing things icon_smile.gif

    -Flog


    I'm one of those people you think is "fucked up," and I'm here to say you're ignorant. Same sex experimentation is normal for boys, gay or straight, and most of the time it does NOT involve anal sex at all. Obviously, your deprived, lonley childhood has not done you any favors. Paint the Scarlet letter on your own chest and spare us the homophobic vitriol. I've had enough of people like you. You're part of the problem of sexual misconceptions, not the solution.


    I didn't say YOU were fucked up, I'm saying that IN MY OPINION having sex with a relative such as a brother or cousin would be rather messed up.

    Just my opinion. I'm sorry you take offence to it.

    Anyway, lets think about what you actually said:

    Firstly, making a personal attack on me by saying I had a lonely deprived childhood (I had a great childhood; lovely parents, lovely sister, lovely friends) isn't going to aid discussion.

    Secondly, sexual experimentation while young IS indeed perfectly normal. However, this sexual experimentation being with close family members is most certainly not!

    -Flog
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    Jun 15, 2013 4:47 PM GMT
    Also, bear in mind that I was brought up in the uk. Perhaps these things have different social reception where you're from? In that case it was an unfortunate but inevitable mistake on my part, and I apologise.

    -Flog
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    Jun 15, 2013 5:15 PM GMT
    Flog_62 said
    HottJoe said
    Flog_62 saidSo many people in the gay community claim to have had sex with their relatives.

    This means that one of these is true:

    Either

    1) The majority are lying and have some kind of sexual interest in saying stuff like this (example, if someone says that they first penetrated their brother of whatever when they were 8, which is pretty much impossible)

    Or

    2) There is an abnormally large number of people in this community and on this forum with VERY fucked up (a pun, sue me) childhoods.

    You have probably gathered by now that I personally subscribe to the first way of viewing things icon_smile.gif

    -Flog


    I'm one of those people you think is "fucked up," and I'm here to say you're ignorant. Same sex experimentation is normal for boys, gay or straight, and most of the time it does NOT involve anal sex at all. Obviously, your deprived, lonley childhood has not done you any favors. Paint the Scarlet letter on your own chest and spare us the homophobic vitriol. I've had enough of people like you. You're part of the problem of sexual misconceptions, not the solution.


    I didn't say YOU were fucked up, I'm saying that IN MY OPINION having sex with a relative such as a brother or cousin would be rather messed up.

    Just my opinion. I'm sorry you take offence to it.

    Anyway, lets think about what you actually said:

    Firstly, making a personal attack on me by saying I had a lonely deprived childhood (I had a great childhood; lovely parents, lovely sister, lovely friends) isn't going to aid discussion.

    Secondly, sexual experimentation while young IS indeed perfectly normal. However, this sexual experimentation being with close family members is most certainly not!

    -Flog

    If your family and life are so great then why are you trolling a gay website with no pics and no profile??? It seems like you have a lot to hide. I don't believe anything you say about yourself, because you're only saying it AFTER I called you out for being rude and insulting people. You're spreading homophobia. Futhermore, men reach their sexual peak at 18. I'm soooo glad I didn't wait until I was years past my peak to figure out who I was.
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    Jun 15, 2013 5:27 PM GMT
    HottJoe said
    Flog_62 said
    HottJoe said
    Flog_62 saidSo many people in the gay community claim to have had sex with their relatives.

    This means that one of these is true:

    Either

    1) The majority are lying and have some kind of sexual interest in saying stuff like this (example, if someone says that they first penetrated their brother of whatever when they were 8, which is pretty much impossible)

    Or

    2) There is an abnormally large number of people in this community and on this forum with VERY fucked up (a pun, sue me) childhoods.

    You have probably gathered by now that I personally subscribe to the first way of viewing things icon_smile.gif

    -Flog


    I'm one of those people you think is "fucked up," and I'm here to say you're ignorant. Same sex experimentation is normal for boys, gay or straight, and most of the time it does NOT involve anal sex at all. Obviously, your deprived, lonley childhood has not done you any favors. Paint the Scarlet letter on your own chest and spare us the homophobic vitriol. I've had enough of people like you. You're part of the problem of sexual misconceptions, not the solution.


    I didn't say YOU were fucked up, I'm saying that IN MY OPINION having sex with a relative such as a brother or cousin would be rather messed up.

    Just my opinion. I'm sorry you take offence to it.

    Anyway, lets think about what you actually said:

    Firstly, making a personal attack on me by saying I had a lonely deprived childhood (I had a great childhood; lovely parents, lovely sister, lovely friends) isn't going to aid discussion.

    Secondly, sexual experimentation while young IS indeed perfectly normal. However, this sexual experimentation being with close family members is most certainly not!

    -Flog

    If your family and life are so great then why are you trolling a gay website with no pics and no profile??? It seems like you have a lot to hide. I don't believe anything you say about yourself, because you're only saying it AFTER I called you out for being rude and insulting people. You're spreading homophobia. Futhermore, men reach their sexual peak at 18. I'm soooo glad I didn't wait until I was years past my peak to figure out who I was.


    Commenting on a fairly empty thread with my opinion should not be branded as trolling.

    As for having no profile and that meaning that I am lonely, you are quite welcome to ask me anything you like, and I shall do my best to answer. The reason it is empty is that I am a fairly new member and haven't found the time nor motivation quite yet for filling it out (I just finished my exam season).

    I'm still not *quite* sure how I, an out of the closet gay man, is being homophobic. Could you enlighten me on that front?

    And as I have already said, I do not in any way shape or form believe that having sex at your 'sexual peak' is bad. I just believe that incest is bad.

    Cheers,

    -Flog
  • HottJoe

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    Jun 15, 2013 5:40 PM GMT
    Flog_62 said
    HottJoe said
    Flog_62 said
    HottJoe said
    Flog_62 saidSo many people in the gay community claim to have had sex with their relatives.

    This means that one of these is true:

    Either

    1) The majority are lying and have some kind of sexual interest in saying stuff like this (example, if someone says that they first penetrated their brother of whatever when they were 8, which is pretty much impossible)

    Or

    2) There is an abnormally large number of people in this community and on this forum with VERY fucked up (a pun, sue me) childhoods.

    You have probably gathered by now that I personally subscribe to the first way of viewing things icon_smile.gif

    -Flog


    I'm one of those people you think is "fucked up," and I'm here to say you're ignorant. Same sex experimentation is normal for boys, gay or straight, and most of the time it does NOT involve anal sex at all. Obviously, your deprived, lonley childhood has not done you any favors. Paint the Scarlet letter on your own chest and spare us the homophobic vitriol. I've had enough of people like you. You're part of the problem of sexual misconceptions, not the solution.


    I didn't say YOU were fucked up, I'm saying that IN MY OPINION having sex with a relative such as a brother or cousin would be rather messed up.

    Just my opinion. I'm sorry you take offence to it.

    Anyway, lets think about what you actually said:

    Firstly, making a personal attack on me by saying I had a lonely deprived childhood (I had a great childhood; lovely parents, lovely sister, lovely friends) isn't going to aid discussion.

    Secondly, sexual experimentation while young IS indeed perfectly normal. However, this sexual experimentation being with close family members is most certainly not!

    -Flog

    If your family and life are so great then why are you trolling a gay website with no pics and no profile??? It seems like you have a lot to hide. I don't believe anything you say about yourself, because you're only saying it AFTER I called you out for being rude and insulting people. You're spreading homophobia. Futhermore, men reach their sexual peak at 18. I'm soooo glad I didn't wait until I was years past my peak to figure out who I was.


    Commenting on a fairly empty thread with my opinion should not be branded as trolling.

    As for having no profile and that meaning that I am lonely, you are quite welcome to ask me anything you like, and I shall do my best to answer. The reason it is empty is that I am a fairly new member and haven't found the time nor motivation quite yet for filling it out (I just finished my exam season).

    I'm still not *quite* sure how I, an out of the closet gay man, is being homophobic. Could you enlighten me on that front?

    And as I have already said, I do not in any way shape or form believe that having sex at your 'sexual peak' is bad. I just believe that incest is bad.

    Cheers,

    -Flog


    A lot of people believe incest is bad, but two boy cousins who grow up together and experiement with their sexuality isn't bad, and no one needs or deserves your judgments. You're acting like a total prude, and you're being homophobic because you're on here talking out of your ass and demeaning people, when obvioulsy you just need a good cock in your mouth to shut you up.

    It's not my fault you're too damn lazy to post pics. Post pics and get verified, then MAYBE I'll think twice. But so far your personality isn't doing you any favors, and pics can't help that.
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    Jun 15, 2013 5:56 PM GMT
    I feel you're being incredibly rude to me.

    I'm sorry if I have touched a personal nerve of yours, and I'll update my profile today.

    Two cousins experimenting with each other is still a form of incest however, but I don't think that there is any point arguing on that front any more.

    I certainly don't wish to demean people ( wouldn't that require me to have attacked someone personally? I have not!) but calling me prudish because of my belief about incest is not just rude, it's downright insulting.



    (I'm not sure that you gathered I put 'fucked up' solely for the purposes of pun making, but alas I fear that nothing I say will change your mind about my prudish, demeaning, dishonest, trolling personality).

    I must say however that you must be an excellent judge of character, given that you can completely write off a person as being nice or anything just from discussing one single point on one page.

    Again, I apologise if I insulted you or anyone in any way with my original post. That was most certainly not my intention.





    And if you STILL doubt that I am genuine, I will be more than happy to tell you precisely what I studied in my subjects for my recent exams. That will at least show that I have not been lying to you in any way.

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    -Flog
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    Jun 15, 2013 6:34 PM GMT
    Flog_62 saidI feel you're being incredibly rude to me.

    I'm sorry if I have touched a personal nerve of yours, and I'll update my profile today.

    Two cousins experimenting with each other is still a form of incest however, but I don't think that there is any point arguing on that front any more.

    I certainly don't wish to demean people ( wouldn't that require me to have attacked someone personally? I have not!) but calling me prudish because of my belief about incest is not just rude, it's downright insulting.



    (I'm not sure that you gathered I put 'fucked up' solely for the purposes of pun making, but alas I fear that nothing I say will change your mind about my prudish, demeaning, dishonest, trolling personality).

    I must say however that you must be an excellent judge of character, given that you can completely write off a person as being nice or anything just from discussing one single point on one page.

    Again, I apologise if I insulted you or anyone in any way with my original post. That was most certainly not my intention.





    And if you STILL doubt that I am genuine, I will be more than happy to tell you precisely what I studied in my subjects for my recent exams. That will at least show that I have not been lying to you in any way.

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    -Flog

    I'm not interested in your beliefs on incest, because I don't think two cousins experimenting is in the same catagory as malicious abuse of minors, which is maybe what you should focus on, if you care about what actually harms people. You're just shaming people for no good reason.

    You're rude to "so many people in the gay community" who have had "fucked up (pun intended) childhoods." I didn't wrote those words. YOU DID. It's your opinion, and it's wrong. It's personally offensive to me.

    I'm not the one judging a large portion of the gay community. I'm only judging you. And no, I don't care what you studied in school, because you're obviously just parroting what you've been taught by bigots.

    If there was a way for me to tell you to fuck off without being rude, then I'd happily to say it nicely: Fuck off, good sir!icon_smile.gif
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    Jun 15, 2013 6:42 PM GMT
    ...this is unbelievable.

    I really don't understand how someone could be so rude...

    I apologised for what I said, and yet all you've done is be absolutely horrible to me.

    Now I know why my friends advised me not to come on this forum..

    Just..

    Wow. icon_eek.gif
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    Jun 15, 2013 6:45 PM GMT
    Flog_62 said...this is unbelievable.

    I really don't understand how someone could be so rude...

    I apologised for what I said, and yet all you've done is be absolutely horrible to me.

    Now I know why my friends advised me not to come on this forum..

    Just..

    Wow. icon_eek.gif


    Are you dense? You offended me no less than I offended you. You're implying that I, along with so many others, had a fucked up childhood. How is that NOT rude?

    Follow your friends' advice if you're just here to bash people.
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    Jun 15, 2013 6:50 PM GMT
    I apologised for that comment of mine though, I honestly didnt mean to offend anyone.

    I truly am sorry, we all make mistakes in what we say or how we word it sometimes.
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    Jun 15, 2013 6:55 PM GMT
    Flog_62 saidI apologised for that comment of mine though, I honestly didnt mean to offend anyone.

    I truly am sorry, we all make mistakes in what we say or how we word it sometimes.

    I accept your apology.
    I'm sorry if I was also rude.
    As you can tell, I obviously felt personally attacked.
    I don't represent anyone else but myself.
    I hope you learn not to judge large portions of people.
    As I said, if you want to help people who are actually harmed by incest, then please focus on victims of child abuse, not ordinary gay people who happened to have an experience that not everyone can relate to.
    I hope we're good now.
    There are lots of good qualities about RJ, even though sometimes we fight.
    Please do get around to posting pics and getting verfied!!! It makes a huge difference.
    Take care.
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    Jun 15, 2013 6:58 PM GMT
    HottJoe said
    Flog_62 saidI apologised for that comment of mine though, I honestly didnt mean to offend anyone.

    I truly am sorry, we all make mistakes in what we say or how we word it sometimes.

    I accept your apology.
    I'm sorry if I was also rude.
    As you can tell, I obviously felt personally attacked.
    I don't represent anyone else but myself.
    I hope you learn not to judge large portions of people.
    As I said, if you want to help people who are actually harmed by incest, then please focus on victims of child abuse, not ordinary gay people who happened to have an experience that not everyone can relate to.
    I hope we're good now.
    There are lots of good qualities about RJ, even though sometimes we fight.
    Please do get around to posting pics and getting verfied!!! It makes a huge difference.
    Take care.
    .

    I have posted pics, it's just I've made them private because I don't want someone from real life to recognise me :p

    I will get them verified however.
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    Jun 15, 2013 7:09 PM GMT
    ^considering some people are grossed out by any kind of sex at all, let alone gay sex, I think it's safe to say that some people are judgmental prudes, and some are not.
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    Jun 15, 2013 7:22 PM GMT
    I've always had a bit of a crush on a cousin of mine.....

    If he asked I'd do it to this day....
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    Jun 15, 2013 7:23 PM GMT
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    Zeriel said3 years back ,my cousin who's 14 yrs old to me, asked me for a whiskey which i never had before.
    after some half hour ,he started showing me porn on his laptop & turned the lights off.
    in some minutes he said ,lets masturbate & I swear i didn't know what masturbation was !
    he took all his clothes off & started unziping my jeans .
    i said i was fine "with them"

    he said he'd show me a fun way to enjoy such moments.

    i was HARD though & as i was a gay & he was a "straight".
    within a moment, he started s*cking me hard ,man !
    he was no straight ,now
    he was biting on my cock & licking it like a candy ,as if it was the best thing he ever saw

    he asked me to do him & he had condoms ,he terribly wanted my piece , & in some minutes ,i backed off & went back home at 2 pm at night.
    we never spoke to each other after that ever, he's now in Egypt (man if ur reading this forgive me )


    im not guilty for that , but today when i saw a survey that most gay man have had or crave for sexual affinity with their cousins or relatives , i was sure ,i was included .


    any out there ,who dare to accept it, like a man.



    is anyone else disturbed by all these gays that are fucking their family... that is really gross


    I don't really see it as an issue. It's strictly non reproductive sex and as long as its of consenting adults.

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    Jun 15, 2013 7:33 PM GMT
    I never mucked about with any relatives - mostly 'cos I never lived in the same country as them

    But... I did much about with male friends quite a bit. Never penetrative, but oral and mutual masturbation.

    When I was 10, I was in a friend's garden shed with him and their Burmese gardener (prob about 20yrs old ) . We were putting our hand up his longyi (like a sarong) and fondling his balls and dick. Got knows how that came about, but that was mt first feel of cock.

    Then I used to muck about with two friends a couple of years later in Pakistan (one American, one Canadian). We used to lick each other, suck - but not to completion, and I almost rimmed one of them. I've hooked up with both of them since. Suffice to say such activity of our youth didn't enter conversation. But I did take one of them to a gay fetish and porn shop in London when he visited. We tried on some bondage gear together. He's mostly definitely straight though.
    Fun times.
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    Jun 17, 2013 6:48 AM GMT
    flog if you havent read your first post here , it was provocative & rude.
    if you didn't like it ,then shut da f*ck up.

    your counselling ain't required on classifying my type of a person , seriously , stop it.

    & you tryin' to cover it with sugar coated words make no sense.
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    Jun 17, 2013 9:05 PM GMT
    Zeriel saidflog if you havent read your first post here , it was provocative & rude.
    if you didn't like it ,then shut da f*ck up.

    your counselling ain't required on classifying my type of a person , seriously , stop it.

    & you tryin' to cover it with sugar coated words make no sense.



    I was rude. I apologised.

    What more do you want me to do? :/