Good time to start dating/when to "give it up"?

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    Apr 25, 2013 2:53 AM GMT
    Hello everybody, just new to this site, and I was curious, when you start dating (which I haven't yet) how long do you usually wait until you "give it up" so to speak? I'm a virgin, but lately sex has been on my mind haha. Thanks guys icon_biggrin.gif
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    Apr 25, 2013 3:04 AM GMT
    Whenever you want. Sounds like you want to right away, why burden yourself with a relationship if that's all you want?

    Honestly just do whatever works for you. There is no need to get others' opinions on when is the appropriate time.
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    Apr 25, 2013 3:05 AM GMT
    bluey2223 saidWhenever you want. Sounds like you want to right away, why burden yourself with a relationship if that's all you want?

    Honestly just do whatever works for you. There is no need to get others' opinions on when is the appropriate time.


    This. You are young. Find someone you can enjoy and trust and go for it.

    There is no such thing as a special moment, and like any physical activity, you get better with practice, so prepare to suck (figurative and literally) and get some practice baby!
  • Danskerb

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    Apr 25, 2013 3:07 AM GMT
    most people now a days wait about an hour. I give it two if I've recently eaten.
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    Apr 25, 2013 3:07 AM GMT
    OP, please figure out how to rotate your pictures... my neck hurts!
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    Apr 25, 2013 3:08 AM GMT
    I know! haha Im sorry, I'm trying to figure that out.
  • Montague

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    Apr 25, 2013 3:10 AM GMT
    Just do it.
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    Apr 25, 2013 3:12 AM GMT
    Montague saidJust do it.


    And you, unhide thyself!
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    Apr 25, 2013 3:13 AM GMT
    Paul1992 saidI know! haha Im sorry, I'm trying to figure that out.


    Open the picture is some generic viewer (ie Windows Photo Viewer). Click the rotate button and save. BAM!
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    Apr 25, 2013 3:16 AM GMT
    Thanks!! Waiting for review now =]
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    Apr 25, 2013 3:17 AM GMT
    Chainers said
    Montague saidJust do it.


    And you, unhide thyself!



    good point icon_smile.gif!
  • Koaa2

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    Apr 25, 2013 3:23 AM GMT
    Fuck and suck as much as you can when young and free, don't wait for anything.
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    Apr 25, 2013 5:23 AM GMT
    sounds like a hot and smart idea icon_smile.gif
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    Apr 25, 2013 5:25 AM GMT
    when you're ready. there's no need to rush it. i know you probably thought the world was going end last week with the bombs going off in your city. don't rush it. just have fun. when you're ready to give it up, give it up.
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    Apr 25, 2013 6:27 AM GMT
    Shawnathan saidThere's no reason to rush and no reason to wait. Play safe.

    Dating can be tiring if it's not going like you want. Just try to be patient and not worry about it. Don't start 100 threads about how you're going to quit dating lol


    PLEASE follow this advice!!! icon_lol.gif
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    Apr 25, 2013 2:12 PM GMT
    yourname2000 said
    Trollileo saidGuys. I'm quitting guys. Just wanted to let you guys know, guys.

    Your future....

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    Have at 'er. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Oh good god, omg, ugh! hahaha

    and thanks everybody =]
  • DR2K

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    Apr 25, 2013 2:51 PM GMT
    yourname2000 said
    Trollileo saidGuys. I'm quitting guys. Just wanted to let you guys know, guys.

    Your future....

    Have at 'er.


    I think I just turned gayer.
  • Destinharbor

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    Apr 25, 2013 3:33 PM GMT
    Go for it, guy. Find some guy you like and trust and has a body you just want to put your hands all over, let him know it's your first time, and experience it. Life is short and sex is wonderful.
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    Apr 25, 2013 3:41 PM GMT
    Handsome boy dont "give it up" till you find the right guy who you know is 100& clean.icon_smile.gif Ryan and Ruben.
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    Apr 25, 2013 5:01 PM GMT
    What are you giving up? Sounds like you think that it's a commodity to be bartered and traded or something with a limited supply that will run out so you have to hoard it.

    Give yourself to whomever you feel you want to. Yes, some guys will approach sex as a game with winners and loser and will use you. Don't let that harden your heart.

    Just try to weed out the game players. Will you ever be used by some game playing jerk? Most probably. Have I ever been used? You betcha, but I never let it change me. I figure it's their loss.

    Now get out there and enjoy your sexuality, but be selective and safe and educate yourself on STDs and their transmission. Oh, and never drunk sex with someone you just meet in a bar - potential recipe for disaster.
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    Apr 25, 2013 5:12 PM GMT
    If you feel it, let happen.