sex for $$$.... an insult?

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    Apr 26, 2013 1:12 PM GMT
    So yesterday, I was on grindr checking messages and out of no where this "kid" (19 cute, cut, we've chatted before but clearly was NOT interested) sent me message and I quote: ""Hey any way you'd give me some cash to hook up? I'm going on a huge trip this weekend and need some money"

    I thought to myself, is this kid really serious. I pay him to let him fuck me? Seriously? and our previous conversation has never been more than the usual "Hey, whats up? Nm..." etc. It's called a J-O-B boo boo, stop hustling. No wonder I steer away from "kids" when chatting. Some think that just because they have looks and the bod that they can sleep with anyone AND get money... Bitch please....

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    Apr 26, 2013 1:14 PM GMT
    Nobody asked me ever to pay them but I had some guyz ask if they could have sex with me and they would pay me. That wuz creeeeeeepy.
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    Apr 26, 2013 2:22 PM GMT
    CharleyChase90232 saidNobody asked me ever to pay them but I had some guyz ask if they could have sex with me and they would pay me. That wuz creeeeeeepy.


    Uh huh.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Apr 26, 2013 2:43 PM GMT
    hustling is not new to the gay world ... of course the guy on the other end might actually be a cop icon_lol.gif
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    Apr 26, 2013 3:09 PM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidhustling is not new to the gay world ... of course the guy on the other end might actually be a cop icon_lol.gif


    Wouldn't that be entrapment? I thought that's illegal.
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    Apr 26, 2013 3:52 PM GMT
    Should've mentioned you had a coupon.
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    Apr 26, 2013 5:10 PM GMT
    Erik101 said
    AMoonHawk saidhustling is not new to the gay world ... of course the guy on the other end might actually be a cop icon_lol.gif


    Wouldn't that be entrapment? I thought that's illegal.


    That wouldn't be entrapment, no. Entrapment is when Law Enforcment sort of coerces you into committing a crime you otherwise wouldn't commit. However, it is NOT entrapment if the person is considered to be " ready, willing and able" to commit said crime/act.

    So, if you get caught up in something like this and get arrested, that is likely the approach a law Enforcment officer would take. That you were already ready, willing and able.

    Op: I don't think it's a huge deal, honestly. I've been offered money several times on Grindr and I'm sure a lot of others have too. I don't think it's wrong that this kid was offering sex as a means to an end.
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    Apr 26, 2013 7:46 PM GMT
    I've been approached by men trying buy my time. Its very pathetic and insulting.That includes creeps with" personal photo collections" and guys with BBC fetishes. I've also have been approached by porn scouters which I find pretty shocking too.
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    Apr 26, 2013 8:22 PM GMT
    I was never offered money to have sex with someone, but I have been offered money to be someone's pretend boyfriend to make their ex jealous. I did refuse that offer, because that is some SHADE!
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    Apr 26, 2013 8:49 PM GMT
    Ant94538 said...and guys with BBC fetishes.


    Like re-enacting Doctor Who and reading the news with an accent? That'd get me going.

  • Apr 26, 2013 10:59 PM GMT
    Yes, this has happened to me once before on CL.

    I talked to this guy for a few days and then he brought up "baseball cards". I thought he meant real baseball cards so I didn't care that much.

    The day before we meet, he said "remember you are going to buy baseball cards" from me?"

    I was like, "what baseball cards? I don't even like baseball"... and then he finally said baseball card is a hint word for $$$.

    I was like "WHAT?? You want me to pay you before I suck you?" Hell yeah. I was insulted.

    As a true cocksucker, I do it FOR FREE because I love it. I hate anyone that brings up $$$.
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    Apr 26, 2013 11:37 PM GMT
    Not if you're the one getting paid. Then it's a compliment.
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    Apr 26, 2013 11:43 PM GMT
    happens to me all the time

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    Apr 26, 2013 11:47 PM GMT
    Inform him it's ILLEGAL and that you've reported his ass to the police for soliciting prostitution. Bet you won't hear him mention money to you again.
  • Fable

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    Apr 27, 2013 12:12 AM GMT
    I got offered fifty pounds to give tho dude a bj. I was insulted. My bjs are def worth at least 150.
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    Apr 27, 2013 2:41 AM GMT
    You need to get paid to cover the cost of getting rid of those nasty bed bugs.
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    Apr 27, 2013 2:46 AM GMT
    Pfft! If I had a nickel for errtime that happened to me.

    Usually they use the keyword "roses" or "generous"....

    As if!!!!
  • jo2hotbod

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    Apr 27, 2013 1:25 PM GMT
    Post his pic, then I'll decide
  • ThatSwimmerGu...

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    Apr 27, 2013 2:05 PM GMT
    A guy on Gindr offered to take me out to dinner, said he would pay. He was a little too old to go out with without raising question, but he was sexy.
    Anyways that's annoying, who the hell needs to pay for it. So many other options.
  • HndsmKansan

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    Apr 27, 2013 2:08 PM GMT
    I've had experiences where I've been offered money, several times outright, a couple of times in kind of a vague way. I think if you are offered money or someone encourages you to pay them.... just know it may be legit or may be some legal trap. To respond online to someone involving "cash" is probably not very smart....

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  • calibro

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    Apr 27, 2013 2:32 PM GMT
    ya'll ho hags are the biggest hypocrites. when you guys stop watching gay porn, i.e., creating a system where guys get paid to fuck other guys for your enjoyment, you can go an holier than thou rant about how insulting it is to be in position of money being equated with sex.

    if you want to pay for sex or get paid for sex, who cares. if you have a problem with it, then blow up the internet.
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    Apr 27, 2013 2:35 PM GMT
    Erik101 said
    AMoonHawk saidhustling is not new to the gay world ... of course the guy on the other end might actually be a cop icon_lol.gif


    Wouldn't that be entrapment? I thought that's illegal.
    I think this happens in the hetero world, etc also...
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    Apr 27, 2013 2:38 PM GMT
    Reply with cam4.com, then block his trash.
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    Apr 27, 2013 2:38 PM GMT
    Once this guy wanted to buy my socks for 10 euros each... I was really hesitant. The reason why I refused was just because I didn't want to walk back home with bare feet in my shoes.
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    Apr 27, 2013 3:02 PM GMT
    Isugemi saidOnce this guy wanted to buy my socks for 10 euros each... I was really hesitant. The reason why I refused was just because I didn't want to walk back home with bare feet in my shoes.


    Were they Gucci or something lol icon_confused.gif