People's hygiene (or lack thereof) at bars..

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    Apr 28, 2013 7:04 PM GMT
    There's something lately that has been noticing and not sure how to approach it. Okay, I go out to the bars in my area..and I kid you not almost everytime there is always someone who is funking up the place. What's so embarrassing is the person is usually Black! I'm like, ain't this some bullshit. Now all these White folks going to think Black people smell bad.

    For example last night, I ran into 2 guys at the club both Black. One was clearly high off his ass and had major B.O. smell. He's dancing all around waving his musky arms everywhere running people off. The other just always has bad breath everytime I see hm, ugh. Then, there's one person who I see every so often that is a Black drag queen and this bitch does not believe in putting on anti-perspirant or something. She literally clears the dancefloor because her musky arms be stinking up the whole damn place.

    I'm like this is ridiculous. I always make sure I brush my tounge and teeth and wear anti-perspirant and cologne and lotion before I go out so I'm smelling good all night. I don't want someone blowing me off from a distance because they think "Black people stink", which throughout my life I have had people tell me that (not about me though) here and there.
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    Apr 28, 2013 9:00 PM GMT
    dude, i doubt "white folks" are thinking blk ppl stink cuz one black man smells funky.

    I've smelled da funk on plenty whites guys too, it aint a black thanng gurrrl.
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    Apr 28, 2013 9:02 PM GMT
    I think my sweat smells delightful icon_smile.gif but I come across smelly people of various ethnicities. I do find black guys are more likely to wear aftershave and I like the smell of a nice aftershave...
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    Apr 28, 2013 9:09 PM GMT
    Import saiddude, i doubt "white folks" are thinking blk ppl stink cuz one black man smells funky.

    I've smelled da funk on plenty whites guys too, it aint a black thanng gurrrl.


    lol, no don't get me wrong I know if I go down to beer bust right now, there will be tons of bears stinking up the place too. But, I think that's kind of 'accepted' at a raunchy beer bar. The 'manly' smell.

    But at a Saturday night at a nightclub, that's a bit much. It's more of a: not everyone who has BO is Black, but seems like alot of the Black ones have BO. It's definentely not 1 Black man lol. The 1 drag queen I mentioned that's always dancing around at one particular bar is the worst. As a minority, I feel ashamed when the only 1 other Black person has no concept of what anti-perspirant is AND he's dressed like a woman.

    I remember one of my friends from awhile back told me about people's body chemistry and how he once dated a Black guy but couldn't get over the smell of his 'body chemistry'. But I'm like, I'm (mostly) Black too but I also smell a difference in body chemistry among my race LOL. He figued it had something to do with it.
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    Apr 28, 2013 10:29 PM GMT
    Some played negro saidNow all these White folks going to think Black people smell bad.


    1. Looks like none of the white members in here think that at all.
    2. BO can be showered away while self-hate issues are usually permanent.
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    Apr 28, 2013 10:42 PM GMT
    I have run in to a few guys whose breath literally smelled like someone took a crap in their mouth. Including a couple of fine gym-built club kids. I don't really know, but I'm assuming that's just another one of the great benefits of tweaking.
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    Apr 28, 2013 10:43 PM GMT
    Huh! Is this a recent trend? I've never noticed any bad personal smells at gay bars or clubs. And certainly not from Black dudes, or any particular group. The only offense I note is using too much cologne. Is this a unique Kansas City, Missouri affliction?
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    Apr 28, 2013 11:46 PM GMT
    Some guys get off on BO. They think it's super masculine to smell like rotting garbage. icon_lol.gif
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    Apr 28, 2013 11:52 PM GMT
    xrichx saidSome guys get off on BO. They think it's super masculine to smell like rotting garbage. icon_lol.gif


    It isn't?! icon_surprised.gif
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    Apr 28, 2013 11:58 PM GMT
    ART_DECO saidHuh! Is this a recent trend? I've never noticed any bad personal smells at gay bars or clubs. And certainly not from Black dudes, or any particular group. The only offense I note is using too much cologne. Is this a unique Kansas City, Missouri affliction?

    Oh gawd the amount of cologne men where *shudders* it's put on so heavily you can actually taste it when they pass you!

    Just_Tim said
    xrichx saidSome guys get off on BO. They think it's super masculine to smell like rotting garbage. icon_lol.gif


    It isn't?! icon_surprised.gif

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    Apr 29, 2013 12:03 AM GMT
    Just_Tim said
    xrichx saidSome guys get off on BO. They think it's super masculine to smell like rotting garbage. icon_lol.gif


    It isn't?! icon_surprised.gif

    That fad is passé
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    Apr 29, 2013 12:18 AM GMT
    So people AREN'T avoiding me because they're jealous. Damn.
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    Apr 29, 2013 12:32 AM GMT
    Here in Hot & Humid New Orleans, Body Odor can be an Equal Oppertunity Offender.




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    Apr 29, 2013 12:45 AM GMT
    lilTanker said
    ART_DECO saidHuh! Is this a recent trend? I've never noticed any bad personal smells at gay bars or clubs. And certainly not from Black dudes, or any particular group. The only offense I note is using too much cologne. Is this a unique Kansas City, Missouri affliction?

    Oh gawd the amount of cologne men where *shudders* it's put on so heavily you can actually taste it when they pass you!

    Just_Tim said
    xrichx saidSome guys get off on BO. They think it's super masculine to smell like rotting garbage. icon_lol.gif


    It isn't?! icon_surprised.gif

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    Oh there must be a happy medium... Nothing worse than being in a gay men area and your nose starts running and eyes tear up cause of the over use of hideous aftershaves, especially the cheap knockoffs from Bali yucky!.
    Then there is the problem of BO that can be sexy, on occasion
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    Apr 29, 2013 2:29 AM GMT
    I should take a video in the car train. Last week I saw the light skin dude picking nose and eating boogers... yack. I took a picture but I am not gonna post hereicon_lol.gif
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    Apr 29, 2013 2:34 AM GMT
    I find cologne as offensive as someone who stinks. Half the people you meet have allergies and cologne is one of the biggest triggers. Just take a damn shower before you go out and leave it at that.
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    Apr 29, 2013 2:50 AM GMT
    great_scott said
    1. Looks like none of the white members in here think that at all.
    2. BO can be showered away while self-hate issues are usually permanent.


    lol, it's not self-hate. If I notice I keep running into guys of similiar background as me who are smelly, I don't want that to have a in-direct correlation on me. Because then people probably think, "well that guy, that guy and that guy smelled funny, so he must smell funny too"

    I'm sure a woman would be embarassed if she was in a room full of men and the only other woman there smelled like fish. That's not being womanizing.
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    Apr 29, 2013 2:52 AM GMT
    Scruffypup saidI find cologne as offensive as someone who stinks. Half the people you meet have allergies and cologne is one of the biggest triggers. Just take a damn shower before you go out and leave it at that.


    +1.
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    Apr 29, 2013 2:53 AM GMT
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    Some played negro saidNow all these White folks going to think Black people smell bad.


    1. Looks like none of the white members in here think that at all.
    2. BO can be showered away while self-hate issues are usually permanent.


    can i hug you?

    I am so tired of this coon trying to justify his desire to only date white men by putting down other black men.
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    Apr 29, 2013 2:57 AM GMT
    ^^^

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    Apr 29, 2013 2:59 AM GMT
    Dekiruman said
    can i hug you?
    I am so tired of this coon trying to justify his desire to only date white men by putting down other black men.


    LOL, you are delusional to the highest degree. I was on a date with an Asian guy last night and most of my boyfriends have been Puerto Rican. Where the fuck do you come off?

    Not to mention I have gotten with plenty guys my race in the past...this is more about my race in the club setting. I'm not putting down other Black men, I'm trying to create an awareness among us to STEP UP when dealing with body odor. If you see that as a put-down, maybe you need to smell your underarms buddy.

    It's embarrassing to me as a Black person to go out to a club and see ANYONE who is not Black stifly moving away from a Black person or quickly looking the other way because the Black person is emitting some horrid smell. I don't like the idea of my race being stinky unless it's some kind of fetish bar that appreciates BO. This is moreso true in gay bars as most times Blacks are minorities, so we don't need people making additional assumptions about us due to some who choose not to use the right Deodorant.
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    Apr 29, 2013 3:04 AM GMT

    Didn't you know that BO is the new thing? It's like totally Masc4Masc to reek of manly, testosterone-drenched sweat.

    It's a huge problem (turn on for some) in the bear/levi/leather scene. That natural, unperfumed, man-scent is like the scent of shit that drives flies crazy and causes them to run in an orgasmic, drunken stupor.

    I've literally had experiences where my nose burned and my eyes watered whenever I stood next to some of these guys. It's so fucking offensive. I just want to take them out back, strip them, and hose them down for an hour or so.



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    Apr 29, 2013 3:08 AM GMT
    I remember several times seeing attractive looking guys at the club and then we get close enough t each other and they reek of alcohol and sweat this one time this guy spoke to me and i accidently inhaled his scent and literally almost coughed


    upon further reading of this thread i want to state that my comment has nothing i repeat NOTHING to do with race, in fact the guy was not even black .... Since you guys always have to stick racist shit into it ugggh, i swear some of you guys are really sickening, i've never had to have so many racial arguments/debates until i started dealing with homo guys , GET IT TOGETHER !!!!!!
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    Apr 29, 2013 3:09 AM GMT
    He_Man said
    Didn't you know that BO is the new thing? It's like totally Masc4Masc to reek of manly, testosterone-drenched sweat.

    It's a huge problem (turn on for some) in the bear/levi/leather scene. That natural, unperfumed, man-scent is like the scent of shit that drives flies crazy and causes them to run in an orgasmic, drunken stupor.

    I've literally had experiences where my nose burned and my eyes watered whenever I stood next to some of these guys. It's so fucking offensive. I just want to take them out back, strip them, and hose them down for an hour or so.


    Like I said, there's a bear/leather bar in town that has beer bust and MOST of those guys smell pretty bad themselves. I know that' a fact. I will say I dated a guy briefly who did not want me wearing deodorant when we went out. I always did anyway. He'd get so mad.

    I'm like dude, I don't want my underarms feeling/smelling like my ass-crack. It's okay to smell musky down there. Put your tounge in it, sniff it, spit on it, whatever. icon_twisted.gif
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    Apr 29, 2013 3:09 AM GMT
    I carry a bottle of Ozark skunk sent ,just one drop and the bar is cleared out ., works every time .