No locals have shown interest in me in a long time

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    Apr 29, 2013 12:54 AM GMT
    Not sure what I'm doing wrong icon_confused.gif
  • Apparition

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    Apr 29, 2013 2:43 AM GMT
    lose weight, gain muscles, and

    ASK GUYS OUT they are all shy pussies and will bite if asked. TAKE WHAT YOU WANT don't sit around like a girl waiting for a prom date.
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    Apr 29, 2013 3:10 AM GMT
    Apparition saidlose weight, gain muscles, and

    ASK GUYS OUT they are all shy pussies and will bite if asked. TAKE WHAT YOU WANT don't sit around like a girl waiting for a prom date.

    This sounds a little insensitive but I think it's good advice. You have to decide what it is you want and how badly you want it. If you want it bad enough, you'll make yourself appealing in all ways to attract more positive attention.

    If no one is showing attention, then change. Physically, mentally, emotionally, change cities, do something.
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    Apr 29, 2013 3:29 AM GMT
    sucks
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    Apr 29, 2013 3:36 AM GMT
    Apparition saidlose weight, gain muscles, and

    ASK GUYS OUT they are all shy pussies and will bite if asked. TAKE WHAT YOU WANT don't sit around like a girl waiting for a prom date.


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  • calibro

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    Apr 29, 2013 4:49 AM GMT
    have you tried not caring?
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    Apr 29, 2013 4:53 AM GMT
    ^ This.

    And count your blessings. "The locals" could all be obese train wrecks, or children. Or both. icon_redface.gif
    Sometimes it's best to hunt far away, where nobody knows your address.
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    Apr 29, 2013 5:56 PM GMT
    Isn't it somewhat of a crime to be openly gay in Salt Lake?

    Your choices are either Mormans or guys who have 2 or 3 boyfriends. Good luck!
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    Apr 29, 2013 6:05 PM GMT
    Apparition saidlose weight, gain muscles, and

    ASK GUYS OUT they are all shy pussies and will bite if asked. TAKE WHAT YOU WANT don't sit around like a girl waiting for a prom date.
    ha ha ha wow, a good respond. i am sure it could have been stated in a more nurturing and positive way. i think what the poster is trying to say is that you have to step outside of your comfort zone and approach guys. if they aren't coming to you then you should approach them. what's the worst thing that can happen. they say no. who cares, move on to the next one
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    Apr 29, 2013 6:05 PM GMT
    calibro saidhave you tried not caring?


    Good one! icon_biggrin.gif
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    Apr 29, 2013 6:35 PM GMT
    mikeyslc saidNo locals have shown interest in me in a long time...
    Not sure what I'm doing wrong


    Go out to a local hangout and find a stranger who seems to have difficulty connecting with the people around him. Watch him from afar. Then, go up to him and tell him what he's doing wrong. I'm sure he'll thank you for the constructive criticism.
  • Apparition

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    Apr 30, 2013 2:16 AM GMT
    tuffguyndc said
    Apparition saidlose weight, gain muscles, and

    ASK GUYS OUT they are all shy pussies and will bite if asked. TAKE WHAT YOU WANT don't sit around like a girl waiting for a prom date.
    ha ha ha wow, a good respond. i am sure it could have been stated in a more nurturing and positive way. i think what the poster is trying to say is that you have to step outside of your comfort zone and approach guys. if they aren't coming to you then you should approach them. what's the worst thing that can happen. they say no. who cares, move on to the next one



    there is nothing more positive than the truth. look at every hot list on here, they got noticed almost 100% of the time because they dont need to lose weight and they gained muscles.


    If you read the thread "do you normally ask guys out or wait to be asked" almost 100% said they wait to be asked.