I finally came out to my parents!

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    Apr 30, 2013 1:28 AM GMT
    During my lunch with Ckfeezy today, he gave me some great advice and stuff to think about. And he kinda gave me that push I needed to finally come out to my parents. And so all through out my drive home I was practicing how I should come out to them.

    Well when I got home I took my dad aside and just said "Dad, I don't like dating girls, I prefer to date guys." My dad just looked stunned...then he just hugged me and said "I love you, you are my son, and nothing will ever change that, I support you no matter what"

    When I told my mom she just said "I just want grandkids one day"

    I am kinda shaken up by telling them, but am still very very happy! icon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gif
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    Apr 30, 2013 1:29 AM GMT
    Do you feel liberated in a way? Like a weight off your shoulders?

    I'm glad you've been able to make this final step.
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    Apr 30, 2013 1:35 AM GMT
    RadRTT saidDuring my lunch with Ckfeezy today, he gave me some great advice and stuff to think about. And he kinda gave me that push I needed to finally come out to my parents. And so all through out my drive home I was practicing how I should come out to them.

    Well when I got home I took my dad aside and just said "Dad, I don't like dating girls, I prefer to date guys." My dad just looked stunned...then he just hugged me and said "I love you, you are my son, and nothing will ever change that, I support you no matter what"

    When I told my mom she just said "I just want grandkids one day"

    I am kinda shaken up by telling them, but am still very very happy! icon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gif


    Congrats!!! icon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gif
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    Apr 30, 2013 1:37 AM GMT
    RadRTT saidDuring my lunch with Ckfeezy today, he gave me some great advice and stuff to think about. And he kinda gave me that push I needed to finally come out to my parents. And so all through out my drive home I was practicing how I should come out to them.

    Well when I got home I took my dad aside and just said "Dad, I don't like dating girls, I prefer to date guys." My dad just looked stunned...then he just hugged me and said "I love you, you are my son, and nothing will ever change that, I support you no matter what"

    When I told my mom she just said "I just want grandkids one day"

    I am kinda shaken up by telling them, but am still very very happy! icon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gif


    icon_sad.gif That's why my mom doesn't want me with who I'm with. But besides that... yeah Rad!!!
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    Apr 30, 2013 1:39 AM GMT
    SuperNova700 saidYou actually talk to CKfeezy???......icon_neutral.gif
    Awww you are jealous! That is so cute!
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    Apr 30, 2013 1:51 AM GMT
    Congratulations! I'm so happy it went well for you. It must be such a relief.
  • MikeW

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    Apr 30, 2013 2:15 AM GMT
    Congrats, rad! Happy for you icon_smile.gif
  • RaggedyMan

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    Apr 30, 2013 2:20 AM GMT
    yay! congrats. i honestly thought you told them already. heck, what do i know icon_smile.gif
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    Apr 30, 2013 2:24 AM GMT
    I am very proud of you. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Apr 30, 2013 2:38 AM GMT
    Congratulations! It's not easy coming out to your parents, you should feel proud of that accomplishment. It's also great to hear that they took it well and were supportive. Awesome news, man.

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    Apr 30, 2013 2:46 AM GMT
    Awesome news. Congrats.
  • Webster666

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    Apr 30, 2013 2:47 AM GMT
    You got some great parents...
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    Apr 30, 2013 3:00 AM GMT
    Congratulations! But if you don't mind me asking, are you still bisexual?
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    Apr 30, 2013 3:08 AM GMT
    Erik101 saidCongratulations! But if you don't mind me asking, are you still bisexual?


    I was kind of wondering the same thing. I didn't want to come off as offensive....
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    Apr 30, 2013 3:27 AM GMT
    YAY!!!


    (As if they didn't have a suspicion... PSSSH) Hahaha.
    In pure jest, I swear.
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    Apr 30, 2013 4:10 AM GMT
    Well done, RadRTT!

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    Apr 30, 2013 4:54 AM GMT
    congratulations, man. *e-hug*
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    Apr 30, 2013 5:02 AM GMT
    Congratulations!!

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    Apr 30, 2013 5:08 AM GMT
    You're gay??? icon_eek.gif
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    Apr 30, 2013 6:18 AM GMT
    Congrats. I'm glad to hear it went so well.
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    Apr 30, 2013 8:32 AM GMT
    Awesome, Rad. Glad they took the news in stride. Great parents. Great son!
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    Apr 30, 2013 2:16 PM GMT
    RadRTT saidDuring my lunch with Ckfeezy today, he gave me some great advice and stuff to think about. And he kinda gave me that push I needed to finally come out to my parents. And so all through out my drive home I was practicing how I should come out to them.

    Well when I got home I took my dad aside and just said "Dad, I don't like dating girls, I prefer to date guys." My dad just looked stunned...then he just hugged me and said "I love you, you are my son, and nothing will ever change that, I support you no matter what"

    When I told my mom she just said "I just want grandkids one day"

    I am kinda shaken up by telling them, but am still very very happy! icon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gif


    You're not fucking Mom, nor Dad, so...you'll be just fine.
  • ThatSwimmerGu...

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    Apr 30, 2013 2:24 PM GMT
    I probably will not tell mine until i am 100% financially independent. They are rather religious and would probably not take it too well.