pazzy saidthey probably would deny me entry for not being "gay enough".
Lol no the gays would want the masculine men.
It's the femmes who might have to hop the fence.
don't know about that especially in my case. they might think i'm going to shoot up the island or want to jack the crime rate up. once upon a time not too long ago, i almost got kicked out of a gay bar. according to the bouncer, i looked like i "didn't belong there" and she was getting ready to know me out til someone that i was rolling with told her that i was hanging with him and the rest of the group i was with.
Lol were you ever in a gang?
do i look like a gang member?
to be honest with you, i actually kinda have a little bone to pick with you on something that said sometime ago. something about me "acting like i was the black member on the site?" really, dude. what's worse is that you're black like me saying that shit? i have no beef with you, we're cool and all but i'd be lying if i didn't take offense to what you said.
I stand by what I said. Keeping it real you were acting like you were THE black member instead of A black member. It felt like you were going out of your way to live up to all the stereotypes of black people. Calling people hoes and talking bout weed and starting fights you were never going to win.
You're chilling out now but for a while I was annoyed with you.
sorry if this comes off like i'm angry with you and etc. it's not intended to but i have to correct you right there though because i think you're a bit misguided with what you're thinking.
how is "a black member" supposed act like? how was i portraying a stereotype for black people? i don't represent all black people and neither do you and it's not our job to do that shit. if someone looks at what i do and what i say as being the "token black guy" stereotype, that's them being ignorant and racist. my actions, behavior and etc is me just being me. it has nothing to do with my skin color, my sex, my gender and etc. there is no such thing as acting black, acting white and etc. i have the right to curse, say i want to smoke weed, kick threats and etc without it being associated with my skin color. even that doesn't give anyone the right to judge me and etc. they don't have the right. nor does it give anybody the right to assume such or to even go there with me as some members in here have thinking they're being slick. anybody on this site can be a gang member. there's no way of telling. anyone that choses to go down that road with me or any other black posters in here and with others for because they see the skin color as i said before is ignorant and needs to be educated. i don't judge anybody here so i would like the same respect.
with that said, i feel that the bouncer at that club was being a bit racist because she assumed without a good reason that i didn't belong there. i can't think of another reason. unless i caused a disturbance or threatened somebody, she didn't have the right to even do such.
in your case though, i feel that you're misguided so i'm not going to hold that against you even though i was a bit offended at that.