Do gay guys normally ask for penis size if their interest is just a hook up?

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    May 03, 2013 4:21 PM GMT
    This guy and I have been texting for 2 days now. On the 2nd day, the convo became more personal. We talked about sexual experiences and stuff... Then he asked about penis size. Of course, I was honest and told him I have a 12 incher. Just kidding. Anyway, is this guy into hookups? Or do gay guys normally ask how big someone is if they have interest in you even as a LTR?
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    May 03, 2013 4:26 PM GMT
    In my experience guys only ask this if they plan on getting laid.
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    May 03, 2013 4:30 PM GMT
    not sure, i tend to think most guys that ask that are only interested in sex, however sometimes i think asking if someone is top or bot might be a reasonable question because some people are not willing to flip, but in general if a guy that i might have liked asked me about me penis size in a regular conversation, i would be instantly turned off, it seems only gay guys do this, you never hear straight guys asking " how wide is your vagina ?? "
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    May 03, 2013 4:35 PM GMT
    CopperDevil saidnot sure, i tend to think most guys that ask that are only interested in sex, however sometimes i think asking if someone is top or bot might be a reasonable question because some people are not willing to flip, but in general if a guy that i might have liked asked me about me penis size in a regular conversation, i would be instantly turned off, it seems only gay guys do this, you never hear straight guys asking " how wide is your vagina ?? "


    No but they will talk about their own size and maybe ask her how tight she is.

    But we aren't straight so the point is moot.
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    May 03, 2013 4:36 PM GMT
    CopperDevil saidnot sure, i tend to think most guys that ask that are only interested in sex, however sometimes i think asking if someone is top or bot might be a reasonable question because some people are not willing to flip, but in general if a guy that i might have liked asked me about me penis size in a regular conversation, i would be instantly turned off, it seems only gay guys do this, you never hear straight guys asking " how wide is your vagina ?? "



    well the average unaroused vagina is 2.5 to 3 inches wide, so it wouldn't be an unreasonable question for them to ask.. so if she says 4inches, she either just had a baby or is big old giant vagina's slut.

    http://facts.randomhistory.com/vagina-facts.html
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    May 03, 2013 4:39 PM GMT
    seriously speaking,, there is such a thing as too big for me... and if that is the case I would feel back about getting serious to a big dick man because I know his long term sexual satisfaction would be in danger.. So unlike the song says, I want a short dick man. icon_wink.gif

    however, usually in my experience its only someone who is trying to get laid ask that question.. and my answer is always teeny tiny.
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    May 03, 2013 4:39 PM GMT
    size queens

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    May 03, 2013 4:50 PM GMT
    dudewithabeard said
    CopperDevil saidnot sure, i tend to think most guys that ask that are only interested in sex, however sometimes i think asking if someone is top or bot might be a reasonable question because some people are not willing to flip, but in general if a guy that i might have liked asked me about me penis size in a regular conversation, i would be instantly turned off, it seems only gay guys do this, you never hear straight guys asking " how wide is your vagina ?? "



    well the average unaroused vagina is 2.5 to 3 inches wide, so it wouldn't be an unreasonable question for them to ask.. so if she says 4inches, she either just had a baby or is big old giant vagina's slut.

    http://facts.randomhistory.com/vagina-facts.html



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    May 03, 2013 4:50 PM GMT
    dudewithabeard saidseriously speaking,, there is such a thing as too big for me... and if that is the case I would feel back about getting serious to a big dick man because I know his long term sexual satisfaction would be in danger.. So unlike the song says, I want a short dick man. icon_wink.gif

    however, usually in my experience its only someone who is trying to get laid ask that question.. and my answer is always teeny tiny.


    How big too big?
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    May 03, 2013 4:53 PM GMT
    MisfitToy said
    dudewithabeard saidseriously speaking,, there is such a thing as too big for me... and if that is the case I would feel back about getting serious to a big dick man because I know his long term sexual satisfaction would be in danger.. So unlike the song says, I want a short dick man. icon_wink.gif

    however, usually in my experience its only someone who is trying to get laid ask that question.. and my answer is always teeny tiny.


    How big too big?


    in real world sizes,, 6-7 is a cutting off point.. but even then the size of the head can be issues as well.. but boy wouldn't that be an interesting get to know you kind of question.. I can hear it now.. "so what's your favorite color, do you have any brothers and sisters, how big is the size of your dickhead"

    it all goes back to the fact that if someone is asking about dick size, it is usually for immediate sexual purposes.
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    May 03, 2013 4:54 PM GMT
    CopperDevil said
    dudewithabeard said
    CopperDevil saidnot sure, i tend to think most guys that ask that are only interested in sex, however sometimes i think asking if someone is top or bot might be a reasonable question because some people are not willing to flip, but in general if a guy that i might have liked asked me about me penis size in a regular conversation, i would be instantly turned off, it seems only gay guys do this, you never hear straight guys asking " how wide is your vagina ?? "



    well the average unaroused vagina is 2.5 to 3 inches wide, so it wouldn't be an unreasonable question for them to ask.. so if she says 4inches, she either just had a baby or is big old giant vagina's slut.

    http://facts.randomhistory.com/vagina-facts.html



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    lol.. icon_wink.gif forgive me,, I am a bit frisky today and I seem to have left the filter for my mouth at home today..oops
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    May 03, 2013 4:59 PM GMT
    dudewithabeard said
    MisfitToy said
    dudewithabeard saidseriously speaking,, there is such a thing as too big for me... and if that is the case I would feel back about getting serious to a big dick man because I know his long term sexual satisfaction would be in danger.. So unlike the song says, I want a short dick man. icon_wink.gif

    however, usually in my experience its only someone who is trying to get laid ask that question.. and my answer is always teeny tiny.


    How big too big?


    in real world sizes,, 6-7 is a cutting off point.. but even then the size of the head can be issues as well.. but boy wouldn't that be an interesting get to know you kind of question.. I can hear it now.. "so what's your favorite color, do you have any brothers and sisters, how big is the size of your dickhead"

    it all goes back to the fact that if someone is asking about dick size, it is usually for immediate sexual purposes.


    That is true. I've seen some very thick penis heads and it made me wonder how it was going to fit in there. The dick itself was an okay size.

    Personally I like 8 inches or longer and at least four inches wide.
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    May 03, 2013 5:00 PM GMT
    dudewithabeard saidin real world sizes,, 6-7 is a cutting off point.. but even then the size of the head can be issues as well..


    Interesting. Although I've only been told twice that I was too big -- most bottoms I hook up with can roll with what I have.

    Though in the handful of times where no amount of fingerwork or tonguework would get a particularly tight (who'd tole me he could take me easily) to open up, I just settled for facefucking him.


    dudewithabeard said...it all goes back to the fact that if someone is asking about dick size, it is usually for immediate sexual purposes.


    Pretty much this is it. ;)
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    May 03, 2013 5:04 PM GMT
    No, he wants measurements so he can go buy the engagement ring. You may want to practice your expression of delightful surprise in the mirror for when he goes down on his knees. icon_smile.gif
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    May 03, 2013 5:12 PM GMT
    seekonk saidNo, he wants measurements so he can go buy the engagement ring. You may want to practice your expression of delightful surprise in the mirror for when he goes down on his knees. icon_smile.gif

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