What do Men Want ?

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    May 03, 2013 4:36 PM GMT
    I get a lot of views on Manhunt and on Adam4Adam but I hardly get messaged what gives ?
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    May 03, 2013 4:38 PM GMT
    OK, this it the annoying as shit Anthony.

    Perhaps you forgot that you just made a thread about this EXACT same topic a few days ago.

    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/3169737/
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    May 03, 2013 4:52 PM GMT
    Men want other men not to be whiny.
    Men want men who can stand on their own and not be dependent on them.
    Men want a man who is not clingy.
    Men want a man who is not going to get all upset because someone forgot their anniversary or birthday or was late.
    Men want a man who is (not just acts) masculine.
    Men want a man who is confident in himself.
    Men want a man that is intelligent.
    Men want a man that is humorous.

    If you can't fit this mold then get a woman they will understand your sensitivity.
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    May 03, 2013 4:58 PM GMT
    Constant; and I mean non-stop, affirmation/validation.
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    May 03, 2013 5:18 PM GMT
    dustin_K_tx saidConstant; and I mean non-stop, affirmation/validation.

    Personally, I can't stand it when someone is constantly providing some sort of affirmation of validation, or even providing them at all ... it makes me think they are up to something and are trying to pull the wool over my eyes. Real men bullshit each other with cut ups and tear downs. Affirmations is a woman thing, it comes from maternal instinct. If a guy is doing this, then he is likely up to no good. Maybe cheating on you or something.
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    May 03, 2013 5:52 PM GMT
    A guy who knows how to check his grammar.
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    May 03, 2013 6:00 PM GMT
    sex and a sammich
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    May 03, 2013 6:29 PM GMT
    dudewithabeard saidA guy who knows how to check his grammar.


    sorry webster
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    May 03, 2013 7:01 PM GMT
    anthony2394 said
    dudewithabeard saidA guy who knows how to check his grammar.


    sorry webster


    oh, you wanted a serious answer..

    well, with my limited experience on those sites is that the men on there want a muscle top that they can call Sir or Daddy while getting fucked or a smooth twink bottom they can call Boy or Bitch Boy while they are fucking them.

    also, and I am not sure about Manhunt, but on A4A a lot of the guys want to pnp.

    but the real answer to your question is a question, "what do you want?" with a guy from one of those sites. Also an important question is what do you have written on your profiles. What you say makes a huge difference.

    Now if you are just asking what men want in general.. well that answer is as vast as the number of men out there.. anything from a quickie in the car to a ltr.

    most importantly you need to access what your expectations with what you want and where you are looking.

    and seriously, as a single man who is experiencing the same dating pool no matter where I am at.. good luck, hope you find what you are looking for. icon_smile.gif
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    May 03, 2013 7:05 PM GMT
    dudewithabeard said
    anthony2394 said
    dudewithabeard saidA guy who knows how to check his grammar.


    sorry webster


    oh, you wanted a serious answer..

    well, with my limited experience on those sites is that the men on there want a muscle top that they can call Sir or Daddy while getting fucked or a smooth twink bottom they can call Boy or Bitch Boy while they are fucking them.

    also, and I am not sure about Manhunt, but on A4A a lot of the guys want to pnp.

    but the real answer to your question is a question, "what do you want?" with a guy from one of those sites. Also an important question is what do you have written on your profiles. What you say makes a huge difference.

    Now if you are just asking what men want in general.. well that answer is as vast as the number of men out there.. anything from a quickie in the car to a ltr.

    most importantly you need to access what your expectations with what you want and where you are looking.

    and seriously, as a single man who is experiencing the same dating pool no matter where I am at.. good luck, hope you find what you are looking for. icon_smile.gif


    well im not really asking for much like I'm just looking for friends see where it goes from there , like I would like someone that I can talk to with like do something with common interests . I'm not picky
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    May 03, 2013 7:11 PM GMT
    don't be afraid to message someone. they might be shy or scared to say hi to you.
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    May 03, 2013 7:15 PM GMT
    pazzy saiddon't be afraid to message someone. they might be shy or scared to say hi to you.


    true but it would be nice for someone to message me for a change , most of the time i feel like i have to do the talking i feel like im talking to a wall sometimes
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    May 03, 2013 7:19 PM GMT
    anthony2394 said
    pazzy saiddon't be afraid to message someone. they might be shy or scared to say hi to you.


    true but it would be nice for someone to message me for a change , most of the time i feel like i have to do the talking i feel like im talking to a wall sometimes


    it could be anybody though? even if your dream guy were to approach you, you're going to have to meet him halfway. it's not going to fall in your lap. if you really want it that bad, you're going to have to go out and get it. you also can't afford to be picky either. otherwise, you're just going to have to learn how to live with your situation.
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    May 03, 2013 7:20 PM GMT
    pazzy said
    anthony2394 said
    pazzy saiddon't be afraid to message someone. they might be shy or scared to say hi to you.


    true but it would be nice for someone to message me for a change , most of the time i feel like i have to do the talking i feel like im talking to a wall sometimes


    it could be anybody though?


    yeah but im mean like someone who is like towards my age range i get like 64 year old messaging me that makes me feel uncomfortable
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    May 03, 2013 7:26 PM GMT
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    pazzy said
    anthony2394 said
    pazzy saiddon't be afraid to message someone. they might be shy or scared to say hi to you.


    true but it would be nice for someone to message me for a change , most of the time i feel like i have to do the talking i feel like im talking to a wall sometimes


    it could be anybody though?


    yeah but im mean like someone who is like towards my age range i get like 64 year old messaging me that makes me feel uncomfortable


    have you tried posting pics of your body like a torso shot? a body shot might do the trick to attract attention to yourself or people to respond back to you because they might take it as a sign of being interested in sex.
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    May 03, 2013 7:27 PM GMT
    pazzy said
    anthony2394 said
    pazzy said
    anthony2394 said
    pazzy saiddon't be afraid to message someone. they might be shy or scared to say hi to you.


    true but it would be nice for someone to message me for a change , most of the time i feel like i have to do the talking i feel like im talking to a wall sometimes


    it could be anybody though?


    yeah but im mean like someone who is like towards my age range i get like 64 year old messaging me that makes me feel uncomfortable


    have you tried posting pics of your body like a torso shot? a body shot might do the trick to attract attention to yourself or people to respond back to you because they might take it as a sign of being interested in sex.



    yeah but if i do that , then there gonna think i just want sex and i just want friends and a relationship , like im not really looking for sex
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    May 03, 2013 7:32 PM GMT
    anthony2394 said
    pazzy said
    anthony2394 said
    pazzy said
    anthony2394 said
    pazzy saiddon't be afraid to message someone. they might be shy or scared to say hi to you.


    true but it would be nice for someone to message me for a change , most of the time i feel like i have to do the talking i feel like im talking to a wall sometimes


    it could be anybody though?


    yeah but im mean like someone who is like towards my age range i get like 64 year old messaging me that makes me feel uncomfortable


    have you tried posting pics of your body like a torso shot? a body shot might do the trick to attract attention to yourself or people to respond back to you because they might take it as a sign of being interested in sex.



    yeah but if i do that , then there gonna think i just want sex and i just want friends and a relationship , like im not really looking for sex


    if you're looking for friends and a relationship, hookup sites are NOT somewhere you want to look at.

    you can use this site for that if you're looking for friends or a relationship. you just have to make yourself available to do so. you live in the city of toronto where there's plenty of gathering groups and etc where you can meet other guys up that are around your age group with the same interests.

    meetup.com is a good site to find clubs, lgbt groups and etc where you can meet other guys at. icon_smile.gif

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    May 03, 2013 7:51 PM GMT
    pazzy said
    anthony2394 said
    pazzy said
    anthony2394 said
    pazzy said
    anthony2394 said
    pazzy saiddon't be afraid to message someone. they might be shy or scared to say hi to you.


    true but it would be nice for someone to message me for a change , most of the time i feel like i have to do the talking i feel like im talking to a wall sometimes


    it could be anybody though?


    yeah but im mean like someone who is like towards my age range i get like 64 year old messaging me that makes me feel uncomfortable


    have you tried posting pics of your body like a torso shot? a body shot might do the trick to attract attention to yourself or people to respond back to you because they might take it as a sign of being interested in sex.



    yeah but if i do that , then there gonna think i just want sex and i just want friends and a relationship , like im not really looking for sex


    if you're looking for friends and a relationship, hookup sites are NOT somewhere you want to look at.

    you can use this site for that if you're looking for friends or a relationship. you just have to make yourself available to do so. you live in the city of toronto where there's plenty of gathering groups and etc where you can meet other guys up that are around your age group with the same interests.

    meetup.com is a good site to find clubs, lgbt groups and etc where you can meet other guys at. icon_smile.gif




    yeah i just signed up for that site
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    May 03, 2013 7:53 PM GMT
    You are so fuckin whiny Anthony. Seriously. Cut that shit out. It's not cute.
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    May 03, 2013 8:16 PM GMT
    I hear they like videos where you pose with severe affectations and sing off key.