First Contact

  • Fritter

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    May 04, 2013 10:30 AM GMT
    I was wondering how you guys make first contact with someone on this site. You stumble upon a guys profile, and you would like to get to know him some more. Do you hot list them? Do you sent an e-mail, and if so what do you usually say? Do you simply visit his profile and hope he visits back? I just don't know what a gentle way of saying hi is on here without comming off too agressive (ie buddylisting and opening pvts right off the bat). In the reverse, I'm constantly wondering when a guy has visited my profile, does he have an interest in me, or has he looked, but decided I'm not the type for him, or maybe even he ended up on my profile by mistake by making a wrong turn at Alberquerque? I guess I'm almost wishing there was a wink, or poke feature on here.
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    May 04, 2013 10:38 AM GMT
    "can I bang your boy pussy, you want to ride my horse cock?"

    done.

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    May 04, 2013 11:09 AM GMT
    If you want to talk to someone, just send them an email. "Hey, I looked at your profile and I liked it" or whatever. or find something that you both have common and make an email on that.

    People browse this site for the eye candy on a constant basis....just because someone looked at your profile doesn't mean they are interested. Likewise, it could have been an accident.

    no one should really think you're being too "aggressive" if you just say a friendly message in an email.
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    May 04, 2013 1:07 PM GMT
    I don't think there is one definitive answer. I started communicating with you (or vice versa - I can't remember) in the chat room. I've tried any number of combinations of what you mentioned above. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't.

    I think the point is - you keep trying.

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    May 04, 2013 2:38 PM GMT
    Email. I talk about something they mention in their profile...usually a topic that is of interest to them. If he doesn't reply, I move on. No big deal!