May 04, 2013 10:30 AM GMT
I was wondering how you guys make first contact with someone on this site. You stumble upon a guys profile, and you would like to get to know him some more. Do you hot list them? Do you sent an e-mail, and if so what do you usually say? Do you simply visit his profile and hope he visits back? I just don't know what a gentle way of saying hi is on here without comming off too agressive (ie buddylisting and opening pvts right off the bat). In the reverse, I'm constantly wondering when a guy has visited my profile, does he have an interest in me, or has he looked, but decided I'm not the type for him, or maybe even he ended up on my profile by mistake by making a wrong turn at Alberquerque? I guess I'm almost wishing there was a wink, or poke feature on here.