hey guys, need some advice.

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    May 04, 2013 7:40 PM GMT
    I'm sure there are a lot of posts similar to mine, but hear me out. I finally stopped being in denial about my sexuality, so this is the first time i'm reaching out to anyone about this. I want to start bulking up and lifting, so after some research, I thought this would be the perfect site to come to.

    I'd like to start off by saying I'm 18 (young, i know) and graduating. I'm not out to anyone except a couple of people, but I'd like to start meeting guys. I'm interested in meeting guys that are nice, chill, and intellectual. Are there any apps where I could find guys like that? I know apps like grindr, scruff etc. are mostly for hook ups, but would you recommend that? I should probably include the fact that I myself have scruff on my face, and I'm kind of a hairy haha, but slim guy (I want to start lifting more). I'm also caucasian (not that it's relevant). What would you guys recommend?

    Also, I don't have much experience lifting, so what would you guys recommend I start with? I know it's a broad question, but I really have no idea where to start. I'm pretty slim too and it's hard for me to gain weight, so tips for that would be cool too. Let me know if you guys have any other questions.

    Thanks guys.

    Also, how do i make it so that the photo i posted is not "adult?" It's just of my face, but somehow it got like that.
  • Road89

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    May 04, 2013 8:01 PM GMT
    lol, take your time - you will find a good guy. Though - in my honest opinion, they aren't incredibly easy to find. Just be sure that you have standards, don't let anyone take you away from who you are. Don't be afraid to say "no"...ever! Also, always have enough respect for yourself, to make sure you are being respected by whoever you are dating.

    For the adult picture - just go to "update photos" on your profile, and bubble in the "public" option.

    If you are skinny and trying to gain weight (muscle) you'll need a mass gainer or lot's of protein, and lot's of food. Be sure that you are getting healthy doses of gym time because you don't want to turn into a blob. Now granted, you do need to have fat to burn into muscle but, if you neglect the gym you will be gaining fat to turn into...more fat, lol. I just had a successful bulk "season" so, if you need help just ask - or you can use the plans that RJ (realjock) has here on the site.
  • calibro

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    May 04, 2013 8:08 PM GMT
    post again in a month if you want a genuine response
  • LoveAndPeace

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    May 05, 2013 12:11 AM GMT
    Apps IMO are a waste.Just go out to clubs and meet guys or when you go to college (if you go idk) there should be gay meetup groups or some shit you can attend...or meet a girl thats a friend.Every girlfriend has a gay best friend
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    May 05, 2013 12:32 AM GMT
    You're looking for the intellectual grindr? Let me know when you find it.
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    May 05, 2013 12:50 AM GMT
    To be honest...you're probably not gonna find too many relationship-oriented guys on those apps. Not saying it won't happen, but I think you're best bet is to go out and just meet guys...Still trying to work on following my own advice..but whateves.

    As far as bulking up. Lots of protein and low reps of high weights. That's what my coach always told me anyways. Good luck mah man