Best Dating (not sex) app or website....

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    May 04, 2013 7:50 PM GMT
    Does anyone have any reccomendations? It's really tough for me, for whatever reason to meet guys here in NYC -- I have an account on Scruff, but it still is very sex oriented. I've never met anyone on OKCupid I thought was legit attractive. Anyways, any help would be much appreciated -- and don't say RealJock haha because I've tried that and most guys I hit it off with....live across the country (here's looking at you SpiritReaver and OhFitness)
  • LoveAndPeace

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    May 05, 2013 12:14 AM GMT
    lol...Dating apps are the worst.IMO you should just go out and meet people in bars or maybe clubs but take my advice lightly im only 19 years old and i have never dated or had sex with a guy before lol
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    May 05, 2013 12:26 AM GMT
    In the city that has more gay bars than any other city in the world, you're relying on dating sites to find a date? icon_lol.gif
  • Joeyphx444

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    May 06, 2013 9:22 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidIn the city that has more gay bars than any other city in the world, you're relying on dating sites to find a date? icon_lol.gif


    Not to mention the sheer population of gay men there icon_razz.gif

    The grass is always greener on the other side

    No matter where you go the guys seem to be non existent
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    May 06, 2013 2:03 PM GMT
    LoveAndPeace saidlol...Dating apps are the worst.IMO you should just go out and meet people in bars or maybe clubs but take my advice lightly im only 19 years old and i have never dated or had sex with a guy before lol


    You really think that gay men are more likely to date at a bar or a club than Grindr?

    Please, elaborate as to why...
  • Joeyphx444

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    May 06, 2013 7:14 PM GMT
    Chainers said
    LoveAndPeace saidlol...Dating apps are the worst.IMO you should just go out and meet people in bars or maybe clubs but take my advice lightly im only 19 years old and i have never dated or had sex with a guy before lol


    You really think that gay men are more likely to date at a bar or a club than Grindr?

    Please, elaborate as to why...


    LOL when I go out to bars/clubs, which is not often, I recognize most of the guys from online

    SOO no different, you just see them in person I guess and they can't block you
  • LoveAndPeace

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    May 08, 2013 5:57 PM GMT
    Joeyphx444 said
    Chainers said
    LoveAndPeace saidlol...Dating apps are the worst.IMO you should just go out and meet people in bars or maybe clubs but take my advice lightly im only 19 years old and i have never dated or had sex with a guy before lol


    You really think that gay men are more likely to date at a bar or a club than Grindr?

    Please, elaborate as to why...


    LOL when I go out to bars/clubs, which is not often, I recognize most of the guys from online

    SOO no different, you just see them in person I guess and they can't block you
    Bingo
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    May 08, 2013 6:04 PM GMT
    Adam4Adam

    It's free
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    May 08, 2013 6:09 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidIn the city that has more gay bars than any other city in the world, you're relying on dating sites to find a date? icon_lol.gif


    The OP did say that "for whatever reason", it's tough for him to meet guys. Shyness or introversion are my guesses.
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    May 08, 2013 11:24 PM GMT
    on every dating site u go on, 90% of the users will be looking for hookups, or at least open to it. Its impossible to separate the sex from a gay dating site, for the simple reason that we are all guys lol
  • whytehot

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    May 09, 2013 2:08 AM GMT
    Everyone's on their phones with their gay apps even when they go out anyway, so what's the difference. Try finding a fag hag.