The chase

  • Trauts

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    May 05, 2013 4:58 PM GMT
    There's always this preconceived notion in the gay world that bottoms are submissive and are always waiting to be approached by tops. What do you guys think of bottoms doing the chase and wooing a guy though? Does it turn you on or make you feel less masculine in any way?

    Btw, this question is directed more towards dating and relationships rather than sexual escapades.
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    May 05, 2013 6:20 PM GMT
    Go for it!

    Nope it doesn't make me feel any less of a man if someone chases me.

    Although I don't think they exist haha
  • Trauts

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    May 06, 2013 1:35 AM GMT
    lilTanker saidGo for it!

    Nope it doesn't make me feel any less of a man if someone chases me.

    Although I don't think they exist haha


    I'm gonna prove you wrong then! Haha
  • Varanus

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    May 06, 2013 2:27 AM GMT
    Haha...I seen a few "bottoms" chase after some guys but its always been the other way around.
    Usually when these friends of mine have been chasing guys its usually because their off their faces but usually their shy and wait for "tops" to approach them.
    I'd actually be a little taken back if a so called "bottom" came chasing me as most I know are a little shy and wait to be approached.
    But I say go for it and shock someone, it will easily leave a lasting impression on most people.
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    May 06, 2013 2:31 AM GMT
    I'm a bottom and I usually pursue.
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    May 06, 2013 2:32 AM GMT
    There's this hot top muscle daddy in the gym that I've been eye fucking for awhile now. We briefly talked on Scruff but nothing in 2 weeks. I think I'm going to have to make another move. I'm really trying to not sit back and wait for things to happen. Who knows? Maybe hes just shy.....wish me luck! icon_redface.gif
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    May 06, 2013 2:33 AM GMT
    This is kind of like how people used to thing that women, in the past, should wait to be approached by a man. I say, who the hell cares. Male Bottoms and tops should be no different. Go for it!
  • HottJoe

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    May 06, 2013 2:38 AM GMT
    Sorry, but if you ask someone out you're forever obliged to be the top. No exceptions!!icon_mad.gif
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    May 06, 2013 2:39 AM GMT
    HottJoe saidSorry, but if you ask someone out you're forever obliged to be the top. No exceptions!!icon_mad.gif


    Oh noes!!!! icon_eek.gif
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    May 06, 2013 2:54 AM GMT
    I see no problem with it. Sometimes, I'd like a guy to take control, then surprise me in the bedroom. It would make me want to work for him all the more. (Yes, turn me on)
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    May 06, 2013 2:55 AM GMT
    Corn cob takers always get with a bucket of lard .