Since I only came out recently, I think I would benefit from having more PLATONIC gay friends.

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    May 06, 2013 2:40 PM GMT
    Do many of you have platonic gay friends? If so, does it help to have someone you can share with who's been there? Where do you meet them, especially if you aren't into really fem guys? Any further thoughts?
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    May 06, 2013 8:10 PM GMT
    Based on your user name, I think you should check out the local IGLA (International Gay and Lesbian Aquatics) team in Chicago.

    http://chicagosmelts.org/membership/

    Many of my platonic gay friendships have come from participating in gay swim teams and running clubs in cities in which I've lived or frequently travelled.

    Good luck!
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    May 06, 2013 11:29 PM GMT
    That's a clever idea. Any others?