The Top 5 Annoying Questions during the getting to know process in dating.

  • Import

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    May 08, 2013 8:28 PM GMT
    5. Are u on Facebook?

    4. Where do you see yourself in 5 years?

    3. Top or Bottom?

    2. Why are you single?


    And the all most annoying question meeting someone for the first time is........


    1. WHAT DO YOU LIKE TO FOR FUN? icon_rolleyes.gif hate that question so much.

    so yeah, these questions annoy me during that whole early stage part of the getting to know u phase. Anyone else been asked ridic questions before?

    ones that didnt make my list, cuz I was slightly entertained by them was: "Are u ready to be a daddy?"....... wha?!?! me???!!!
    and..
    when was the last time u had sex?
    i mean, really? does it matter?


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    May 08, 2013 8:34 PM GMT
    "Are you still friends with your ex? Who is he?"

    My response: "None of your damn business!"

    #enddate
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    May 08, 2013 8:37 PM GMT
    Erik101 said"Are you still friends with your ex? Who is he?"

    My response: "None of your damn business!"

    #enddate

    lol, insecure much?
    NEXT
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    May 08, 2013 8:38 PM GMT
    1) How femmy are you?
    2) Are you a bottom?
    3) How much do you weigh?
    4) Can you be discreet?
    5) How big is it?
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    May 08, 2013 8:40 PM GMT
    Import said5. Are u on Facebook?

    4. Where do you see yourself in 5 years?

    3. Top or Bottom?

    2. Why are you single?

    1. What do you like to do for fun?



    Except for three allof those questions sound alright actually. What the fuck do you expect people to ask if they're going to know you? You sound kinda highly irritable.
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    May 08, 2013 8:43 PM GMT
    MisfitToy said
    Import said5. Are u on Facebook?

    4. Where do you see yourself in 5 years?

    3. Top or Bottom?

    2. Why are you single?

    1. What do you like to do for fun?



    Except for three allof those questions sound alright actually. What the fuck do you expect people to ask if they're going to know you? You sound kinda highly irritable.


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    May 08, 2013 8:44 PM GMT
    MisfitToy said
    Import said5. Are u on Facebook?

    4. Where do you see yourself in 5 years?

    3. Top or Bottom?

    2. Why are you single?

    1. What do you like to do for fun?



    Except for three allof those questions sound alright actually. What the fuck do you expect people to ask if they're going to know you? You sound kinda highly irritable.


    He is. icon_surprised.gif
  • Joeyphx444

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    May 08, 2013 8:48 PM GMT
    No I agree these are annoying questions

    I actually never have had these asked of me except for the last one (Which I don't really like to much either)

    Normally, you talk about where you are from and what you do for work. The what do you do for fun question should come from conversation. You shouldn't have to list stuff and act like it's an interview.

    A good date should consist of conversations that lead into new topics and new questions. It should NOT be question-answer, question-answer
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    May 08, 2013 8:51 PM GMT
    Joeyphx444 saidNo I agree these are annoying questions

    I actually never have had these asked of me except for the last one (Which I don't really like to much either)

    Normally, you talk about where you are from and what you do for work. The what do you do for fun question should come from conversation. You shouldn't have to list stuff and act like it's an interview.

    A good date should consist of conversations that lead into new topics and new questions. It should NOT be question-answer, question-answer


    I just think the "what do u do for fun?" question is so loaded and a lazy attempt at getting to know me lolz.
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    May 08, 2013 9:06 PM GMT
    Those questions never bothered me, but these ones did:

    "How long do you weigh?" and "What time is your name?"

    Definitely red flag questions. icon_lol.gif
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    May 08, 2013 9:07 PM GMT
    meninlove said Those questions never bothered me, but these ones did:

    "How long do you weigh?" and "What time is your name?"

    Definitely red flag questions. icon_lol.gif


    The fuck?

    Is this a Canadian thing? Lol
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    May 08, 2013 9:08 PM GMT
    Joeyphx444 saidNo I agree these are annoying questions

    I actually never have had these asked of me except for the last one (Which I don't really like to much either)

    Normally, you talk about where you are from and what you do for work. The what do you do for fun question should come from conversation. You shouldn't have to list stuff and act like it's an interview.

    A good date should consist of conversations that lead into new topics and new questions. It should NOT be question-answer, question-answer


    Idk I kinda like the clinical interview style of dating. I personally ask what I want to know: how much you make, how many bedrooms you have, how many men you've been with, etc.
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    May 08, 2013 9:12 PM GMT
    Import said
    Joeyphx444 saidNo I agree these are annoying questions

    I actually never have had these asked of me except for the last one (Which I don't really like to much either)

    Normally, you talk about where you are from and what you do for work. The what do you do for fun question should come from conversation. You shouldn't have to list stuff and act like it's an interview.

    A good date should consist of conversations that lead into new topics and new questions. It should NOT be question-answer, question-answer


    I just think the "what do u do for fun?" question is so loaded and a lazy attempt at getting to know me lolz.


    Not as bad as the "Soo....tell me about yourself?"
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    May 08, 2013 9:13 PM GMT
    Do you want some crabs?
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    May 08, 2013 9:48 PM GMT
    5. Are u on Facebook?

    Yes. Someone made me. But I never go there.

    4. Where do you see yourself in 5 years?

    On Realjock looking for a date.

    3. Top or Bottom?

    I'm an extra medium.

    2. Why are you single?

    I have absolutely no idea. The guys I meet are either psychos or cheaters. Oh - and one guy I met and really liked turned out to be a kept man (if that's the right term) just looking for more keepers. *sigh*

    1. WHAT DO YOU LIKE TO FOR FUN?

    I find the gym great fun. So much drama.


    Wait a minute there... I thought you were just writing to *me* and asking me out on a date... Darn!
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    May 08, 2013 10:04 PM GMT
    I actually don't mind being asked; "What do you do for "fun?" I have many varied interests and hobbies that I don't mind sharing and I enjoy finding out about what the other person is passionate about.,,,I dunno, makes for interesting conversation IMO.

    I always get the "Why is a great guy like you still single?" question, that one irks me....I mean really?...what are you supposed to say to that without trudging up the past or making lame excuses for yourself?...or replying with the classic; "I could ask YOU the same question!" *giggle*....*hair toss*..icon_rolleyes.gificon_confused.gif....icon_neutral.gif
  • Joeyphx444

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    May 08, 2013 10:09 PM GMT
    First off, what kinda guys are you dating that ask you top or bottom on the FIRST date? Cuz I never have been asked that so early in meeting someone unless they only wanted sex and were obviously just thinking about that with you, instead of thinking about spending time and getting to know your personality
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    May 08, 2013 10:15 PM GMT
    I agree with you on 2-5, but I don't have any problem with #1. It's an even more open-ended way of asking "What are your interests? What are your hobbies? What do you like to do on the weekends?" It lets the person you're on a date with answer it how he'd like to answer it.

    If you asked "Do you have any hobbies?" he might say "No." OK awkward, next question.

    "What do you like to do for fun?" "I like to ride my bike out of the city on the weekends. I like to go to museums. I like to play pick-up basketball."

    Open-ended questions are good on first dates IMO.

    Do you think it's loaded because you think they're asking about sex?
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    May 08, 2013 10:30 PM GMT
    5. How did You get My phone number?

    4. If You're only 26 why does Your drivers Lisence say You were born in 1947??

    3. Are You contagious??

    2. Why are You wearing My clothes and HOW did You get into My house????

    and finally,

    1. Is that gun really loaded?????
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    May 08, 2013 10:39 PM GMT
    If you're that easily irritated, your dating life should be as fulfilling as mine. icon_rolleyes.gif
  • TDSmoove

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    May 08, 2013 10:44 PM GMT
    Conversation is a lost art. More and more people seem to want others to approach them with something to "Impress them" Bullshit. Conversation can be as simple as the weather or as complicated and politics and religion. I ask "what are you interests" all the time. Many times I've run into people that have similar interests and we can talk about them for the rest of the night. People who are stuck on themselves or playing a game like to give that "That's for me to know". Be glad someone is taking an interest in gettin to know you. But It ain't all about you.
  • muscsportsguy

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    May 08, 2013 10:44 PM GMT
    MisfitToy said
    Joeyphx444 saidNo I agree these are annoying questions

    I actually never have had these asked of me except for the last one (Which I don't really like to much either)

    Normally, you talk about where you are from and what you do for work. The what do you do for fun question should come from conversation. You shouldn't have to list stuff and act like it's an interview.

    A good date should consist of conversations that lead into new topics and new questions. It should NOT be question-answer, question-answer


    Idk I kinda like the clinical interview style of dating. I personally ask what I want to know: how much you make, how many bedrooms you have, how many men you've been with, etc.


    Seriously? Do you get many second dates?

    If someone asked me how much I make on a first date there would not be a second date.
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    May 08, 2013 10:46 PM GMT
    For me, it would have to be "why are you still single?". I'm sure it's being asked as a compliment, but it's annoying as heck.
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    May 08, 2013 11:02 PM GMT
    muscsportsguy said
    MisfitToy said
    Joeyphx444 saidNo I agree these are annoying questions

    I actually never have had these asked of me except for the last one (Which I don't really like to much either)

    Normally, you talk about where you are from and what you do for work. The what do you do for fun question should come from conversation. You shouldn't have to list stuff and act like it's an interview.

    A good date should consist of conversations that lead into new topics and new questions. It should NOT be question-answer, question-answer


    Idk I kinda like the clinical interview style of dating. I personally ask what I want to know: how much you make, how many bedrooms you have, how many men you've been with, etc.


    Seriously? Do you get many second dates?

    If someone asked me how much I make on a first date there would not be a second date.


    It's something I wanna know. I ask what they do and then I ask how much they make. If its like a real good job I wanna know. If its not I already know how much he makes. It's just conversation.
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    May 08, 2013 11:06 PM GMT
    MisfitToy said
    muscsportsguy said
    MisfitToy said
    Joeyphx444 saidNo I agree these are annoying questions

    I actually never have had these asked of me except for the last one (Which I don't really like to much either)

    Normally, you talk about where you are from and what you do for work. The what do you do for fun question should come from conversation. You shouldn't have to list stuff and act like it's an interview.

    A good date should consist of conversations that lead into new topics and new questions. It should NOT be question-answer, question-answer


    Idk I kinda like the clinical interview style of dating. I personally ask what I want to know: how much you make, how many bedrooms you have, how many men you've been with, etc.


    Seriously? Do you get many second dates?

    If someone asked me how much I make on a first date there would not be a second date.


    It's something I wanna know. I ask what they do and then I ask how much they make. If its like a real good job I wanna know. If its not I already know how much he makes. It's just conversation.


    I get that you think you're entitled to know. But that doesn't make it any less obnoxious. I'd be shocked if someone with a "good job" actually wants a second date with you after you ask that question. It's not just conversation. It's really, really, really rude. It's a rude question after 10 dates. If you ask it on the first date...I dunno, I'd probably walk out. Guaranteed no second date.