May 15, 2013 2:39 AM GMT
So...in the past year, I've had 3 different guys that I met online. Everything seemed to be great...I was nice...they were nice...tons in common. One I met in person. All 3 disappeared without a word. I refuse to chase anyone, but I do try to keep in touch. I would send friendly texts occasionally...and would get lame excuses like "I've been too busy"...blah, blah, blah. I feel confident it's nothing I did. When I am getting to know someone, I don't over-due it. I keep things friendly. They all seemed very interested at first, but then communication just stopped. I feel pretty sure one of them was cat-fishing me. Pics that are TOO good are a red flag for me. But I gave him the benefit of the doubt...but now feel confident he was fake. These people drive me crazy. If you're interested, let me know it...if you're not, don't pretend like you are. That doesn't sound hard. I've never heard my straight friends talk about the "disappearing act"...so that makes me wonder if it's a gay guy thing.