Do you makeout with a guy everytime you go clubbing..is it slutty if you do?

  • LoveAndPeace

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    May 15, 2013 3:38 PM GMT
    Every time I go clubbing I always find a guy to dance with and one thing leads to another.We make out and then that's it.Sometimes I don't even find out their names lol..is it slutty to do this every time you go clubbing?
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    May 15, 2013 3:41 PM GMT
    No?

    Who cares if it is. You're just making out. I see nothing wrong with that. A slut is someone who sleeps around, etc.... it doesn't seem as if you're doing that, rather you're just making-out, therefore, you're not a slut.


    Anyway, I kinda do the same. I'll make out with anyone and everyone that wants to. Provided they're decent looking.
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    May 15, 2013 3:59 PM GMT
    I wouldn't say slutty, just carefree and easy..


    but who cares what others think unless the man of your dreams is in the crowd watching this go on week after week. Our actions do make impressions on others and sometimes those others do have some importance in the real world.

    but you're young, have fun while you can still use it as an excuse.
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    May 15, 2013 4:27 PM GMT
    no
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    May 15, 2013 4:33 PM GMT
    if you have to ask, then you know the answer. if you're going to kiss a random dude not knowing where their mouth has been, you might as well suck their dick too.

    i hate how men try to make a double standard for themselves then throw women under the bus for doing the same shit. if you like a woman is a whore for kissing random dudes, then what makes? he's just as slutty as she is. it's not slut shaming either if folks know what's outthere and still do it anyway then can't handle the consequences to their actions.
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    May 15, 2013 4:35 PM GMT
    dudewithabeard saidI wouldn't say slutty, just carefree and easy..


    but who cares what others think unless the man of your dreams is in the crowd watching this go on week after week. Our actions do make impressions on others and sometimes those others do have some importance in the real world.

    but you're young, have fun while you can still use it as an excuse.


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    May 15, 2013 4:36 PM GMT
    pazzy saidif you have to ask, then you know the answer. if you're going to kiss a random dude not knowing where their mouth has been, you might as well suck their dick too.

    i hate how men try to make a double standard for themselves then throw women under the bus for doing the same shit. if she's a whore for kissing random dudes, then what makes you different because you have the xy chromosome? you're a whore too.


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    May 15, 2013 6:05 PM GMT
    I'm pretty sure you can't get HIV from it, sooooooo.. eh, why not.
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    May 15, 2013 6:28 PM GMT
    pazzy saidif you have to ask, then you know the answer. if you're going to kiss a random dude not knowing where their mouth has been, you might as well suck their dick too.

    i hate how men try to make a double standard for themselves then throw women under the bus for doing the same shit. if you like a woman is a whore for kissing random dudes, then what makes? he's just as slutty as she is. it's not slut shaming either if folks know what's outthere and still do it anyway then can't handle the consequences to their actions.


    Did I miss something somewhere, did he throw a woman under the bus? did he berate or belittle anyone for doing what he is doing?




  • HottJoe

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    May 15, 2013 6:41 PM GMT
    I make out with the same guy every time.
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    May 16, 2013 2:50 AM GMT
    u shoud not bro
    at least get to know them first
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    May 16, 2013 2:56 AM GMT
    dudewithabeard said
    pazzy saidif you have to ask, then you know the answer. if you're going to kiss a random dude not knowing where their mouth has been, you might as well suck their dick too.

    i hate how men try to make a double standard for themselves then throw women under the bus for doing the same shit. if you like a woman is a whore for kissing random dudes, then what makes? he's just as slutty as she is. it's not slut shaming either if folks know what's outthere and still do it anyway then can't handle the consequences to their actions.


    Did I miss something somewhere, did he throw a woman under the bus? did he berate or belittle anyone for doing what he is doing?






    no but like many gay men, they have that complex where men can do this but women can't do what they're doing without being slutty.
  • deep388

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    May 16, 2013 2:56 AM GMT
    I use to do this a lot to get my ex boyfriend jealous. Then boom! I grew up.
    So, I'm not so into doing all of this in a gay bar space.
  • Apparition

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    May 16, 2013 3:07 AM GMT
    HottJoe saidI make out with the same guy every time.

    this
  • Fable

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    May 16, 2013 8:05 AM GMT
    It's slutty when you sit on their dicks.
  • ohioguy12

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    May 16, 2013 1:10 PM GMT
    Not slutty...

    I noticed guys make out commonly in the clubs in Ohio, but I find it rare in the clubs in Boston. Not sure why.
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    May 16, 2013 1:11 PM GMT
    Rumor has it that it's good for your immune system to make out with lots of guys =)
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    May 16, 2013 1:16 PM GMT
    Of course its slutty. But who said its bad to be a little slutty?
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    May 16, 2013 1:32 PM GMT
    Slutty? No, but probably a sign of a need for a deeper connection and intimacy with another human being.
  • Aodhan

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    May 16, 2013 1:32 PM GMT
    Not slutty at all. Its just a bit of fun by the sounds of things.

    Its only one guy on one night. Don't worry, just think that its good you find some guy every time you go out! icon_lol.gificon_lol.gif
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    May 16, 2013 1:45 PM GMT
    No, but not for want of trying. And yes it is slutty but who cares haha.
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    May 16, 2013 1:51 PM GMT
    Let's leave the terms slut and slutty to the women. We men are virile and lusty!
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    May 16, 2013 1:54 PM GMT
    It's slutty only if your boyfriend catches you.

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    May 16, 2013 2:07 PM GMT
    Judgmentalism is an ugly replacement for the sexual excitement of resistance, a hopefully only temporary mechanism of rejection, of non acceptance, as sex on the down-low becomes passé.
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    May 16, 2013 2:10 PM GMT
    LoveAndPeace saidEvery time I go clubbing I always find a guy to dance with and one thing leads to another.We make out and then that's it.Sometimes I don't even find out their names lol..is it slutty to do this every time you go clubbing?


    lol, I wouldn't call that slutty, but rather unhealthy considering the number of things you can catch doing that.