Why Do I Keep Getting Trolled Here?

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    May 16, 2013 2:03 PM GMT
    I keep getting weird RJ emails, from guys who just joined the site the same day or within a couple of days. How can they find me so quickly? And don't they read my profile, which specifically says I'm monogamous and don't want to receive this sex crap?

    Here's one I got today, from a guy who joined this very same day. I omit his name and direct contact email, which these things always include:

    i like your profile wanna be your gay friend and if you still single we could be lovers are we getting to know each other and all your wish will be my command.
    i am versatile gay very very romantic and will always make you feel like a true gay man.
    lets get to know each other.
    if you do not mind you can email me:


    Does anyone else here get these things? Or, as I suspect, have my RJ Right Wing fans here submitted my contact info to spamming sites? I hate to give them the pleasure of admitting it's working, but at the same time their tactics should be acknowledged.
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    May 16, 2013 2:04 PM GMT
    This guy may have the answer:

    http://www.buzzfeed.com/dorsey/eric-holder-just-doesnt-know
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    May 16, 2013 2:08 PM GMT
    CharleyChase90232 saidThis guy may have the answer:

    http://www.buzzfeed.com/dorsey/eric-holder-just-doesnt-know

    The relevance of that escapes me, as it would any other rational person. Just another of your witless anti-Obama attacks. icon_razz.gif
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    May 16, 2013 2:09 PM GMT
    I think most guys on here get crap like that occasionally. Hit the delete button and don't waste another thought on them.

    Though I must admit that this is sometimes difficult for me. Some of these proposals sound genuine and I hate becoming part of a statistic of "assholes who don't reply to personal messages".
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    May 16, 2013 2:15 PM GMT
    bhp91126 saidI think most guys on here get crap like that occasionally. Hit the delete button and don't waste another thought on them.

    Though I must admit that this is sometimes difficult for me. Some of these proposals sound genuine and I hate becoming part of a statistic of "assholes who don't reply to personal messages".

    I simply block their email, and don't reply. But I do reply to RJ guys who have been here for a while, and who post. I get RJ email almost every day, on any number of subjects, and try to answer them all.

    But the crazy crap I posted above gets silence from me. Do they really think that will work? Especially when I put in my RJ profile that I'm monogamous, with a loving husband, and sex talk will get them blocked? I consider it simple harassment, from guys who only joined RJ the very same day, and I have my suspicions where it originates. Otherwise why would these new guys do it, and to ME of all people, an old guy with a husband?
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    May 16, 2013 2:32 PM GMT
    I think a lot of it it comes from guys in the third world who are looking for an easy route to America and riches - or scammers, who may or may not be guys. I get it occasionally too - sometimes even from (supposed) women, and I wonder, what kind of site do you think this is? I'm guessing that the older we are, the more they figure that we'll be desperate enough to engage.

    I doubt it comes from the cabal who shall not be named, including the old white guy pretending to be a young black guy.
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    May 16, 2013 2:45 PM GMT
    showme saidI think a lot of it it comes from guys in the third world who are looking for an easy route to America and riches - or scammers, who may or may not be guys. I get it occasionally too - sometimes even from (supposed) women, and I wonder, what kind of site do you think this is? I'm guessing that the older we are, the more they figure that we'll be desperate enough to engage.

    I doubt it comes from the cabal who shall not be named.

    Not directly from that group, but I suspect they submitted my contact info to sites that these 3rd-World guys use. Just to make my life here more miserable, on top of their own coordinated harassment. What pathetic low-lifes they are.

    How else could these strangers find me, within hours of joining RJ? And ignore my profile warnings that I'm not open to such invites?

    Something must be prompting them to believe they have a chance, the odds of this being coincidental are too great. I'm convinced they're getting my RJ contact info that's listed at some other site, maybe even with an invite that I didn't write myself, and email me without even checking my profile.

    So I'd be interested if other RJ members get these things with the same wording, which is why I sometimes paste the emails here, as above. If others receive the same emails then I could believe it's some kind of robo-spamming. But often they mention my being older, which makes it personalized.
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    May 16, 2013 3:00 PM GMT
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    showme saidI think a lot of it it comes from guys in the third world who are looking for an easy route to America and riches - or scammers, who may or may not be guys. I get it occasionally too - sometimes even from (supposed) women, and I wonder, what kind of site do you think this is? I'm guessing that the older we are, the more they figure that we'll be desperate enough to engage.

    I doubt it comes from the cabal who shall not be named.

    Not directly from that group, but I suspect they submitted my contact info to sites that these 3rd-World guys use. Just to make my life here more miserable, on top of their own coordinated harassment. What pathetic low-lifes they are.

    How else could these strangers find me, within hours of joining RJ? And ignore my profile warnings that I'm not open to such invites?

    Something must be prompting them to believe they have a chance, the odds of this being coincidental are too great. I'm convinced they're getting my RJ contact info that's listed at some other site, maybe even with an invite that I didn't write myself, and email me without even checking my profile.

    So I'd be interested if other RJ members get these things with the same wording, which is why I sometimes paste the emails here, as above. If others receive the same emails then I could believe it's some kind of robo-spamming. But often they mention my being older, which makes it personalized.


    I think they join just to troll older guys for moolah - you get messaged within hours because they've messaged a whole bunch of people, hoping to get someone to bite before they get banned. I doubt it's personal to you, but I could be wrong.
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    May 16, 2013 3:03 PM GMT
    I don't know buddy. Some guys are just assholes. icon_neutral.gif
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    May 16, 2013 3:04 PM GMT
    CharleyChase90232 saidThis guy may have the answer:

    http://www.buzzfeed.com/dorsey/eric-holder-just-doesnt-know



    I wish all trolls would show themselves the way you just have. thanks. icon_biggrin.gif
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    May 16, 2013 3:05 PM GMT
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    CharleyChase90232 saidThis guy may have the answer:

    http://www.buzzfeed.com/dorsey/eric-holder-just-doesnt-know



    I wish all trolls would show themselves the way you just have. thanks. icon_biggrin.gif


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    May 16, 2013 3:09 PM GMT
    I thought this thread would be about jmusmc85.

    Or southbeach
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    May 16, 2013 3:44 PM GMT
    ART_DECO said
    showme saidI think a lot of it it comes from guys in the third world who are looking for an easy route to America and riches - or scammers, who may or may not be guys. I get it occasionally too - sometimes even from (supposed) women, and I wonder, what kind of site do you think this is? I'm guessing that the older we are, the more they figure that we'll be desperate enough to engage.

    I doubt it comes from the cabal who shall not be named.

    Not directly from that group, but I suspect they submitted my contact info to sites that these 3rd-World guys use. Just to make my life here more miserable, on top of their own coordinated harassment. What pathetic low-lifes they are.

    How else could these strangers find me, within hours of joining RJ? And ignore my profile warnings that I'm not open to such invites?

    Something must be prompting them to believe they have a chance, the odds of this being coincidental are too great. I'm convinced they're getting my RJ contact info that's listed at some other site, maybe even with an invite that I didn't write myself, and email me without even checking my profile.

    So I'd be interested if other RJ members get these things with the same wording, which is why I sometimes paste the emails here, as above. If others receive the same emails then I could believe it's some kind of robo-spamming. But often they mention my being older, which makes it personalized.


    Cray-Zee Old Foooooooool! A "cabal" huh? LOL
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    May 16, 2013 3:55 PM GMT
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    ART_DECO said
    showme saidI think a lot of it it comes from guys in the third world who are looking for an easy route to America and riches - or scammers, who may or may not be guys. I get it occasionally too - sometimes even from (supposed) women, and I wonder, what kind of site do you think this is? I'm guessing that the older we are, the more they figure that we'll be desperate enough to engage.

    I doubt it comes from the cabal who shall not be named.

    Not directly from that group, but I suspect they submitted my contact info to sites that these 3rd-World guys use. Just to make my life here more miserable, on top of their own coordinated harassment. What pathetic low-lifes they are.

    How else could these strangers find me, within hours of joining RJ? And ignore my profile warnings that I'm not open to such invites?

    Something must be prompting them to believe they have a chance, the odds of this being coincidental are too great. I'm convinced they're getting my RJ contact info that's listed at some other site, maybe even with an invite that I didn't write myself, and email me without even checking my profile.

    So I'd be interested if other RJ members get these things with the same wording, which is why I sometimes paste the emails here, as above. If others receive the same emails then I could believe it's some kind of robo-spamming. But often they mention my being older, which makes it personalized.


    Cray-Zee Old Foooooooool! A "cabal" huh? LOL

    I didn't use the word "cabal", that was a contribution by another member. But you are consistent in using ad hominem attacks, especially about my age. Lacking anything substantial, that's your fall-back attack. icon_razz.gif
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    May 16, 2013 3:57 PM GMT
    HottJoe saidI thought this thread would be about jmusmc85.

    Or southbeach

    Actually it is.
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    May 16, 2013 4:03 PM GMT
    showme said
    I think they join just to troll older guys for moolah - you get messaged within hours because they've messaged a whole bunch of people, hoping to get someone to bite before they get banned. I doubt it's personal to you, but I could be wrong.

    Could be, and that's what I'm trying to learn.

    Actually this site has good spam controls, I really receive very little, compared to other sites to which I belong.

    But still, what I do get is all the same - brand-new guys who want me to have sex with them. WTF? Can't they read my profile? Pretty clear who & what I am. So where do they get the notion that I would reply to them?

    Here's my profile. Read especially GUYS I'M LOOKING TO MEET:

    http://www.realjock.com/previewprofile
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    May 16, 2013 4:44 PM GMT
    HottJoe saidI thought this thread would be about jmusmc85.

    Or southbeach


    Lol me too.

    I was ready to post "because you're an idiot" but I guess not now...

    Anywho, I would not give Colonel Crazy the time of day to spam him. And I dislike him not because his old age or appearance, but because he is a senile humorless moron who thinks to highly of himself.

    If he can't see that I'm purposely trolling him for shits and giggles then he is a bigger idiot than I thought. Most people on here save a few (Edward, pazzy, art) can see I'm just pulling their chain. But nitwits like art are incapable of knowing the difference.
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    May 16, 2013 4:46 PM GMT
    jmusmc85 said
    HottJoe saidI thought this thread would be about jmusmc85.

    Or southbeach


    Lol me too.

    I was ready to post "because you're an idiot" but I guess not now...

    Anywho, I would not give Colonel Crazy the time of day to spam him. And I dislike him not because his old age or appearance, but because he is a senile humorless moron who thinks to highly of himself.

    If he can't see that I'm purposely trolling him for shits and giggles then he is a bigger idiot than I thought. Most people on here save a few (Edward, pazzy, art) can see I'm just pulling their chain. But nitwits like art are incapable of knowing the difference.


    once again, your narcissism is showing.
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    May 16, 2013 4:48 PM GMT
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    jmusmc85 said
    HottJoe saidI thought this thread would be about jmusmc85.

    Or southbeach


    Lol me too.

    I was ready to post "because you're an idiot" but I guess not now...

    Anywho, I would not give Colonel Crazy the time of day to spam him. And I dislike him not because his old age or appearance, but because he is a senile humorless moron who thinks to highly of himself.

    If he can't see that I'm purposely trolling him for shits and giggles then he is a bigger idiot than I thought. Most people on here save a few (Edward, pazzy, art) can see I'm just pulling their chain. But nitwits like art are incapable of knowing the difference.


    once again, your narcissism is showing.


    Get a job you loser.
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    May 16, 2013 4:50 PM GMT
    jmusmc85 said
    pazzy said
    jmusmc85 said
    HottJoe saidI thought this thread would be about jmusmc85.

    Or southbeach


    Lol me too.

    I was ready to post "because you're an idiot" but I guess not now...

    Anywho, I would not give Colonel Crazy the time of day to spam him. And I dislike him not because his old age or appearance, but because he is a senile humorless moron who thinks to highly of himself.

    If he can't see that I'm purposely trolling him for shits and giggles then he is a bigger idiot than I thought. Most people on here save a few (Edward, pazzy, art) can see I'm just pulling their chain. But nitwits like art are incapable of knowing the difference.


    once again, your narcissism is showing.


    Get a job you loser.


    once again, your narcissism is showing.

    this thread isn't about YOU and yet you're trying to make it about you.

    and the funny thing is you think that what you're doing is acceptable too. there's a difference between insulting someone and trolling them. you're pathetic.
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    May 16, 2013 4:53 PM GMT
    Lol!!!

    The friendless, jobless, virgin is calling me pathetic!!!

    Good one pazzy, good one!!!

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    May 16, 2013 4:57 PM GMT
    jmusmc85 saidLol!!!

    The friendless, jobless, virgin is calling me pathetic!!!

    Good one pazzy, good one!!!



    yes, you are pathetic and stupid too.

    stop trying to pass your insult, flaming and harassment of real jock members as "trolling" . "trolling" is just another word for what you're doing, you idiot. that's NOT a good thing either.

    icon_lol.gif @ friendless. i have plenty of friends in real life. i don't need real jock nor am i looking for something from here at all to walk away with so i could care less if you guys on here like me or not. i was fine before i came to this site and will be fine without it. i admit that have a job and i don't mind being a virgin so you using both to insult me with is pointless. you try too hard and breh, you're a midget wannabe model that thinks you're cute but get rejected on a constant basis. get over yourself. i would reject you too because you have the personality of a conceited douchebag that is dumb and thinks that your appearance will make for what you lack. fuck off.
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    May 16, 2013 4:57 PM GMT
    pazzy said
    jmusmc85 said
    HottJoe saidI thought this thread would be about jmusmc85.

    Or southbeach

    Lol me too.

    I was ready to post "because you're an idiot" but I guess not now...

    Anywho, I would not give Colonel Crazy the time of day to spam him. And I dislike him not because his old age or appearance, but because he is a senile humorless moron who thinks to highly of himself.

    If he can't see that I'm purposely trolling him for shits and giggles then he is a bigger idiot than I thought. Most people on here save a few (Edward, pazzy, art) can see I'm just pulling their chain. But nitwits like art are incapable of knowing the difference.

    once again, your narcissism is showing.

    Not to mention his true nastiness. Who would be "purposely trolling" guys here for "shits and giggles"? What sick mind does that sort of thing on a gay social site?

    Well, we now know. I should be grateful he admits what he does. But really, who else does this?

    You know what really annoys me? That he calls me "humorless". I post silly stuff here all the time. And anyone from RJ who has met me in person knows how goofy I can be. Calling me "humorless" automatically invalidates anything jmusmc85 says about me. Just random shit he's pulling out of his ass. icon_razz.gif
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    May 16, 2013 5:07 PM GMT
    ART_DECO said
    pazzy said
    jmusmc85 said
    HottJoe saidI thought this thread would be about jmusmc85.

    Or southbeach

    Lol me too.

    I was ready to post "because you're an idiot" but I guess not now...

    Anywho, I would not give Colonel Crazy the time of day to spam him. And I dislike him not because his old age or appearance, but because he is a senile humorless moron who thinks to highly of himself.

    If he can't see that I'm purposely trolling him for shits and giggles then he is a bigger idiot than I thought. Most people on here save a few (Edward, pazzy, art) can see I'm just pulling their chain. But nitwits like art are incapable of knowing the difference.

    once again, your narcissism is showing.

    Not to mention his true nastiness. Who would be "purposely trolling" guys here for "shits and giggles"? What sick mind does that sort of thing?

    Well, we now know. I should be grateful he admits what he does. But really, who does this?

    You know what really annoys me? That he calls me "humorless". I post silly stuff here all the time. And anyone from RJ who has met me in person knows how goofy I can be. Calling me "humorless" automatically invalidates anything jmusmc85 says about me. Just random shit he's pulling out of his ass. icon_razz.gif


    exactly, dude is one huge mess and he thinks that everyone that doesn't buy into his lame antics has a problem. he's just a horrible, disgusting human being that needs help and more than likely, will be single for the rest of his life because no one in their right mind will settle down with someone who's that warped in the head.

    i don't even know why he brags about trolling as if it's a good thing. when people troll, they are basically admitting that they are intentionally trying to annoy or piss people off. it's basically him admitting that he doesn't want to be taken seriously as a poster and in most places on the internet, wants to be banned since trolling is considered to be a bannable offense. i guess we should just report his posts as spam and use his own words against him.

    the only thing i like about the dude is that he shoots himself in the foot and doesn't even realize it. the fact that people seem to be content with this shit on here says a lot.

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    May 16, 2013 5:15 PM GMT
    He really cant resist bringing my name up. I am trying to ignore him but that is about to change


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