embarrassed to show a guy my junk

  • rogerfederer

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    May 17, 2013 12:11 AM GMT
    I have this problem and I don't know what to do. I'm talking to this 18 year old guy (I'm 20) and he is pretty sexual, but he's an awesome guy and I like him tons. But I'm self-conscious....very self-conscious about my small member (penis for those of you who don't use 1990's slang). He has showed me himself naked, and he is very well-endowed and I'm almost confident when I take my pants off, whenever we get to that stage, he will dump me. Or lose interest. Or get turned off. No matter what ppl say it is important and I've watched porn so I know how guys love it and want it. Every guy wants one. Every guy respects and loves a guy more for his. Do I just stop talking to him now? I've had guys laugh me out of a room before. I'm not prepared for the humiliation and I know he won't be satisfied.
  • Timbales

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    May 17, 2013 12:23 AM GMT
    If you like the guy, explain to him your hesitation.

    If your dick functions, it wouldn't be a deal breaker.
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    May 17, 2013 12:55 AM GMT
    If he really likes you, it may not matter much to him.

    Keep in mind that with porn, it's essentially about the sexual gratification. While sex is important, in real life, a genuine connection is going to be of higher significance than penis size.
  • EJ994

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    May 17, 2013 1:14 AM GMT
    Size isn't important, well to me at least, when you have feelings for someone. You are a good looking guy. If you have a good personality to go along with that then he should be fine with your size. If he isn't and it's just all about sex (which you made it seem like it was) then brush it off and be thankful you didn't waste any more time with him.

  • HottJoe

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    May 17, 2013 2:11 AM GMT
    Dang you have some hot adult pics. That one in the jockstrap was jaw dropping. Tell the guy you like that you're a bottom and then worship his huge cock. You'll both have fun. icon_twisted.gif
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    May 17, 2013 4:06 AM GMT
    Big dicks are overrated. Be proud of what you have!
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    May 17, 2013 4:08 AM GMT
    Big ones are just fun for the first few times. Then people get tired of trying to fit them anywhere, or having to be to active or conscious when sucking them and then dump you too. They also don't get as hard as smaller ones do.

    Don't assume bigger is better man, it comes with a whole other set of problems.
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    May 17, 2013 4:11 AM GMT
    rogerfederer saidI have this problem and I don't know what to do. I'm talking to this 18 year old guy (I'm 20) and he is pretty sexual, but he's an awesome guy and I like him tons. But I'm self-conscious....very self-conscious about my small member (penis for those of you who don't use 1990's slang). He has showed me himself naked, and he is very well-endowed and I'm almost confident when I take my pants off, whenever we get to that stage, he will dump me. Or lose interest. Or get turned off. No matter what ppl say it is important and I've watched porn so I know how guys love it and want it. Every guy wants one. Every guy respects and loves a guy more for his. Do I just stop talking to him now? I've had guys laugh me out of a room before. I'm not prepared for the humiliation and I know he won't be satisfied.


    As a top I really don't care. Actually I don't like it when the bottom is bigger than me . You have a sexy ass so that is all you need.
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    May 17, 2013 4:12 AM GMT
    With that ass I would not worry about your dick bro lol
  • hawkeye7

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    May 17, 2013 4:13 AM GMT
    HottJoe saidDang you have some hot adult pics. That one in the jockstrap was jaw dropping. Tell the guy you like that you're a bottom and then worship his huge cock. You'll both have fun. icon_twisted.gif


    I agree, your cute and it might not be that small. I thought I was small until I slept with about six guys in college and I was bigger then all of them. I was happy. Then I met number seven.
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    May 17, 2013 4:13 AM GMT
    Why assume? Ask him. Follow with a pic, if you want to reciprocate his. If it does matter to him, wouldn't now be a good time to find out?
  • He_Man

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    May 17, 2013 4:35 AM GMT


    Is this other guy a top, bottom or versatile? If he's a top, then I don't see him having a problem with this little issue (haha.. Yes, pun intended!) especially after seeing your adult pictures. Yikes! I wouldn't care about the front side with DAT ASS! icon_twisted.gif

    More importantly, tho, I think we need a visual in order to help with our assessment. We really need some kind of visual proof as to whether you are really small or just really self conscious. icon_wink.gif
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    May 17, 2013 4:38 AM GMT
    Michelle-obama_small-penis.jpg

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    I'm just playing boo!
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    May 17, 2013 4:38 AM GMT
    If he cares he's not worth your time.
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    May 17, 2013 4:40 AM GMT
    rogerfederer saidI have this problem and I don't know what to do. I'm talking to this 18 year old guy (I'm 20) and he is pretty sexual, but he's an awesome guy and I like him tons. But I'm self-conscious....very self-conscious about my small member (penis for those of you who don't use 1990's slang). He has showed me himself naked, and he is very well-endowed and I'm almost confident when I take my pants off, whenever we get to that stage, he will dump me. Or lose interest. Or get turned off. No matter what ppl say it is important and I've watched porn so I know how guys love it and want it. Every guy wants one. Every guy respects and loves a guy more for his. Do I just stop talking to him now? I've had guys laugh me out of a room before. I'm not prepared for the humiliation and I know he won't be satisfied.


    A few things to remember:
    1. Whatever gets sent on The Internet has no sense of privacy. Once it's out there, it's out there.
    2. Unless you've verified, in The Real World, that the person at the other end of any electronic conversation is who they say they are...you can assume they might not be. You should never, ever, send porn to an unknown party...Ever.
    3. There's not a lot you can do about your penis size, without spending considerable money. It's something you have to live with.
    4. If someone doesn't like you because of your penis size, then, it's good to find out early, and be on to someone else, otherwise, you've wasted time. I would TELL (not show) them about your small size, and get the issue off the table, for both you (because you're insecure about it) and him (because he's wanting naked pictures.)
    5. Folks with any class don't ask for naked pics online. You should regard that as very telling.
  • curtis818

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    May 17, 2013 5:16 AM GMT
    You're way too cute to worry about this. I've dated lots of guys smaller than me, never really cared that much. You're cute enough you can do whatever you want. Top, bottom- don't really care. Just keep smiling and we will be fine. Really, you are a good looking guy, worry more about your mental connection with the boy. The rest of it sorta works itself out
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    May 17, 2013 5:27 AM GMT
    Dam tough deal man but we get what we get. You're a good looking all American guy I'm sure you can find someone who will like you as you are. If the guy is that big a dick (pun) then he isn't even worth your time.
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    May 17, 2013 5:31 AM GMT
    how small of a penis are you? I've been with guys smaller than me before, it is all about how he work it! I mean, if he likes you, he will understand.
  • camfer

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    May 17, 2013 5:45 AM GMT
    Porn has skewed a lot of guys' perceptions around cock size. You don't honestly know what the guy thinks until you talk to him about it. Some guys have a fetish for small cocks, or bent cocks, or uncut cocks, or big cocks, etc. Some guys don't care. The full spectrum is out there. Don't make assumptions and generalizations and take it as truth.
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    May 17, 2013 5:50 AM GMT
    Don't worry about it. You definitely have ass-ets, if you know what I mean!! icon_razz.gif
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    May 17, 2013 5:54 AM GMT
    i'm more concerned about a guy's ass and damn, you have one very hot ass! icon_biggrin.gif
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    May 17, 2013 5:54 AM GMT
    Show us all your junk. We will compliment it, then you will become more comfortable.

    It worked for me. icon_redface.gif
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    May 17, 2013 6:00 AM GMT
    As others have suggested above me here, there are other factors that are more important than cock size. You write in a way that tells me you've got humility, and brains, style. You're handsome, with a great face and perfect teeth. Talk about perfect - - - - your bod and ass are awesome. You have nothing to worry about. I've been with guys smaller than I am - - and larger. Size is not what I'm there for.
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    May 17, 2013 6:03 AM GMT
    I think just talk to him about it. Figure out how big of a deal it is to him. It seems like if it is a big deal to him, he's probably not worth your time anyway. But if there is something there and you see your relationship progressing, and if it is bothering you, talk to him and get that subject out of the way.

    Besides the rest of you looks great, so I can't imagine your junk would be any different, or something that would turn him away.
  • LJay

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    May 17, 2013 6:13 AM GMT
    From what I see in your profile, you have nothing to worry about at all. You are one well tended guy! You have the dick you were born with. Anybody who can't deal with that simply needs to learn that there is a lot more to a guy than one superficial aspect. Believe me. Some of the worst sex I have had has been with guys that were well hung and thought that is all they had to be. That is simply not the case.