POLL: Would you ever pay for sex? Yes or No

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    May 17, 2013 8:16 PM GMT
    Me and some friends met up after uni today and ended up talking about this subject. Personally, YES i would pay for sex with a worker I found extremely attractive. Helps the economy, little bit of companionship, meets my physical needs, I would be happy at the end knowing and if no one was forced to do anything it shouldn't be a problem and no one else's business, but i'm still a virgin so I will be waiting along time before I indulge in such service as I don't want to lose my virginity to a sex worker. One of my friends was like oh its like a cheese burger, bad for you, but sometimes you gotta treat yourself so YES. My other friend was against the idea completely and said every sex worker should be stoned to death =/ bit harsh

    How about everyone else?
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    May 18, 2013 10:03 AM GMT
    your other friend needs to get of their high horse, aint nothing wrong with sex workers
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    May 18, 2013 10:25 AM GMT
    Nope.
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    May 18, 2013 10:43 AM GMT
    m4rf_ saidyour other friend needs to get of their high horse, aint nothing wrong with sex workers

    Agree with this, but would never pay for sex. If you are gay and can't get laid at whim then there is something wrong with you and then you should check out sex workers.
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    May 18, 2013 4:07 PM GMT
    No, I'd rather be paid hahaha
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    May 18, 2013 4:14 PM GMT
    Haven't yet. But I guess if I had the money to spend and I was young and single. Why not?
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    May 18, 2013 4:16 PM GMT
    calguy310 saidHaven't yet. But I guess if I had the money to spend and I was young and single. Why not?



    Nope. Why would you with all the horny hotties around.
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    May 18, 2013 4:25 PM GMT
    Marriage is a legal contract. Once you enter into it you are paying for the rest of your life. Hence the high divorce rates. So, what is the difference between a monogamous and polygamous relationship? Only diff is societies influence and the acceptance, judgment by external individuals. I think the point of life is to enjoy it and not to go to the grave with regrets of should haves. If paying is your thing stop feeling judged. Fuck on!!!! Paying for it is when your partner has expectations beyond the love part of a relationship. Expectations like vacations, presents, dinner, rent, etc. Some of which you will do out of love but should not be a given.
  • HottJoe

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    May 18, 2013 4:29 PM GMT
    Only with Monopoly money.
  • stratavos

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    May 18, 2013 4:38 PM GMT
    Eventually I probably will, just to remove it from the checklist. Picking the guy however... that's a tough part...
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    May 18, 2013 4:55 PM GMT
    Yeah I'd pay for sex but I'd use a coupon.
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    May 18, 2013 5:00 PM GMT
    Tombo saidNo, I'd rather be paid hahaha


    This.
  • Montague

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    May 18, 2013 5:05 PM GMT
    If i were to ever pay guys for sex they had better be ready to do some of the craziest things I can think of
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    May 18, 2013 5:05 PM GMT
    Oh, how I enjoy the emotional exchange more. The currency is sweeter, it's two-way, and Mom won't be rolling over in her grave. When the time comes that nobody comes for me, I'll come alone.
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    May 18, 2013 6:08 PM GMT
    I have never paid for sex, but I'll have no problem paying for it when I reach an age where that's my only option. There always has and always will be a market for sex, so hopefully by the time I have to pay for it, it will all be legal and "ordering in" will be easy and simple. Like a previous poster mentioned, there are plenty of people who can still get laid,but for a variety of reasons prefer to pay for it. For some people, the "paying for it" is an actual scene for them and what gets them off. On the flip side, there are plenty of sex workers who aren't victims of circumstance who are fine with their choice to earn money that way and actually enjoy it.

    You're open mindedness about the subject is admirable - especially at 20 - but I would have to question my friendship with someone who thinks a sex worker should be stoned to death. So why wouldn't you want to lose your virginity to a sex worker? Is it because he's a sex worker or you just don't want to pay for it.
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    May 18, 2013 6:17 PM GMT
    Shawnathan saidI'd pay the OP not to post.


    Stop being harsh you bully.
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    May 18, 2013 6:20 PM GMT
    m4rf_ saidyour other friend needs to get of their high horse, aint nothing wrong with sex workers


    Agreed. Sex workers are still human beings =)
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    May 18, 2013 6:29 PM GMT
    SixSixAtl saidI have never paid for sex, but I'll have no problem paying for it when I reach an age where that's my only option. There always has and always will be a market for sex, so hopefully by the time I have to pay for it, it will all be legal and "ordering in" will be easy and simple. Like a previous poster mentioned, there are plenty of people who can still get laid,but for a variety of reasons prefer to pay for it. For some people, the "paying for it" is an actual scene for them and what gets them off. On the flip side, there are plenty of sex workers who aren't victims of circumstance who are fine with their choice to earn money that way and actually enjoy it.

    You're open mindedness about the subject is admirable - especially at 20 - but I would have to question my friendship with someone who thinks a sex worker should be stoned to death. So why wouldn't you want to lose your virginity to a sex worker? Is it because he's a sex worker or you just don't want to pay for it.


    Well I shall re-phrase my sentence lol. My friend who condemned sex worker is a grumpty so and so =) but he's still one of my closest friends and I love him regardless, he's never open about his extreme views and does not openly direct them at others. Just when a close group of friends get together we share things =). As for my virginity if I was ready at the time and the person I fell deeply in love with was a sex worker then I wouldn't hesitate, provided we are married.But i wouldn't lose my virginity to who I wasn't married with. Maybe if my potential husband divorces me in future heaven forbid and I have sexual urges then I would indulge in paying for sex. icon_biggrin.gif
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    May 18, 2013 6:35 PM GMT
    Alpha13 said
    calguy310 saidHaven't yet. But I guess if I had the money to spend and I was young and single. Why not?



    Nope. Why would you with all the horny hotties around.


    Because he's be tempted, why else?
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    May 18, 2013 6:36 PM GMT
    No.. But I been paid for sex with someone... I was dying to do it anyways.
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    May 18, 2013 6:37 PM GMT
    madfacts said
    m4rf_ saidyour other friend needs to get of their high horse, aint nothing wrong with sex workers

    Agree with this, but would never pay for sex. If you are gay and can't get laid at whim then there is something wrong with you and then you should check out sex workers.


    In your personal opinion, if a gay guy cannot get laid what would be wrong with them?
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    May 18, 2013 6:39 PM GMT
    Andexc saidNo.. But I been paid for sex with someone... I was dying to do it anyways.


    Bam!

  • May 18, 2013 6:43 PM GMT
    If it was Alpha13.....Yes!
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    May 18, 2013 6:48 PM GMT
    um no
    sex is the easiest thing in the world to get - srsly
    if you want a relationship though? hardest thing haha might pay for that (kidding)
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    May 18, 2013 6:49 PM GMT
    SixSixAtl said
    Andexc saidNo.. But I been paid for sex with someone... I was dying to do it anyways.


    Bam!


    =$EX