Does anyone have this problem with hookups/fuck buddies?

  • jake392

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    May 18, 2013 7:36 AM GMT
    I've tried a few hook ups and they all have been disappointing. The guys I meet are really narrow when it comes to sex. I seem to always meet the "total top" types who are only interested in getting sucked or fucking you, are completely done once they cum, and couldn't care less if you get off. Or I meet the type that are so greedy for your cock that they won't let you anywhere near theirs. The "verse" guys I meet seem to be interested in doing only one or the other.

    I guess its fun every once in a while, but I've tried fuck buddies too and they also take on either the really dominate/submissive role each time we mess around. Are there any guys out there that like getting their cock sucked AND enjoy sucking back, let alone a guy who will bottom and top for you? Or do people actually like these roles?
  • jake392

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    May 18, 2013 7:42 AM GMT
    I really don't the first type of guy I described. It's been a few times that I've sucked a guy until he came, leaned back for my turn, and then I get something like "I would suck you but sorry I'm late and have to be somewhere right now", or "oh....I don't really suck cock....". I wish guys would be up front about that. icon_confused.gif
  • HottJoe

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    May 20, 2013 3:36 PM GMT
    Have you tried tying them up and dominating their asses with disregard to their feelings as you get off and gtfo?
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    May 20, 2013 4:09 PM GMT
    HottJoe saidHave you tried tying them up and dominating their asses with disregard to their feelings as you get off and gtfo?


    You mean. . . Rape?
  • HottJoe

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    May 20, 2013 4:16 PM GMT
    Slim2010 said
    HottJoe saidHave you tried tying them up and dominating their asses with disregard to their feelings as you get off and gtfo?


    You mean. . . Rape?


    No, of course not!!!!! Where is YOUR mind at????icon_eek.gif
  • Apparition

    Posts: 3525

    May 21, 2013 4:54 AM GMT
    get two guys?

    insist on 69?

    put in your profile what you want and get yours first. pretty simple.
  • helloandgoodb...

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    May 21, 2013 10:40 AM GMT
    ask more questions before you hop into bed. I'm not saying you have to insist on dinner and a back ground check, but some "what are you into? do you like...? etc." give you a feel for him.
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    May 21, 2013 12:20 PM GMT
    helloandgoodbi saidask more questions before you hop into bed. I'm not saying you have to insist on dinner and a back ground check, but some "what are you into? do you like...? etc." give you a feel for him.


    +1
  • kew1

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    May 21, 2013 12:42 PM GMT
    HottJoe saidHave you tried tying them up and dominating their asses with disregard to their feelings as you get off and gtfo?


    You forget to untie him icon_biggrin.gif
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    May 28, 2013 6:48 AM GMT
    i guess this is where the ole hated very vague standby question comes in.......

    "so, what are you into"?
  • WApilot

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    Jun 11, 2013 8:28 AM GMT
    HottJoe saidHave you tried tying them up and dominating their asses with disregard to their feelings as you get off and gtfo?


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    rape??????