everyone should feel sorry for me now....

  • Import

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    May 19, 2013 3:13 PM GMT
    Last night I went with a friend of mine to the gayborhood for some drinks.


    At a bar, a guy (an older gentlemen) comes up and sits at the table next to me. Offers to buy me a drink....with a caveat. He didn't want to leave his table. So he offered to just give me his credit card so I could buy a drink with his money.

    Who gives a strange guy in the bar their credit card and tells him to walk off with it? lol

    stupid much?
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    May 19, 2013 3:21 PM GMT
    I guess he's trying a psychology experiment I have no clue :/
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    May 19, 2013 3:22 PM GMT
    My guess....it was a stolen credit card.
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    May 19, 2013 3:23 PM GMT
    I dunno... He didn't want to lose the table? Was it crowded? Did he hope you'd leave the bar and join him at his table?
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    May 19, 2013 3:27 PM GMT
    Did you sleep with him?
  • HndsmKansan

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    May 19, 2013 3:36 PM GMT
    Definitely odd.... I would have been wondering what planet he is from and
    with my background, would have given him a lecture in the process, talk about killing the mood. Maybe it needed to be put out of its misery....haha.
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    May 19, 2013 3:38 PM GMT
    lol a strange man gives me his card....

    Me:
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  • AMoonHawk

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    May 19, 2013 4:06 PM GMT
    Erik101 saidMy guess....it was a stolen credit card.

    This
    ... Setting you up to do some prison time
    Next time tell him to just start a tab with the bartender ... this way it is out of your hands
  • Import

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    May 19, 2013 4:09 PM GMT
    well, im going to brunch with him today lolz... I gave him my number and he sent me this kinda corny ass txt saying..."you were the only one tonight that made me act differently...that is you're a cute guy...you made sense and I liked u."

    so, we'll see how this "brunch" goes...

  • HottJoe

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    May 19, 2013 4:15 PM GMT
    Marry him, you dingbat!icon_razz.gif
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    May 19, 2013 4:17 PM GMT
    I hope he is as rude, flippant and obnoxious to you as you seem to be on here.
    Karma.
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    May 19, 2013 4:18 PM GMT
    Import saidwell, im going to brunch with him today lolz... I gave him my number and he sent me this kinda corny ass txt saying..."you were the only one tonight that made me act differently...that is you're a cute guy...you made sense and I liked u."

    so, we'll see how this "brunch" goes...



    You should drop questions that subliminally give you a hint as to what his credit score is icon_lol.gif
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    May 19, 2013 4:21 PM GMT
    He wanted to send you a message that he has money and wants you to feel comfortable accessing it as and when you like.

    Read: I want a toyboy, how about you let me be your silver sugar daddy?


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    May 19, 2013 5:33 PM GMT
    Aristoshark said...

    PLATINUM!


    Pshh...

    Black Card minimum over here icon_cool.gif

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    May 19, 2013 5:39 PM GMT
    _SAGE_ said
    Aristoshark said...

    PLATINUM!


    Pshh...

    Black Card minimum over here icon_cool.gif

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    May 19, 2013 6:19 PM GMT
    LOL. Import got himself a sugar daddy.
  • HottJoe

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    May 19, 2013 6:21 PM GMT
    xrichx saidLOL. Import got himself a sugar daddy.


    Inorite. They've been brunching for hours.
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    May 19, 2013 7:32 PM GMT
    BlackCat90 said

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    And don't you forget it, boo icon_cool.gif

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    May 20, 2013 1:42 AM GMT
    Import saidwell, im going to brunch with him today lolz... I gave him my number and he sent me this kinda corny ass txt saying..."you were the only one tonight that made me act differently...that is you're a cute guy...you made sense and I liked u."

    so, we'll see how this "brunch" goes...


    Maybe he recognized that you had an honest face and are a stand up guy. Hope the brunch (and whatever happened afterward) was fun. Maybe you'll become indoctrinated into the mysteries and benefits of dating older guys.
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    May 20, 2013 1:51 AM GMT
    why should we be feeling sorry for you?


  • Import

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    May 20, 2013 2:29 PM GMT
    We spent the entire day together yesterday, which I was not anticipating... it was OK. We had brunch at a place, which was very nice and he paid for everything, despite me offering to pay. He insisted that he pay.....OK, fine.
    I had 2 mimosas....he had 5 icon_confused.gif (keep in mind I was drinking the night before at the bar I had met him at, so I was not trying to drink again the next morning, god damn)...

    After brunch we walked around this street which had shops and whatnot...I was kind of ready to be done with it, but there was this street festival going on, so we stuck around and checked it out and it was pretty cool.... then we got dinner lol....and he paid again. I felt kind of ridiculous at this point, because he had easily spent upwards of $100 throughout the day on stuff. He would not let me pay for anything....as if I'm some broke fuck, I dunno if I should have been insulted...or been like "awww, how sweet"... I didn't want this thing to come off as some long date where he paid for everything in the hopes of gettin sex at the end.....cuz no, that wasn't gonna happen. I wasn't feelin it like that.

    Long story short, I go to drop him off at his place...and he invites me up stairs to this place... I was like "no, i have work in the morning, sorry" ...and it literally took him like 10 mins to get out of my car! He kept asking and insisting I come uppp......naaah, I'm not coming up. I'm not interested. I had a nice day, thank you, and see you soon.


    this morning he txts me "I uninstalled my OKCupid app" ......

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    First of all, I didnt even meet him on OKCupid, I met him at the bar. I imagine he was telling me this because he wanted to convey a message of "i'm no longer interested in meeting other people, I want you to be my person?".....

    Why would he tell me he uninstalled OKCupid....? I dont even have one and to be quite honest dont even care if he did or didn't.

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    May 20, 2013 2:32 PM GMT
    Awww someone is in Love with import!
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    May 20, 2013 2:36 PM GMT
    Sounds like you've got an imbalance on your hands. He is falling for you but you're not feeling like going forward -- maybe not ever. The chemistry is either there - - - or it's just not. I guess you'll decide whether to see him again - - - or not. If it were me - and I could tell that there was some potential there, I'd consider going out with him some more and just seeing where it goes. However, if I could tell that this was never going to be a connection, I'd politely decline any future dates - - just so I didn't use up any more of his (or my) time. But you know all that - - - - I get a feeling you've been around and it's not your first time up at the rodeo. icon_cool.gif
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    May 20, 2013 2:38 PM GMT
    There's nothing attractive about desperate.
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    May 20, 2013 2:42 PM GMT
    I think he made up the whole story LOL