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  • FetaFeta1313

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    May 19, 2013 5:25 PM GMT
    :-)
  • HottJoe

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    May 19, 2013 5:26 PM GMT
    CONFIDENCE IS KEY.
  • jackooh

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    May 20, 2013 12:18 AM GMT
    if you cant love yo'self, how'n the hell you goan love somebody else?
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    May 20, 2013 12:32 AM GMT
    Why are you so upset that you haven't found your "soulmate" yet?

    Stop crying over something so pathetic and work on bettering yourself. People come and go in our lives, the only person who will be there to the end is yourself.
    You don't need someone else to complete or define you, if you find someone that's great. If you don't that's great too, if you're unhappy with yourself then you will still be unhappy while in a relationship. Sort yourself out.
  • marcussollice

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    May 20, 2013 8:59 AM GMT
    Aristoshark said1. Turn off your caps lock.
    2. Learn to like yourself.


    dies icon_lol.gif.... "1. Turn off your caps lock."
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    May 20, 2013 11:23 AM GMT
    likan said People come and go in our lives, the only person who will be there to the end is yourself.
    You don't need someone else to complete or define you, if you find someone that's great. If you don't that's great too, if you're unhappy with yourself then you will still be unhappy while in a relationship.


    Well said. Cheer up man =)
  • LoveAndPeace

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    May 21, 2013 5:01 AM GMT
    jackooh saidif you cant love yo'self, how'n the hell you goan love somebody else?
    Can I get an amen up in hereee?!
  • Baoish

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    May 21, 2013 5:58 AM GMT
    jackooh saidif you cant love yo'self, how'n the hell you goan love somebody else?


    ^ yes.

    And uhh.. well I'm not going to call you a slut or anything but just having sex alot isn't going to find you're true love. What I mean is if you have a partner and it's all about mostly sex, then it's not that true perfect kind of relationship. I've been there and done that, now I'm working on it.

    I went to this lgbtq group a few weeks ago and we were talking about this subject because one of the group members told the group leader that he's a ''sex addict.'' Later the group leader told us the true meaning of sex addiction. There's hook-ups and other types of stuff that I forgot what he said. He told us what I just told you about having a relationship that's just about sex then it means it's not a real relationship.

    So if that guy is looking for a booty call from you say no. If you are horny, go jack off or distract yourself. I myself is looking forward to group therapy for this cause my whoremones gets out of control sometimes lol.

    Anyways, you are young like me. I'm 18 and you're 25 little age difference I know lol, I use to be realllllyyyyy desperate for a relationship but I learned being desperate isn't going to get me anywhere. It makes me really depressed. I have friends and a family who loves me, I enjoy having a life also. I hope the same goes to you too. You got this.

    Smile buddy! icon_smile.gif
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    May 21, 2013 9:56 AM GMT
    I DON'T KNOW MAYBE WRITING IN CAPS CONTINUOUSLY WILL HELP
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    May 21, 2013 1:13 PM GMT
    ^^^ And include run-on sentences.
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    May 23, 2013 12:59 AM GMT
    I probably might be lonely to, but there is nothing wrong with being Lonely4Life.
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    May 23, 2013 3:55 AM GMT
    at the risk of being blunt and coming off as mean... no one likes whining.
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    May 23, 2013 11:16 AM GMT
    phenom40205 saidat the risk of being blunt and coming off as mean... no one likes whining.

    This.
  • BloodFlame

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    May 23, 2013 9:09 PM GMT
    I used to have the same feelings you did minus the sex with many guys thing. I won't judge so don't worry but I will offer some advice.

    1. Turn off caps lock. Okay, I'm joking lol. But really, try to get some confidence. It's not easy, I know this very well but you have to try. Without confidence, you'll never be happy, even if you are in a relationship and that can doom it from the start. So really, try to build confidence. Look in the mirror and find things what you like. Conceded? Maybe but just remember to keep a level head.

    2. Try to find a hobby. My guess is you spend a lot of time thinking about this issue and that's not good. So try finding a hobby to take your mind off of things.

    3. Try to learn to enjoy your own company. This one may come easier for others but seriously, this can help. Don't base your self worth on relationships. Spend time with those you care about like friends and family.

    Do these things and I'm sure it'll be much easier. And your special guy is bound to find you eventually so isn't it better to have a good head on your shoulders when he does? Keep your chin up dude, you'll be okay. icon_smile.gif