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    Oct 27, 2008 12:35 AM GMT
    So I'm dating this older guy. He's cute, great body, stable...a good kisser, but his rough stubble is KILLING ME!! I just now recovered from last weekend of raw lips and exfoliated cheeks (the best remedy since apricot scrub).

    I want to be with him, but I honestly don't know how long I can make-out with sandpaper. Should I tell him?

    This could just be me finding small issues and making a big deal of it...My lips tell me otherwise. icon_confused.gif

    My face feels like this guy here ----->icon_redface.gif


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    Oct 27, 2008 12:37 AM GMT
    Talk to him about it. You don't want to be uncomfortable.
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    Oct 27, 2008 2:06 AM GMT
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  • EricLA

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    Oct 27, 2008 2:11 AM GMT
    I'm sure if it was a choice between shaving and losing some good making out with you, that he's likely to make the right choice. Be upfront about it.
  • Bunjamon

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    Oct 27, 2008 2:41 AM GMT
    I often have the same problem. I have really sensitive skin, so after a long make-out session I sometimes even get scabs on my chin! So get the guy to shave!
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    Oct 27, 2008 2:53 AM GMT
    My first BF had a stubbly mustache that was torture on my face. I mentioned it to him, but he wanted to maintain his "look." So I grew my own mustache as a defense against his, and it actually worked pretty well.

    I would tell him about the problem. I doubt it's the first time he's heard it. How you guys deal with it is another matter, but discussion & compromise is a mark of 2 guys who can get along for the long term. Rigidity of position is usually a less favorable sign.
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    Oct 27, 2008 3:27 AM GMT
    I love my stubble. I could never part ways with it. I know what you mean thou. When I make out with another guy with a stubbly face i get red. I love it thou. But I guess thats me and I like it rough icon_redface.gif
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    Oct 27, 2008 3:39 AM GMT
    I guess I have pretty tough skin. I actually like the kiss exfoliant!
  • metalxracr

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    Oct 27, 2008 4:21 AM GMT
    Oh man I LOVE stubble! Thought if I hadn't shaved in a day or something and a guy told me he wanted me to shave I would not care at all. It's not big deal! I would do it ASAP for him lol.
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    Oct 27, 2008 4:42 AM GMT
    i love it.

    but take it up with him. yall will work something out.
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    Oct 27, 2008 9:01 PM GMT
    I'll tell him tonight before he comes over.

    I'm cooking him a steak dinner, the works!

    (I'm already growing out my beard too!! LOL) icon_wink.gif

    Thanks alot guys, ya'll are so helpful!
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    Oct 27, 2008 9:10 PM GMT
    The irritation and bruising on my chin from kissing a guy with stubble is a badge of honor for me. I wake up in the morning, look in the mirror and smile.