Having sex

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    May 21, 2013 3:12 AM GMT
    Hey guys I need sum advice, I haven't had sex yet because iam a little afraid that it might hurt icon_eek.gif iam a bottom guy, every time it get close to doing it I chicken out icon_cry.gif is there anything that could help me follow thru icon_exclaim.gif I would appreciate any advice or things you went thru that would help me, thanks icon_wink.gif
  • Baoish

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    May 21, 2013 6:06 AM GMT
    Chicken out... makes sense... lol... jk.

    Anyways... I'm guessing when you get fucked, shit comes out right? Take a dump before having sex I guess. Use a condom and plentyyyy of lube. If it hurts use more lube and tell the guy to take it slowly until your ass gets use to it lol. You're welcome.
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    May 21, 2013 1:00 PM GMT
    Practice with a dildo. If you chicken out from that, then there's no hope!
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    May 21, 2013 2:13 PM GMT
    Erik101 saidPractice with a dildo. If you chicken out from that, then there's no hope!


    That's pretty much your best bet. Go slow and use a lot of lube. Eventually your body will get used to the penetration and then the fun part starts icon_cool.gif
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    May 21, 2013 3:56 PM GMT
    Erik101 saidPractice with a dildo. If you chicken out from that, then there's no hope!


    +1


    Be open with whoever you decide to do it with first time. Ain't no shame. Get him to work your arse with a lot of tongue action. Start with a finger, then two.

    Make a conscious effort to feel how your anal muscles are working and recognise what it feels like when they relax; that's what you're after. The more relaxed your arse is, the less it will hurt.
  • rnch

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    May 21, 2013 4:08 PM GMT
    Erik101 saidPractice with a dildo. If you chicken out from that, then there's no hope!




    I respectfully disagree. I tired the dildo route several times; a hunk of latex did NOTHING for me. Dull, painfull, tedious and boring.

    I waited a looonnnnggg time unitl I found the right man to deflower me, a skillfull, sensitive top man who took his time earning my confidence, trust and eventually my admiration and my anal virginity. After a long foreplay session with kissing, lube, fingering, rimming and stroking; I was amazed at how easily he slid in me, when we both finally agreed it was time to do it.

    It's either him for me....or just my left hand and porno movies.