If u had to choose one, would u rather be good-looking or smart & why?......

  • TannerMasseur

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    May 21, 2013 3:41 AM GMT
    Do u think it's easier to go thru life being blessed with good looks so complete strangers would welcome u with a smile & an open heart & easily be able to sleep with anyone u like because u fit their physical type & they'd be more than happy to get u in their bed? Or would u rather be smart & witty but physically have a lot to be desired & see how far that gets u?......
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    May 21, 2013 4:00 AM GMT
    Honestly spgem, I'd rather be smart. Several reasons:

    1. I've met several pretty boys who were dumb. Everything goes to the toilet the minute they start talking. One guy told me and was sure the Philippines was in South America.

    2. Being pretty has got to be boring. You get hit on all the time and that has to get old. I'd rather be hit on once in a blue moon. Makes me look forward to getting to know the guy and appreciate what he sees. icon_smile.gif

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    May 21, 2013 4:02 AM GMT
    Erik101 saidHonestly spgem, I'd rather be smart. Several reasons:

    1. I've met several pretty boys who were dumb. Everything goes to the toilet the minute they start talking. One guy told me and was sure the Philippines was in South America.

    2. Being pretty has got to be boring. You get hit on all the time and that has to get old. I'd rather be hit on once in a blue moon. Makes me look forward to getting to know the guy and appreciate what he sees. icon_smile.gif



    Great response Erik icon_smile.gif
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    May 21, 2013 4:03 AM GMT
    The real question is, how dumb am I?... If we're talking that I'd be Ryan Lochte, I'll pass...
  • TannerMasseur

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    May 21, 2013 4:04 AM GMT
    I think it's a double-edged sword, u need both to have longevity icon_smile.gif ......
  • TannerMasseur

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    May 21, 2013 4:08 AM GMT
    But seems to me if ur blessed with good looks u generally have more fun icon_smile.gif ......
  • TannerMasseur

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    May 21, 2013 4:15 AM GMT
    spgem saidBut seems to me if ur blessed with good looks u generally have more fun because people want to get in ur pants & u don't have to worry about being rejected because no one would want to reject someone as good-looking as u icon_smile.gif ......
  • TannerMasseur

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    May 21, 2013 4:29 AM GMT
    trbld saidAre you playing devil's advocate again or are you really that shallow?


    Cut the bullshit. Who isn't partially shallow, really?!......
  • TannerMasseur

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    May 21, 2013 4:34 AM GMT
    trbld said
    spgem said
    trbld saidAre you playing devil's advocate again or are you really that shallow?
    Cut the bullshit. Who isn't partially shallow, really?!......
    There's a difference between having a preference for a certain look and giving people the time of day only because they're attractive.


    Honey if someone attractive asked u for the time of day u'd be the first to respond without hesitation icon_smile.gif
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    May 21, 2013 4:48 AM GMT
    I would rather be Smart because Beauty is very subjective. But if I am somehow got the dumb genes like say Ryan Lochte ? I, at least, want to look like a male model!!! Hehehe, just kidding.


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    May 21, 2013 4:53 AM GMT
    phenom40205 saidThe real question is, how dumb am I?... If we're talking that I'd be Ryan Lochte, I'll pass...

    LOL
  • TannerMasseur

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    May 21, 2013 4:54 AM GMT
    Chris Evans, looks, brains, brawn, thespian, sings icon_smile.gif ......
  • Apparition

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    May 21, 2013 5:02 AM GMT
    already smart and that's not helping...
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    May 21, 2013 5:04 AM GMT
    good looking... I tried being smart and a hard worker. What I have seen is the good-looking - but lazy and incompetent get promoted above people like me into the management positions where they take credit for all the work, so I will choose that.
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    May 21, 2013 5:06 AM GMT
    I'll go with smart because I can use my smarts to make money and get plastic surgery. icon_wink.gif
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    May 21, 2013 5:09 AM GMT
    Smart.
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    May 21, 2013 5:10 AM GMT
    Good looking.

    You can always become more intelligent through education and literature and exposure to the arts. I've seen plenty of people do it.

    It takes more money to become attractive and you still may not be attractive to everybody.
  • BmwKid92

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    May 21, 2013 5:18 AM GMT
    good looking got me thru highschool and so far college, got me a job also =)
  • TannerMasseur

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    May 21, 2013 5:33 AM GMT
    trbld said
    spgem saidHoney if someone attractive asked u for the time of day u'd be the first to respond without hesitation icon_smile.gif
    Where the fuck did you get that idea from? icon_neutral.gif


    Just being a realist icon_smile.gif .....
  • AMoonHawk

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    May 21, 2013 5:33 AM GMT
    Good looking ... Oh, I thought you meant for a bf ... still same answer
  • TannerMasseur

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    May 21, 2013 5:34 AM GMT
    MisfitToy saidGood looking.

    You can always become more intelligent through education and literature and exposure to the arts. I've seen plenty of people do it.

    It takes more money to become attractive and you still may not be attractive to everybody.


    Agree icon_smile.gif
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    May 21, 2013 5:40 AM GMT
    Smart. But I must be REALLY smart. I'd rather be successful than popular, I'm just cold that way. Most of the most successful and contented people in the world are average lookers anyway.

    Of course, if I had my pick, I would rather be both (:
  • TannerMasseur

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    May 21, 2013 5:43 AM GMT
    TheChrisGuy saidSmart. But I must be REALLY smart. I'd rather be successful than popular, I'm just cold that way. Most of the most successful and contented people in the world are average lookers anyway.

    Of course, if I had my pick, I would rather be both (:


    Don't we all.....
  • HottJoe

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    May 21, 2013 5:46 AM GMT
    Good looking people don't have time to read!icon_rolleyes.gif
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    May 21, 2013 5:48 AM GMT
    I would have to say smart. I want to change the world. One of my goals is to change the way we look at Radiation Oncology