How to get a guy on RJ

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    May 22, 2013 7:47 PM GMT
    Anybody know how to do it? please help me out cause now I'm up on here doing this.
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    May 22, 2013 7:49 PM GMT
    That works for me. . . . You must doing it wrong. . .
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    May 22, 2013 7:50 PM GMT
    Be white, pretty and irreverent.

    Seems to work for all these other bitches.
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    May 22, 2013 7:54 PM GMT
    Well, that's good for starters....now add a little of this:
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  • in_this_corne...

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    May 22, 2013 8:24 PM GMT
    Once it happens I'll tell you how it's done.
  • Just_Tim

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    May 22, 2013 8:45 PM GMT
    Make multiple profiles on here, with different pics gathered from around the internet. Pick someone you fancy and hotlist him all at once. Whichever one he goes for just BE that guy. Simple.
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    May 22, 2013 8:46 PM GMT
    MisfitToyBe white, pretty and irreverent.

    Seems to work for all these other bitches.


    I'm not white, I don't know if i'm pretty or good looking, but the closest to irreverent I might get to is ratchet but that is if some 1 makes me mad enough. will that work? lol

    datscarfIve been with quite a few guys are RJ and I will tell you this: its not as complicated as it seems.

    -You need to post at least two to three verifiable pics that show off the goods.
    -While there are many sluts here, no one actually acts like one, so its best to start as friends first then make a hangout time.
    -Guys here travel alot and they genuinely "enjoy" each others company while in town.

    So its not your typically gloryhole. Be friendly, be open, and travel alot.

    The verified pics im trying to work on, once my swelling is gone I'll try again. I always start as friends, maybe I give to many compliments about looks, I can't help it, but hangout time as of the moment is complicated. Traveling will have to wait to because, I am not even able to leave today because of my swelling but I need a few months anyway.
    "Do you think better lookin pictures" will help also?
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    May 22, 2013 8:53 PM GMT
    Just_TimMake multiple profiles on here, with different pics gathered from around the internet. Pick someone you fancy and hotlist him all at once. Whichever one he goes for just BE that guy. Simple.

    That's a little shallow don't you think? I don't want to fake or lie about more than I already am with my starting-up gay/straight double-life.
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    May 22, 2013 10:33 PM GMT
    QuasarMarauder7 said
    Just_TimMake multiple profiles on here, with different pics gathered from around the internet. Pick someone you fancy and hotlist him all at once. Whichever one he goes for just BE that guy. Simple.

    That's a little shallow don't you think? I don't want to fake or lie about more than I already am with my starting-up gay/straight double-life.


    That is VERY shallow. I was kidding. I just didn't have any real advice to give icon_wink.gif
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    May 22, 2013 10:34 PM GMT
    Just_Tim saidMake multiple profiles on here, with different pics gathered from around the internet. Pick someone you fancy and hotlist him all at once. Whichever one he goes for just BE that guy. Simple.


    Challenge Accepted!!!
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    May 22, 2013 11:22 PM GMT
    Since we all want the same thing (except the people who say they are just here for fitness advice - har), maybe someone should ask why we think it *doesn't* work. I'm pretty sure if we all went on a trans-Atlantic cruise together, we'd all go nuts on each other. (or is that *put* nuts on each other?)
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    May 23, 2013 4:02 AM GMT
    in_this_corner saidOnce it happens I'll tell you how it's done.


    Actually it's quite simple. There's a secret, rarely spoken of RJ trick that works like a charm and is guaranteed to get you a man.


    Ready everyone??




    First you visit my profile. Then you send me all kinds of flirty messages. Maybe add a photo comment or hot list me. If you keep doing this, you will eventually appease the RJ gods, who then will grant you good fortune. It's kind of like rubbing the Buddha's belly.







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    May 23, 2013 4:11 AM GMT
    Participate in forums.

    ADD something to the discussions.

    Look the best You can.

    Have something to say - a point of view and don't be afraid to share it.

    Put up some nice pics.

    Don't take Yourself too seriously.

    You will have moar attention than You know what to do with!

    Good Luck!!!

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    May 23, 2013 4:20 AM GMT
    QuasarMarauder7 saidAnybody know how to do it? please help me out cause now I'm up on here doing this.
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    I have no clue how to answer your question, but can we instead shift the topic to how amazing the show "That's So Raven" was!? I don't know why but I found this show HILARIOUS! Even the gif you posted has me laughing... she so crazy!
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    May 23, 2013 4:23 AM GMT
    I've been watching the show sooo much on YouTube lately, even the Cheetah Girls lol. This show to me is Disney's best and the best sitcom of my life today. She inspired my sitcom ideas lol.
  • EJ994

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    May 23, 2013 4:27 AM GMT
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    QuasarMarauder7 saidAnybody know how to do it? please help me out cause now I'm up on here doing this.
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    I have no clue how to answer your question, but can we instead shift the topic to how amazing the show "That's So Raven" was!? I don't know why but I found this show HILARIOUS! Even the gif you posted has me laughing... she so crazy!


    I loved that show! And I think Raven is a lesbian (I remember her mentioning it.....
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    May 23, 2013 4:27 AM GMT
    QuasarMarauder7 saidAnybody know how to do it? please help me out cause now I'm up on here doing this.
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    Ok, I almost cried I laughed so hard at this! icon_lol.gif
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    May 23, 2013 4:29 AM GMT
    There's no formula for it. RJ isn't a great place to find dates anyway. There are other sites more suited for dating.
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    May 23, 2013 4:44 AM GMT
    Cash saidParticipate in forums.

    ADD something to the discussions.

    Look the best You can.

    Have something to say - a point of view and don't be afraid to share it.

    Put up some nice pics.

    Don't take Yourself too seriously.

    You will have moar attention than You know what to do with!

    Good Luck!!!

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    Actually - - - this is how we did it - - - about 5 years ago. We lived on opposite coasts and met through participating in Forums. A few notes to each other; then a few phone calls - - - all the way to more calls - even finally every day. Finally it was time to meet - - - which we did at an airport. Then we did that over & over. Finally - one of us had to move across the country. Long distance relationships can work for some, but not for us. Here we are. Anybody wanting the answer to the question posed should just re-read the advice Cash posted.
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    May 23, 2013 5:02 AM GMT
    DudeInNOVA saidThere's no formula for it. RJ isn't a great place to find dates anyway. There are other sites more suited for dating.
    *whispers* ... and they are? *cough cough* icon_wink.gif
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    May 23, 2013 5:03 AM GMT
    DudeInNOVA saidThere's no formula for it. RJ isn't a great place to find dates anyway. There are other sites more suited for dating.


    I don't know if I agree with that DIN.

    I know I am in NYC - but I have found there are actually plenty of ops on RJ.

    It is not a "dating site" but it IS social and that can lead to ANYthing.

    I am not personally involved with any other site - but from what I hear, "dating sites" are little more than electronic blowjob organizers with GPS.

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    May 23, 2013 5:03 AM GMT
    Genre said *whispers* ... and they are? *cough cough* icon_wink.gif

    Match.com? OKCupid? Plenty of Fish? Not that you need help finding someone.
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    May 23, 2013 5:09 AM GMT
    Cash saidI don't know if I agree with that DIN.

    I know I am in NYC - but I have found there are actually plenty of ops on RJ.

    It is not a "dating site" but it IS social and that can lead to ANYthing.

    I am not personally involved with any other site - but from what I hear, "dating sites" are little more than electronic blowjob organizers with GPS.

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    That's just been my experience and observation. Everyone's experiences will be different, but it doesn't seem like many people find a boyfriend on this site. Sure, anything can happen, and being in a major metropolitan area increases your chances of finding someone. Dating sites vary. Some are more suited for long term relationships, while others are more suited for hookups. That's just my 2 cents.
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    May 23, 2013 5:28 AM GMT
    DudeInNOVA said
    Cash saidI don't know if I agree with that DIN.

    I know I am in NYC - but I have found there are actually plenty of ops on RJ.

    It is not a "dating site" but it IS social and that can lead to ANYthing.

    I am not personally involved with any other site - but from what I hear, "dating sites" are little more than electronic blowjob organizers with GPS.

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    That's just been my experience and observation. Everyone's experiences will be different, but it doesn't seem like many people find a boyfriend on this site. Sure, anything can happen, and being in a major metropolitan area increases your chances of finding someone. Dating sites vary. Some are more suited for long term relationships, while others are more suited for hookups. That's just my 2 cents.
    Is it fair to say, it is what you make it. Grant it that you won't get anywhere if the other person isn't into you. But people certainly have gotten together. We have couples thread roaming around some where.

    I just wouldn't rule it out. As for the other sites you have listed. I have never tried them but I am sure their main focus is "dating?"
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    May 23, 2013 5:32 AM GMT
    Genre saidIs it fair to say, it is what you make it. Grant it that you won't get anywhere if the other person isn't into you. But people certainly have gotten together. We have couples thread roaming around some where.

    I just wouldn't rule it out. As for the other sites you have listed. I have never tried them but I am sure their main focus is "dating?"

    It certainly possible to find someone on RJ. Some people have. But given the number of people looking, the number of people who have found someone seems very small. I certainly wouldn't rule anything out. The rules for finding someone on RJ would be the same as any other site.

    The ones I listed are more dating oriented. The pay sites are slightly better because people aren't aren't serious aren't as likely to pay to find dates.