Riding cock

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    May 23, 2013 12:51 AM GMT
    When I bottom, I love to ride a guy cowboy and reverse cowboy style. Bouncing on a guy's cock really turns me on. This has been great when the guy's erection points straight out or slightly above or below horizontal. But the last guy I bottomed for had a really stiff dick with a higher erection angle than I'm used to (almost flat against his stomach). Riding him was awkward and I think it was uncomfortable/painful for him. Can anyone please suggest some ways that I can ride him more comfortably?
  • Christoforos

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    May 23, 2013 2:57 AM GMT
    There is no other way unless he can comfortably bend it towards a horizontal position.
  • HottJoe

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    May 23, 2013 3:20 AM GMT
    Christoforos saidThere is no other way unless he can comfortably bend it towards a horizontal position.


    What? I don't understand, and I want to ride big cock!!icon_eek.gif
  • Christoforos

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    May 23, 2013 4:47 AM GMT
    HottJoe said
    Christoforos saidThere is no other way unless he can comfortably bend it towards a horizontal position.


    What? I don't understand, and I want to ride big cock!!icon_eek.gif


    I don't really know of a simpler way to put it. If the top's cock is just stiff in that direction, it's not going to work.
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    May 23, 2013 1:23 PM GMT
    Oh icon_sad.gif I was hoping there was a similar position or some variation of cowboy that could work. Like if he sits up while Im on top or something. I'm inexperienced as a bottom and he's a fuck buddy, not a boyfriend, so I'm shy to awkwardly fumble through 20 different positions trying to ride him without hurting him.
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    May 23, 2013 1:45 PM GMT
    jrmdavis saidOh icon_sad.gif I was hoping there was a similar position or some variation of cowboy that could work. Like if he sits up while Im on top or something. I'm inexperienced as a bottom and he's a fuck buddy, not a boyfriend, so I'm shy to awkwardly fumble through 20 different positions trying to ride him without hurting him.

    Let the top guide you with positions that work for him. It might be with him sitting in an armless kitchen chair, or straddling a bench, you seated on his lap, facing him or away. Or missionary style with you on top. Only instead of you penetrating him, he's inside you. And you're moving back & forth along his chest, rather than up & down. Oil your bodies and have some sliding fun! icon_wink.gif

    Experimenting with different positions can be great. And remember, HE'S part of the equation, too. You may have a favorite position that makes you orgasm best. But save that one for your finale, and first go through others that HE likes.

    As the bottom, though, it's understood you'll probably want to cum first, if you can while bottoming, because once your top pops the show is likely over, at least for a while.

    I'll mention something about hardon bending: don't ever do it - dicks break! Some men can burst the erectile bodies inside the penis that produce an erection (the 2 corpora cavernosa are most susceptible to damage). Guys who have an extreme curve to their erect penis likely have experienced a problem with one of these bodies. Healing is problematical and can take a long time, if ever.

    So while an erection can be hard as steel (we hope) it's still fragile, and shouldn't be manhandled (slight pun). You can stroke it, suck it, and sit on it, but don't strain it or strike it.
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    May 23, 2013 5:32 PM GMT
    Thank you so much!! The chair thing sounds like it could work. I should be able to bounce on his cock a little easier. And the oil thing would be really hot because of all of the body contact. More importantly, these sound great if they are more comfortable/enjoyable for him and don't break his dick. I do get really turned on by bouncing on a guys dick, but thr biggest turn on is knowing that he is enjoying fucking my ass.