Have you ever had a persistent guy pester you?

  • BloodFlame

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    May 23, 2013 4:19 AM GMT
    I'm pretty sure we all had but I just was interested in hearing some experiences and opinions.

    I have about two. I'm not trying to sound malicious or mean-hearted, I'm not like that at all but these two guys are constantly like this online. The first time when they messaged, I politely declined (said "I wasn't interested but good luck" sort of thing). But the problem was they kept messaging me out of the blue at times. I blocked one of them but he just made another account and messaged me again. icon_neutral.gif

    It's most likely my fault since I wasn't firm in the beginning. I need to work on that but I hate feeling mean. It's just how I am. But after this experience, I feel I have to buck it up.

    The annoying thing is that I put an ad on craigslist in the musicians post a few days ago as I was looking to meet some musicians to practice with and the guy sent me a message saying if I was "looking". Yeah... It's just so weird. Whenever I am turned down by a guy I like, I never pester them and just move on.

    Anyway, how about you guys? Have you had something like this happen and how did you take it?
  • BloodFlame

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    May 23, 2013 4:39 AM GMT
    Unintended saidBeing pestered online is nothing like being pestered in person.

    I could imagine. What was your experience like you don't mind sharing?
  • BloodFlame

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    May 23, 2013 7:55 PM GMT
    datscarf saidWhat did the two guys look like?

    The first guy was someone who went to the same school as me and he was in one of my classes. He looked average in my opinion. Nothing wrong but I just wasn't interested in him.

    The second guy was online and I didn't see what he looked like since he only sent me dick pics. And I specifically said in my profile to not send me them. So I wouldn't know but the second guy is the guy who pesters me a lot more then the first guy.
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    May 26, 2013 2:52 AM GMT

    This is the way you handle it.