Loving Straight Dudes

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    May 23, 2013 3:37 PM GMT
    I love a gay-friendly, non-homophobic (rare) or curious straight guy when he's nervous or shy or submissive in front of me because I'm flirting with him and he can't respond. Dontcha just love playing with straight guys like that? As long as they aren't a homophobic a$$hole.
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    May 23, 2013 3:48 PM GMT
    good luck with that
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    May 23, 2013 4:08 PM GMT
    Why waste time and effort on someone that you know cannot/will not respond icon_question.gif




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    May 23, 2013 4:14 PM GMT
    theantijock saidgood luck with that
    This

    & imagine yourself in a situation where a girl flirts with you.
    how do you feel?
    He feels the same...
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    May 23, 2013 4:29 PM GMT
    rnchWhy waste time and effort on someone that you know cannot/will not respond
    straight guys are sometimes just fun to flirt with and hit on, not actually date, but

    Harry7785This

    & imagine yourself in a situation where a girl flirts with you.
    how do you feel?
    He feels the same...
    A lot of girls do flirt with me and I flirt back I even enjoy flirting with some girls just because flirting to me is fun.
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    May 23, 2013 5:04 PM GMT
    QuasarMarauder7 said
    rnchWhy waste time and effort on someone that you know cannot/will not respond
    straight guys are sometimes just fun to flirt with and hit on, not actually date, but

    Harry7785This

    & imagine yourself in a situation where a girl flirts with you.
    how do you feel?
    He feels the same...
    A lot of girls do flirt with me and I flirt back I even enjoy flirting with some girls just because flirting to me is fun.
    if they get shy and insecure they probably don't like flirting with you like you do with them or with girls.
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    May 23, 2013 5:14 PM GMT
    My straight lodger loves flirting with me and my hubby. It's sweet.
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    May 23, 2013 5:19 PM GMT
    My straight friend kisses me, hugs me, tells me he loves me, etc. He used to flirt with me and call me his boyfriend, but he backed off the flirting. Some straight guys are like that.
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    May 23, 2013 5:22 PM GMT
    Okay, before letting this topic go any further, define 'flirting' just to clear the difference in understanding...
    I have the meaning 'playful behavior intended to arouse sexual interest'
    What's your meaning?
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    May 23, 2013 5:33 PM GMT
    datscarf said
    Fiyero27 saidMy straight friend kisses me, hugs me, tells me he loves me, etc. He used to flirt with me and call me his boyfriend, but he backed off the flirting. Some straight guys are like that.


    Is he metrosexual?
    Definitely not. He just likes being affectionate with his gay friends.
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    May 23, 2013 6:03 PM GMT
    Harry7785Okay, before letting this topic go any further, define 'flirting' just to clear the difference in understanding...
    I have the meaning 'playful behavior intended to arouse sexual interest'
    What's your meaning?


    You totally just defined it.
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    May 23, 2013 6:10 PM GMT
    Mavourneen29Well, it's good to know that your friend is not homophobic... But from what you say, it seems that he is not very comfortable with the flirting stuff. You, for sure, love to flirt, but then, it's not just about you. I feel you are putting him in an uncomfy situation.

    He is aware that I just like seeing them shy because it's cute and I promise it's all just friendly play, which he isn't having the same reaction anymore and just ignores me so it's working less icon_sad.gif But we at least talk about things as friends
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    May 23, 2013 6:13 PM GMT
    QuasarMarauder7 said
    Harry7785
    What's your meaning?

    You totally just defined it.

    No, what I meant is give your understanding of the word.
    Though the dictionary defines in one way, people may use as they like & since I read your posts here, I had a feeling that flirtation to you is something more simpler than the actual meaning.
    Just asking whether you really mean it as in the dictionary or not.
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    May 23, 2013 6:13 PM GMT
    You need to respect other peoples personal space!! Back the fuck up.
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    May 23, 2013 7:29 PM GMT
    I have met straight guys that love attention and will take from whoever they can get. I find it best to steer clear of them.
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    May 23, 2013 8:08 PM GMT
    I mean I think of flirting as playing around in a way that may have some sexual jokes or some physical contact meant to seem lovey dubby but not serious or picking on someone innocently like stealing their stuff, tickling etc. And I promise I respect personal space and if some 1 tells me 2 stop I will stop immediately. 1 stop or no is enough.
  • BloodFlame

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    May 23, 2013 8:16 PM GMT
    Eh, I personally don't do that. It just seems like a waste unless you know for sure the straight doesn't mind but that is very rare. And besides, I hate making people feel uncomfortable and it's already bad enough that most straights dislike us gays because they feel we will try to convert them.

    And I have to agree with another comment about the guys who are more society-phobic then homophobic. I could not be around a society phobic. lol