Rejection Rant

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    May 25, 2013 12:29 AM GMT
    I am tired of these guys ignoring my messages and not responding back, giving me a thank you or at least showing some sort of appreciation for my lovingness. A lot don't like compliment's, talks about your interest, or pick-up lines, would some guys like it if I tried insulting you instead? Anybody else wanna just go off on a guy if he ignores you. Do you guys think I am being overly dramatic about this?
    I'm redy to do like Kelly Kelly and do the witch from Left 4 Dead.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zuIqMGRbqb4&feature=player_detailpage

    And as you all can tell I don't handle rejection well, and I am trying to work on that, but how do you handle rejection? please help
  • Generaleclect...

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    May 25, 2013 4:59 AM GMT
    Are the compliments you give really about "lovingness" if they're conditional? No one's obligated to respond. icon_neutral.gif
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    May 25, 2013 2:11 PM GMT
    QuasarMarauder7 saidI am tired of these guys ignoring my messages and not responding back, giving me a thank you or at least showing some sort of appreciation for my lovingness. A lot don't like compliment's, talks about your interest, or pick-up lines, would some guys like it if I tried insulting you instead? Anybody else wanna just go off on a guy if he ignores you. Do you guys think I am being overly dramatic about this?
    I'm redy to do like Kelly Kelly and do the witch from Left 4 Dead.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zuIqMGRbqb4&feature=player_detailpage

    And as you all can tell I don't handle rejection well, and I am trying to work on that, but how do you handle rejection? please help


    If I'm being perfectly honest, I wouldn't respond because you're 18 years old. Not that I'm a great deal older than you but some one in their mid 20s vs. 18 are in completely different stages in their life. Not completely incompatible in conversation necessarily, but it may be a stretch.


    And cue the accusations of ageism. Go.
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    May 25, 2013 2:34 PM GMT
    GeneraleclecticAre the compliments you give really about "lovingness" if they're conditional? No one's obligated to respond.
    The compliments are about maybe trying to get something going at least, but not love and I want things to be about love once I know and trust and have met the person personally before I get anywhere near that stage. I know they don't have to respond I was just getting offended to easily and y emotions just rushed me, and I don't know why always get mad like this, I'm trying to fix this to better my character. Not all my compliments require a return flirt that's just me giving kicks, and the pick-up lines or messages I send that gets me mad but there is an option to not answer o I can't be mad.

    Yogi567If I'm being perfectly honest, I wouldn't respond because you're 18 years old. Not that I'm a great deal older than you but some one in their mid 20s vs. 18 are in completely different stages in their life. Not completely incompatible in conversation necessarily, but it may be a stretch.


    And cue the accusations of ageism. Go.


    I can understand that the people in their mid 20's can't relate on such a level with someone who's 18 and new to the adult world. I wish I thought about this more to instead of going mad icon_sad.gif I have a lot of work to do.
  • calibro

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    May 25, 2013 2:44 PM GMT
    here's a response: you're a needy, egotistical guy. when guys don't respond, it means they don't think you're hot icon_lol.gif
  • calibro

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    May 25, 2013 2:54 PM GMT
    Misandry said
    calibro saidhere's a response: you're a needy, egotistical guy. when guys don't respond, it means they don't think you're hot icon_lol.gif


    Your inbox must stay dry.


    not as dry as your pussy
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    May 25, 2013 2:56 PM GMT
    Calibro I am so glad I'm ignoring your post, please don't post in anymore forums I make, your urge to start drama isn't necessary or desired. Blueyeditalian might like drama to, go find him.
  • calibro

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    May 25, 2013 3:19 PM GMT
    Misandry said
    calibro said
    Misandry said
    calibro saidhere's a response: you're a needy, egotistical guy. when guys don't respond, it means they don't think you're hot icon_lol.gif


    Your inbox must stay dry.


    not as dry as your pussy


    Oh hunty astroglide could wet a dry pussy.
    Even an asteroid couldnt bring attention to your crater.


    aside from the fact that i don't think an attraction ad hominem from someone who looks like the retarded, half-aborted offspring of mulan and scheherazade holds any weight, your insult doesn't make any sense from a scientific perspective. you have no understanding of causality, i.e., you're ugly and dumb.
  • calibro

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    May 25, 2013 3:22 PM GMT
    QuasarMarauder7 saidCalibro I am so glad I'm ignoring your post, please don't post in anymore forums I make, your urge to start drama isn't necessary or desired. Blueyeditalian might like drama to, go find him.


    considering you're so ignored and have nothing else in your life that you start a thousand threads a day... well, that's just like asking someone not to see a ralphy may when he's standing right in front of you... you mad bro?
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    May 25, 2013 3:53 PM GMT
    Yogi567 said
    QuasarMarauder7 saidI am tired of these guys ignoring my messages and not responding back, giving me a thank you or at least showing some sort of appreciation for my lovingness. A lot don't like compliment's, talks about your interest, or pick-up lines, would some guys like it if I tried insulting you instead? Anybody else wanna just go off on a guy if he ignores you. Do you guys think I am being overly dramatic about this?
    I'm redy to do like Kelly Kelly and do the witch from Left 4 Dead.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zuIqMGRbqb4&feature=player_detailpage

    And as you all can tell I don't handle rejection well, and I am trying to work on that, but how do you handle rejection? please help


    If I'm being perfectly honest, I wouldn't respond because you're 18 years old. Not that I'm a great deal older than you but some one in their mid 20s vs. 18 are in completely different stages in their life. Not completely incompatible in conversation necessarily, but it may be a stretch.


    And cue the accusations of ageism. Go.


    WTFicon_exclaim.gif How is it "some one in their mid 20s vs. 18 are in completely different stages in their life." Yet someone who is in his 40s or 50s vs 20s isn't in different stages?

    WTFicon_exclaim.gif How is it "some one in their mid 20s vs. 18 are in completely different stages in their life." Yet someone who is in his 40s or 50s vs 18s isn't in different stages?
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    May 25, 2013 4:04 PM GMT
    I don't usually acknowledge unsolicited emails here, and believe it or not I get them from every age group, but mostly teens & 20s, from every part of the US and the world. I assume they're scams of some sort, especially from newbies here just a short time.

    I'm more likely to answer to a specific legitimate question or request for personal advice. I don't bother with ones that begin: "I think you're cute" or "I like your hot pic" and any kind of invite to have real or cyber sex. If a guy hasn't bothered to read my profile where I clearly state I won't respond to that crap, or chooses to ignore what I said, then he definitely doesn't deserve the courtesy of a reply.
  • BloodFlame

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    May 25, 2013 5:29 PM GMT
    Rejection isn't easy to handle but you have to learn coping mechanisms because getting upset over it does nothing. I know how you feel because when I was 18 and learned of the online dating thing, I would have lots of messages ignored and it would discourage me (never threw a fit though).

    So yeah, just think of it like this. If the guy doesn't reply back, he's just not interested for whatever reason. Don't feel too down and just keep trying because sooner or later, you'll meet a guy who will take the time to reply back, even if it is a "thanks". icon_smile.gif You have to realize that not everyone is going to be into you and getting upset over something like that won't change anything.

    It does help better if you read the guys profile though. Because sometimes, it can be a turn off to a guy who states what he doesn't like in his profile like "If you are going to respond, please say something other than just "hi".' And other stuff of a similar nature.

    So don't worry dude, when this happens, just take a deep breath and shrug it off. It'll get better. icon_smile.gif
  • calibro

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    May 25, 2013 7:29 PM GMT
    Misandry said
    calibro said
    Misandry said
    calibro said
    Misandry said
    calibro saidhere's a response: you're a needy, egotistical guy. when guys don't respond, it means they don't think you're hot icon_lol.gif


    Your inbox must stay dry.


    not as dry as your pussy


    Oh hunty astroglide could wet a dry pussy.
    Even an asteroid couldnt bring attention to your crater.


    aside from the fact that i don't think an attraction ad hominem from someone who looks like the retarded, half-aborted offspring of mulan and scheherazade holds any weight, your insult doesn't make any sense from a scientific perspective. you have no understanding of causality, i.e., you're ugly and dumb.


    As far as I see Scheherazade and Mulan were sexy and famous bad bitches so that a +1 for me.
    The only casualty here is your shade i.e. you're unfunny.

    SN: Asteroids create craters in the ground when they land, so bloop!


    umm... yay for being proud of being the retarded, aborted offspring of fictional characters? and yes, while asteroids cause craters, an asteroid can't bring attention to an already formed crater... which is why you're an idiot.
  • The_Guruburu

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    May 25, 2013 7:36 PM GMT
    calibro said
    Misandry said
    calibro said
    Misandry said
    calibro said
    Misandry said
    calibro saidhere's a response: you're a needy, egotistical guy. when guys don't respond, it means they don't think you're hot icon_lol.gif


    Your inbox must stay dry.


    not as dry as your pussy


    Oh hunty astroglide could wet a dry pussy.
    Even an asteroid couldnt bring attention to your crater.


    aside from the fact that i don't think an attraction ad hominem from someone who looks like the retarded, half-aborted offspring of mulan and scheherazade holds any weight, your insult doesn't make any sense from a scientific perspective. you have no understanding of causality, i.e., you're ugly and dumb.


    As far as I see Scheherazade and Mulan were sexy and famous bad bitches so that a +1 for me.
    The only casualty here is your shade i.e. you're unfunny.

    SN: Asteroids create craters in the ground when they land, so bloop!


    umm... yay for being proud of being the retarded, aborted offspring of fictional characters? and yes, while asteroids cause craters, an asteroid can't bring attention to an already formed crater... which is why you're an idiot.


    CAT FIGHT!
  • d_1M

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    May 25, 2013 8:03 PM GMT
    and even here the attention goes to some one else from.........whats his name?
    the one that started this icon_eek.gificon_eek.gificon_eek.gificon_eek.gif
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    May 26, 2013 2:57 AM GMT
    Rejection never bothers me because, in the end, it is something I do to others often. How would I feel if I rejected some guy simply because I am not interested, only to have him take it personal and go off on a rant. However, I've gotten it down to a science. Whenver a guy speaks to me, I tell him quickly and without malice "I am not interested." I have even been thanked by some guys for being so honest, yet decent in my rejection.
  • NeuralShock

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    May 26, 2013 3:29 AM GMT
    calibro saidhere's a response: you're a needy, egotistical guy. when guys don't respond, it means they don't think you're hot icon_lol.gif


    Calibro is spot on.

    EVERYONE gets ignored, insulted, etc. I've yet to meet someone who doesn't. Bring out the liar that says they never have been ignored.

    If you get ignored shrug it off. Personally, I'd say it is a character flaw of their own to just ignore you rather than be respectful and say "Sorry you're not my type.". To that end, that last sentence I just typed, you can assume that they would hardly make a decent boyfriend.

    But don't take it to heart to be ignored.


    I also just looked on your profile. You're only 18.

    18 years old, I speak from personal experience when I say that most guys I know in real life wouldn't touch you with a ten foot pole. No, way way way way too young to take seriously.

    People looking for someone to be with in a serious way usually are going for age of 24+, younger than that are just considered a bunch of horny gay guys that aren't worth investing in. Maybe a night, or a month or a couple months of bedding them before dropping them after getting bored. But aside from that not worth it.

    So just sit back young padawan and be calm.
  • O5vx

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    May 26, 2013 3:51 AM GMT
    Perhaps you got a taste of your own medicine.
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    May 26, 2013 5:25 PM GMT
    O5vxPerhaps you got a taste of your own medicine.

    Maybe so and I just don't like the taste. icon_cry.gif
  • O5vx

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    May 26, 2013 7:35 PM GMT
    QuasarMarauder7 said
    O5vxPerhaps you got a taste of your own medicine.

    Maybe so and I just don't like the taste. icon_cry.gif
    awww, well, it takes getting use to.
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    May 26, 2013 7:39 PM GMT
    take a deep breath
    this is the internet
  • BIG_N_TALL

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    May 26, 2013 7:42 PM GMT
    QuasarMarauder7 saidI am tired of these guys ignoring my messages and not responding back, giving me a thank you or at least showing some sort of appreciation for my lovingness. A lot don't like compliment's, talks about your interest, or pick-up lines, would some guys like it if I tried insulting you instead? Anybody else wanna just go off on a guy if he ignores you.


    You learn to get used to it. The world's a cold place. Maybe I'm cynical, but this business about being ignored is like water on an alligator's back for me. You move on. The question you need to ask yourself is why do you want to be acknowledged and get attention from someone who doesn't or won't give you the attention you want?

    As my daddy would say, "find someone who is good to you, and good for you."


    QuasarMarauder7 saidDo you guys think I am being overly dramatic about this?


    Yeah.
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    May 26, 2013 7:47 PM GMT
    Don't worry, you will get used to it. Older you will get, lesser you will care about such things. You will do the same though, rejecting in dozens. So just stop harping on rejection and move on.
  • toybrian

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    May 26, 2013 7:55 PM GMT
    Quasar, I agree 100% with you and cannot believe the answers the guys are giving on here to you. If your parents raised you right then they taught you to acknowledge someone who compliments you with at least a "Thank You". That is the least you owe them.to show that you saw the note. Some of the other comments were uncalled for.
  • BIG_N_TALL

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    May 26, 2013 8:04 PM GMT
    toybrian saidIf your parents raised you right then they taught you to acknowledge someone who compliments you with at least a "Thank You".


    I actually do this, regardless of who does the complimenting. I do, on the other hand, know that not everyone on here will show me the same courtesy, genuine or not.