i will not have sex with you cause you use condom

  • ignaceqbc

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    May 26, 2013 10:39 PM GMT
    hi guys....iam really really don`t understand.
    i know some one...we have sexe once, after that.we talked talked talked..at the end he said..sorry i don`t want have sexe with you again cause i never do bare back.FUCK..he asked me not to wear condom...!!!! what the FUCK
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    May 26, 2013 10:42 PM GMT
    Good for him. Probably dodged a bullet.
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    May 26, 2013 10:51 PM GMT
    Wait.

    What?

    Back the Miata up?

    You had sex;
    like with a MAN?
  • Just_Tim

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    May 26, 2013 10:54 PM GMT
    So which one of you is demanding strictly bare back sex? You or him? It's hard to follow because the thread title says one thing but your OP seems to say another.
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    May 26, 2013 10:56 PM GMT
    Just_Tim saidSo which one of you is demanding strictly bare back sex? You or him? It's hard to follow because the thread title says one thing but your OP seems to say another.


    My thoughts exactly.
  • ignaceqbc

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    May 26, 2013 11:06 PM GMT
    Just_Tim saidSo which one of you is demanding strictly bare back sex? You or him? It's hard to follow because the thread title says one thing but your OP seems to say another.


    he wants to have sex with me without condom
  • Just_Tim

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    May 26, 2013 11:19 PM GMT
    ignaceqbc said
    Just_Tim saidSo which one of you is demanding strictly bare back sex? You or him? It's hard to follow because the thread title says one thing but your OP seems to say another.


    he wants to have sex with me without condom


    Ok, then good for you for saying no!
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    May 26, 2013 11:20 PM GMT
    ignaceqbc said
    Just_Tim saidSo which one of you is demanding strictly bare back sex? You or him? It's hard to follow because the thread title says one thing but your OP seems to say another.


    he wants to have sex with me without condom


    In that case, I'll change my reply:

    Good for you. Probably dodged a bullet.
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    Jun 06, 2013 7:32 AM GMT
    I have come across a few guys like that and I run in the other direction. Guys who "only bareback" freak me out. First, I'm scared for me. Then, I'm scared for them.
    What did condems ever do to them to make them hate it so much?
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    Jun 06, 2013 1:27 PM GMT
    Enigmatic_me saidI have come across a few guys like that and I run in the other direction. Guys who "only bareback" freak me out. First, I'm scared for me. Then, I'm scared for them.
    What did condems ever do to them to make them hate it so much?

    There's a subset of gay men, self loathing, who demand bareback for whatever twisted reason they come up with. Best to get out and run. Even if they are tested and "clean" chances are they really are not.
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    Apr 26, 2014 3:29 AM GMT
    Babe, you really don't understand the joy of fucking

    A man squirts his love into his lady, and she feels the hot liquid in her virgina. Condoms really prevent you from feeling the love, if you're really into a man. You're really cheating yourself. (Just a man's opinion, with lots of experience) Caio.

    Tommy
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    Apr 26, 2014 5:34 AM GMT
    I completely understand the preference of some men to want bareback, because condoms reduce the sensitivity of one's dick during sex.

    That said?

    Some things are more important than an extra bit of added sensation.

    Like personal health and safety.

    Demanding someone sacrifice these things just to hop in bed with them? It's ridiculous.

    Run. Run fast. Run hard. Just... run.
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    Apr 26, 2014 5:53 AM GMT
    An intelligent woman.

    Tommy
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    Apr 26, 2014 4:15 PM GMT
    alphamaleguy saidBabe, you really don't understand the joy of fucking

    A man squirts his love into his lady, and she feels the hot liquid in her virgina. Condoms really prevent you from feeling the love, if you're really into a man. You're really cheating yourself. (Just a man's opinion, with lots of experience) Caio.

    Tommy


    If you're into unwanted pregnancies, then by all means go ahead.
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    Apr 26, 2014 4:27 PM GMT
    I've ran into a few guys who wanted bareback also.. thank guy I believe in wrapping my tool..they both turned out to be + and didn't tell me before hand
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    May 04, 2014 5:23 AM GMT
    He has a choice and so do you.
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    Aug 05, 2015 8:04 PM GMT
    Good for you, just think if he tells it to other man he has sex with, then it's highly probable he can have STDs.
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    Sep 10, 2015 9:40 PM GMT
    I do not condome this...

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    Sep 12, 2015 3:47 PM GMT
    Where is this Forum going? One guy quotes the next guy then the other quotes that guy. I'm losing the plot. The bottom line if you are tight, use a condom, if blood mixes with semen, 'Hello! - problem'. If you are loose, well then just lubricate. Condomize, if you are uncertain.
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    Sep 16, 2015 12:45 AM GMT
    The receptive partner (male btm or female4 hete. Os men) gets little more than psychological sensation from condomless sex and I would contend that if your sex life is such that you need to be taking cum inside you to feel satisfaction,, try sleeping with guys who know how to fuck well.

    I have asked guys who insist on being seeded what they actually feel from this load squirt
    And not had an any answer except for the usual retort of "you don't know the joys of sex......... Not much of a justification and women who want seaman inside them want babies, the others don't want cum in them. Bug chaser would be appropriate description
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    Sep 17, 2015 11:58 AM GMT
    A nice way to really turn a guy off...I don't wanna have sex with you - without a condom, cause your breath stinks, cause you have premature ejaculation, cause your dick is too small, cause you can't get it up during foreplay, your ass is too tight, your dick is ugly, you have too many zits. I mean then the guys not into you. You either connect during sex, or do not connect. We don't have to carry an AIDS testing certificate around, but if a guy says, 'I have been tested and am HIV-'. Then why contest.
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    Sep 17, 2015 1:03 PM GMT
    Domino_dancer said We don't have to carry an AIDS testing certificate around, but if a guy says, 'I have been tested and am HIV-'. Then why contest.


    Because people lie. That's why you should be leery.
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    Sep 17, 2015 1:23 PM GMT
    IsigVinter said
    Domino_dancer said We don't have to carry an AIDS testing certificate around, but if a guy says, 'I have been tested and am HIV-'. Then why contest.

    Because people lie. That's why you should be leery.

    Yes, and because men don't always know, even with testing. The several-month delay between contracting HIV and the common tests for HIV being able to detect it means the test is always reporting what he or you were several months earlier, not today. But a poz man can still be contagious and capable of infecting others.
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    Sep 17, 2015 4:29 PM GMT
    Art_Deco said
    IsigVinter said
    Domino_dancer said We don't have to carry an AIDS testing certificate around, but if a guy says, 'I have been tested and am HIV-'. Then why contest.

    Because people lie. That's why you should be leery.

    Yes, and because men don't always know, even with testing. The several-month delay between contracting HIV and the common tests for HIV being able to detect it means the test is always reporting what he or you were several months earlier, not today. But a poz man can still be contagious and capable of infecting others.



    Of course a POZ person can transmit HIV. That's HIV 101. I prefer transmissible to contagious. STDs are sexually transmissible . Colds are contagious.

    A fully suppressed HIV UVL person can not transmit HIV. Likewise a NEG person can not transmit HIV because he doesn't have it. And someone on PrEP as prescribed CAN'T get it. Of course a UVL who quits meds will become infectious again. And a PrEP user is protected only as long as they are doing their regimen. And a NEG person is NEG only as long as he has some sort of valid safer sex.

    Condoms only work if you use them.

    If you are NEG and don't know your partner's status USE a comdom. If you don't know and don't have a condom don't fuck! Be oral (no sore/cuts). Be creative. Have fun but be smart. Not paranoid.