When I see any comment/message like this.FIRST OFF: Dump him, whatever.
Why?: Because this sounds like quite an unhappy relationship- especially if you've had these thoughts and have felt the need, or even the urge, to take them onto a public internet forum.
You're insecure with the relationship, for whatever reason, and t has provoked you to make this thread....
And base the reasons why he's in the relationship with you to be BRACES of all things.
.... Maybe he likes your personality (literally)? Intelligence? Maybe you actually are his type and he isn't looking for "better"? If you're on realjock I assume you have a decent physique, maybe he enjoys that.
....Or maybe he really isn't even close to as hot as you're imagining him.SECONDLY: Enough is enough.
Close your wounds, close em. This is ridiculous. You got messaged by a "really hot guy" and go on a few dates with him.
THESE EMOTIONS ARE TOO PREMATURE. STOP!!!!!!!
This is some of the best advice you're going to get. DO NOT let yourself go head over heels for a guy after a few cutsey little dates and whispers of love and soft kisses.THIRDLY: You should ridiculously shallow.
"A really hot guy".... THOSE ARE YOUR WORDS EXACTLY.
So because he is a really hot guy, seemingly that being the only trait of his that makes him worthy of being dated by you.
It also sounds like the only trait of his you've focused on because of these insecurities.
Tl;dr: Just leave the relationship. Leave it now. This is just toxic.