Is cuddling the new gay sex?

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    May 31, 2013 4:22 PM GMT
    I read some articles, after reading a 'cuddle,' post on here, that said that more and more guys want cuddle buddies, even straight ones.

    Is cuddling important for you and what do you like about it?
    Have you cuddled with a straight guy, no homo pro bono?
  • HottJoe

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    May 31, 2013 4:26 PM GMT
    No, and neither is hand holding, or swinging together on the swing set. Sex is more intimate than that.
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    May 31, 2013 4:47 PM GMT
    Hahaha if this were true then I think Id technically have a very odd relationship with my mum....and dog icon_eek.gif
  • AMoonHawk

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    May 31, 2013 4:50 PM GMT
    too much X
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    May 31, 2013 5:12 PM GMT
    I mean as a more prominent part of a relationship, not necessarily as a replacement for sex. It seems cuddling is desired by both gay and straight guys, for guy on guy cuddling.
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    May 31, 2013 5:14 PM GMT
    kendo saidI mean as a more prominent part of a relationship, not necessarily as a replacement for sex. It seems cuddling is desired by both gay and straight guys, for guy on guy cuddling.


    My straight male friends seem to want to cuddle, while gay guys just want to fuck. Bizarre.
  • HottJoe

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    May 31, 2013 5:24 PM GMT
    Scruffypup said
    kendo saidI mean as a more prominent part of a relationship, not necessarily as a replacement for sex. It seems cuddling is desired by both gay and straight guys, for guy on guy cuddling.


    My straight male friends seem to want to cuddle, while gay guys just want to fuck. Bizarre.


    If they're gay, then they're just getting turned on by the cuddling. Once you're hard, the pants just gotta come off, lol, icon_razz.gif..... I doubt very many straight men would be able to cuddle with a woman they were attracted to without being turned on.
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    Jun 01, 2013 11:39 AM GMT
    Wow I'm so CUDFUZZLED hahaha
  • MikeW

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    Jun 01, 2013 2:28 PM GMT
    What I miss most about not having a partner is the cuddling, not the sex.
  • owen19832006

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    Jun 01, 2013 2:29 PM GMT
    im not big into cuddling at all
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    Jun 01, 2013 2:34 PM GMT
    [quote]If they're gay, then they're just getting turned on by the cuddling. Once you're hard, the pants just gotta come off, lol, icon_razz.gif..... I doubt very many straight men would be able to cuddle with a woman they were attracted to without being turned on.[/quote]

    So true! Nothing worse than cuddling and having your balls crushed because your pants have become too tight.icon_lol.gif
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    Jun 01, 2013 2:38 PM GMT
    I loooove cuddling!! Feeling your partner's hands around you and placing your head on his chest feeling the heat all over his body!!!for me it is the second most important thing to a guy!!!! It is such a huuuge turn on!icon_smile.gificon_redface.gif
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    Jun 01, 2013 2:52 PM GMT
    LOVE cuddling!
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    Jun 01, 2013 3:09 PM GMT
    Cuddling is definitely the coolest thing, though I hate the term "cuddling." It makes it sound like some Lisa Frank teddy bear shit. I personally like the feeling of holding the person I'm with or being held much more than sex. For me, it's all about being that close to someone. Call me gay if you want. Oh wait, I am gay.
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    Jun 01, 2013 3:14 PM GMT
    I love cuddling. There's something so warm and protective about being held. Or the feeling of caring for someone as you cuddle them. It doesn't have to be sexual. You can cuddle with anyone - and it's such an intimate great thing.

    Ahhhh...I loves hugs...

    But, no, hugs don't count as sex. If that were the case, I'd have lost my virginity at a disturbingly young age....with my mother or something.
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    Jun 08, 2013 7:29 AM GMT
    texas24 saidCuddling is definitely the coolest thing, though I hate the term "cuddling." It makes it sound like some Lisa Frank teddy bear shit. I personally like the feeling of holding the person I'm with or being held much more than sex. For me, it's all about being that close to someone. Call me gay if you want. Oh wait, I am gay.


    ditto, I love being held icon_wink.gif
  • wherewillwebe

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    Jun 08, 2013 7:36 AM GMT
    cuddling makes me feel all warm inside and loved. I had one this morning icon_biggrin.gif
  • MikeW

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    Jun 08, 2013 7:38 AM GMT
    gymjock92 said
    texas24 saidCuddling is definitely the coolest thing, though I hate the term "cuddling." It makes it sound like some Lisa Frank teddy bear shit. I personally like the feeling of holding the person I'm with or being held much more than sex. For me, it's all about being that close to someone. Call me gay if you want. Oh wait, I am gay.


    ditto, I love being held icon_wink.gif

    I don't know that I could quantify it and say that I enjoy being held "more" than sex. I sure like sex an awful lot. But bottom line, they're not the same thing. I can get my rocks off easily enough but when I go to bed each night and curl up with that extra pillow, it just isn't anywhere near the same thing as having another warm human being nesting up with you as you fall asleep. So, what I do say is I "miss" cuddling more than sex.
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    Jun 08, 2013 7:43 AM GMT
    j'adore le cuddle icon_twisted.gificon_twisted.gificon_twisted.gif
  • TheBizMan

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    Jun 08, 2013 8:12 AM GMT
    Yes I've cuddle with straight guys before.

    Lights off, in bed, watching a movie.

    It was surprisingly non-sexual.
  • Joeyphx444

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    Jun 08, 2013 8:39 AM GMT
    I don't know any straight guys who want a MALE cuddle buddy lol

    I do think cuddlin is special and requires a lot of control for most men so doing that with a gay man and not having anything more than that happen is special b/c it shows their control and respect for you
  • rdberg1957

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    Jun 08, 2013 8:44 AM GMT
    I'm not getting much of either. Just sayin' . . .
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    Jun 08, 2013 9:00 AM GMT
    texas24 saidCuddling is definitely the coolest thing, though I hate the term "cuddling." It makes it sound like some Lisa Frank teddy bear shit. I personally like the feeling of holding the person I'm with or being held much more than sex. For me, it's all about being that close to someone. Call me gay if you want. Oh wait, I am gay.


    I actually laughed out loud at the end. But yeah, pretty much this.
  • hebrewman

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    Jun 08, 2013 9:01 AM GMT
    sometimes i just want to be held.
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    Jun 08, 2013 9:03 AM GMT
    Agamemnon saidj'adore le cuddle icon_twisted.gificon_twisted.gificon_twisted.gif


    Moi aussi!!!