Can't cum in the first time have anal sex!

  • MrGeo65179

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    Jun 01, 2013 9:45 AM GMT
    I'm 25 and I was a virgin until last night when I had sex the first time with a man I met online. We began with a lot of kissing, making out, and touching. He was older than me and it seems he had more experience in sex.

    I really enjoys the kissing, making out and was hard all that time. I also sucked his dick and balls, licking his nipple and neck, etc. like in porn I used to watch.

    I had no experience in being bottom, and didn't prepare for it yet, so I asked him if I could play top. And from that moment, everything felt down. Since I put my dick into him, I felt blank and lost control quickly. I couldn't tell if he enjoyed it or not, but for myself, I couldn't keep my dick hard anymore. It became softer, softer and finally, the worst thing happened: I couldn't jerk off myself even though I tried so badly. And he lost the erection too because of me. You can tell the result was so horrible, both of us didn't cum.

    It was my first time, he was nice and gentle, so I felt totally embarrassed, empty, guilty and confused. I said sorry to him like like hundred time (I know, now I think that was too weird). I knew he didn't enjoy it, so the feeling is killing me. He told me because I watched too many porn and relied to it when I masturbate.

    It's true that I watch many gay porn, masturbated with it all the time, and I can easily get hard, cum with porn in 2, or 5 mins.

    So right now, I'm afraid that I've never be able to cum during anal sex anymore. I don't know if it is permanent or temporary and how to fix it. So really need professional and experienced advices here. Did what my sex partner say is true?
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    Jun 01, 2013 12:17 PM GMT
    First post and you claim to be a 25 year old virgin and can't stay hard? Sounds like the universe does not want you to have sex, ever. Listen to the universe.
  • rnch

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    Jun 01, 2013 1:02 PM GMT
    In spite of the sexual propaganda shown us in porno movies, not every top and/or bttm jizzes EVERY time sex is had.


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    Jun 01, 2013 1:51 PM GMT
    rnch saidIn spite of the sexual propaganda shown us in porno movies, not every top and/or bttm jizzes EVERY time sex is had.


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    Huh? I'm not sure why I would bang the living bejesus out of LingLang if I was not going to pump out some massive messy loads.