Reasons why you ended the relationship or stopped dating him

  • metta

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    Jun 01, 2013 4:03 PM GMT
    In a few words (one sentence), tell us the reasons why you ended the relationship or stopped dating someone





  • Import

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    Jun 01, 2013 7:56 PM GMT
    because he sews icon_confused.gif


    whatta fem!
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    Jun 02, 2013 11:04 PM GMT
    Ultimately we weren't compatible and did not bring out the best in each other.
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    Jun 02, 2013 11:07 PM GMT
    * He's not supportive of my dreams and goals
    * I get more annoyed at him for the things he say and do
    * We argue constantly over the little stupid things
    * He brings out my bad side which I thought a boyfriend supposed to do the opposite
    * He refuses to do *certain sexual activities
    * Over time as I get to know him, I just realize we're not compatible and would be better off as friends.
    * he has fuck buddies and cheated on me.


  • Montague

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    Jun 02, 2013 11:10 PM GMT
    He didn't like Game Of Thrones.
  • masculumpedes

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    Jun 02, 2013 11:13 PM GMT
    He and his fiancée got married.... icon_wink.gif
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    Jun 02, 2013 11:14 PM GMT
    Import saidbecause he sews icon_confused.gif


    whatta fem!


    You said You LOVED the quilt and dust ruffle I made You....

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    Jun 02, 2013 11:18 PM GMT
    Import saidbecause he sews icon_confused.gif


    whatta fem!



    HottJoe wants a word with you. In private. icon_eek.gif
  • He_Man

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    Jun 02, 2013 11:25 PM GMT
    He is a narcissistic sociopath who took me for thousands of dollars, left me homeless, jobless and nearly destroyed my life.

    Yeah, I know how to pick them... icon_cry.gif
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    Jun 02, 2013 11:41 PM GMT
    I came.
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    Jun 02, 2013 11:54 PM GMT
    He_Man saidHe is a narcissistic sociopath who took me for thousands of dollars, left me homeless, jobless and nearly destroyed my life.


    So the sex was bad huh? icon_wink.gif
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    Jun 02, 2013 11:59 PM GMT
    He was needy.
  • Pyre85

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    Jun 03, 2013 12:13 AM GMT
    It was like dating a douchey vulcan.
    Mostly emotionless and dull, plus he never put me first.
    exe, he was supposed to pick me up at 10, he showed up at 3 am.
  • Whipmagic

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    Jun 03, 2013 12:18 AM GMT
    He couldn't kick his drinking habit (a fifth of vodka a day in the end) and started to become abusive.
  • Webster666

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    Jun 03, 2013 12:20 AM GMT
    He was perfectly happy to let me pay for everything.
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    Jun 03, 2013 12:22 AM GMT
    Most of my relationships have been pretty positive and have remained good friends. I've only had one horrible experience. The most traumatic one was also the one where we were the happiest together, but he ended up on America's Most Wanted. They captured him at his dad's place. Big showdown with guns drawn and him with a shotgun to his throat threatening to kill himself. Meanwhile I'm at home wondering why he's so late coming home. We were madly in love with each other and living together. Never got to see him again after that day. I was left with all of his belongings and the things for the house we had bought together. I remember not wanting to wash the sheets because they smelled like him and I knew I would never get to experience that again. It literally took me years to get over it.
  • masculumpedes

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    Jun 03, 2013 12:24 AM GMT
    Scruffypup saidMost of my relationships have been pretty positive and have remained good friends. I've only had one horrible experience. The most traumatic one was also the one where we were the happiest together, but he ended up on America's Most Wanted. They captured him at his dad's place. Big showdown with guns drawn and him with a shotgun to his throat threatening to kill himself. Meanwhile I'm at home wondering why he's so late coming home. We were madly in love with each other. Never got to see him again after that day. It literally took me years to get over it.


    So sorry this happened to you....icon_cry.gif
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    Jun 03, 2013 12:31 AM GMT
    he didnt love me or should i say couldnt?
  • madsexy

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    Jun 03, 2013 12:44 AM GMT
    Got one of these:
    metta8 said- he is still having sex with the ex-boyfriend...and bb on top of that

    - constantly putting himself down

    - drunk all of the time


    Got MANY of these:
    wyrln saidI came.


    Mostly, though:

    HE came (and then went).
  • Timbales

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    Jun 03, 2013 12:46 AM GMT
    he ran out of money
  • madsexy

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    Jun 03, 2013 12:51 AM GMT
    Whipmagic saidHe couldn't kick his drinking habit (a fifth of vodka a day in the end) and started to become abusive.


    Been there - not fun. After the fact, talking to some of my friends who were supportive of my choice, I said: "You know, the day I realized he was an alcoholic and turning me into one after just thinking 'We're just having a different kind of fun all time time than would be my first choice' was the day I knew I had to make a choice." They asked me why it had taken me so long to get to that awareness. And I said, "Well, that came back in January - a new year's resolution - but I decided to try for nine months to get him to see he needed help and want to change!" Obviously, now my tolerance is way shorter, probably too short for what the average good guy with minor issues deserves. Hope I get back to a more middle-of-the-road place.
  • madsexy

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    Jun 03, 2013 12:52 AM GMT
    Timbales saidhe ran out of money


    I love Cher's (obscure) song "When The Money's Gone".
  • masculumpedes

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    Jun 03, 2013 12:58 AM GMT
    Timbales saidhe ran out of money


    LOL..... icon_eek.gif
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    Jun 03, 2013 12:58 AM GMT
    Honest answer. I was career focused and realized I could not devote the timed needed to develop the relationship.
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    Jun 03, 2013 1:05 AM GMT
    The sex was awful icon_sad.gif . We got along great otherwise.