I have a crush.. on a guy? Wut? Help!

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    Jun 02, 2013 6:07 PM GMT
    I always knew I had an attraction to both sexes since puberty. No ones knows still but that's besides the point. I always had more of an emotional and sexual attachment to females and just sexual attraction to guys. I knew there was a possibility of being emotionally attached to a male but I never really sought it out. Especially since I wanted to marry some 5'5" mexican/asain woman and have three or four kids.(really still wanting this). But then BAM! I see this guy at this place. I can't stop staring, I'm some what of a creep, then later on he sparks a conversation, thank god. We talk, later trade numbers, and hang out for a while. I left with out saying good bye but i thought it'd be fine since he gave me his number. I'm still shocked cause here's this guy who looks like a shorter version of Hercules and then there's me a guy with a tire around he's waist who's been a couch potato for a few years(I'm trying to get back in shape guys I really am). I know it's only been less then 24 hours since we meet but a text back would've been nice. Right? I don't know what to do. I need some advice or something? I should just wait till he text me right? I don't want to seem like a crazy person.

    Help!
  • Fable

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    Jun 02, 2013 6:38 PM GMT
    Lol oh lol
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    Jun 02, 2013 9:22 PM GMT
    Play it cool. It works the same for guys and girls, so you know what to do.
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    Jun 02, 2013 9:31 PM GMT
    wyrln saidPlay it cool. It works the same for guys and girls, so you know what to do.


    I guess so. He deleted his account - which is fine with me after all that baloney.
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    Jun 03, 2013 11:17 AM GMT
    lol lol lol that was funny
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    Jun 03, 2013 11:47 AM GMT
    awwww lol
    thank goodness I've no heart or that it's frozen from indifference lol.
    cute story bro
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    Jun 03, 2013 11:59 AM GMT
    fable saidLol oh lol


    icon_redface.gif I'm sorry dude but I couldn't help laugh

  • Jun 03, 2013 4:13 PM GMT
    JohnSpotter said
    wyrln saidPlay it cool. It works the same for guys and girls, so you know what to do.


    I guess so. He deleted his account - which is fine with me after all that baloney.


    Deleted to make a new one. ( I posted this )
    What's so baloney about it big guy?
    I really needed advice.
    Can't a brotha ask for some help.
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    Jun 03, 2013 4:29 PM GMT
    I needed a good laugh to get through the morning. Thanks! icon_lol.gif
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    Jun 03, 2013 4:33 PM GMT
    Troll post is as troll post does.

    Sorry OP, but we are largely a cynical crowd here icon_razz.gif

  • Jun 03, 2013 4:40 PM GMT
    AlphaTrigger saidTroll post is as troll post does.

    Sorry OP, but we are largely a cynical crowd here icon_razz.gif


    Not a troll post though. Haha.
    Doesn't anyone here have a heart?
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    Jun 03, 2013 4:47 PM GMT
    I do if you want to talk icon_smile.gif
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    Jun 03, 2013 8:46 PM GMT
    CarpeCervisiam said
    AlphaTrigger saidTroll post is as troll post does.

    Sorry OP, but we are largely a cynical crowd here icon_razz.gif


    Not a troll post though. Haha.
    Doesn't anyone here have a heart?


    Apologies but your presentation was fishy,
    implying you're not that great looking (maybe you're modest) but, although a Hercules look-a-like gave you his phone number, you don't want to call it because that might look crazy.
    Then you delete your account.
    Why would you wonder why someone would question authenticity?

    It's also frustrating for us guys who have our tongues hanging out for a half way decent guy to talk to while others post they were picked up by a hunk while doing nothing - but that's my issue, not yours.

    That said, run don't walk to call the guy.
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    Jun 03, 2013 9:36 PM GMT
    I'm also curious. Just curious. You're 19 and have been a couch potato for a few years. But you want to get back in shape.
    Were you a 15 year old Chippendale? icon_wink.gif
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    Jun 03, 2013 9:43 PM GMT
    You know there are hot guys that like guys that are not physically perfect. Maybe he liked your personality. This does happen you know.

    Give it a few days and if you don't hear from him, text him again. Then if you don't hear from him after that, delete his number icon_smile.gif
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    Jun 03, 2013 10:06 PM GMT
    What you should do is find out where he lives and sit in some bushes on the other side of the road. When his bedroom light goes off, text him (immediately) "Night night x". When he open his curtains in the morning, text him (immediately) "Good morning x". Continue until you are married. Hope this helps!
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    Jun 03, 2013 10:06 PM GMT
    I'm reminded of a few guys at the gym who came on really strong, flirting with me, touching me, and after didn't even want to say hello. I believe some people want to see if they've still got it and, once they know they can still win someone over, end the experiment and move on.
    That's what this sounds like to me.
    That's why I say call him and get it over with. Ask him casually if he wants to meet again. He has nerve to keep you waiting. Only good can come from a call. You'll either see him again or be freed to move on.

  • Jun 03, 2013 10:12 PM GMT
    JohnSpotter saidI'm also curious. Just curious. You're 19 and have been a couch potato for a few years. But you want to get back in shape.
    Were you a 15 year old Chippendale? icon_wink.gif


    John john,

    Everyone has different taste, somebody who I think is 11/10 maybe be a 7/10 for you, know what I mean?

    and no not a Chippendale at 15, but I played sports all my life until a few years ago so I was what one would considered athletic and had an athletic build.

  • Jun 03, 2013 10:12 PM GMT
    Ohno saidWhat you should do is find out where he lives and sit in some bushes on the other side of the road. When his bedroom light goes off, text him (immediately) "Night night x". When he open his curtains in the morning, text him (immediately) "Good morning x". Continue until you are married. Hope this helps!


    Best Advice.
    10/10
    You should be some famous life coach.
    Hahaha.

  • Jun 03, 2013 10:13 PM GMT
    tuckers_kahuna saidYou know there are hot guys that like guys that are not physically perfect. Maybe he liked your personality. This does happen you know.

    Give it a few days and if you don't hear from him, text him again. Then if you don't hear from him after that, delete his number icon_smile.gif



    Hopefully I wont have to delete his number.