What is more intimidating as a single, fat, gay male: going to a Baptist church or a gay bar/club?

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    Jun 03, 2013 2:56 AM GMT
    Just went to my first gay bar and it was way more intimidating than any church I've been to.
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    Jun 03, 2013 2:57 AM GMT
    I'd rather go into a thousand gay bars than a church.
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    Jun 03, 2013 2:57 AM GMT
    MisfitToy saidI'd rather go into a thousand gay bars than a church.


    You don't have to twist my arm.
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    Jun 03, 2013 3:28 AM GMT
    As a single, fat, gay male, it's probably more comfortable going to a church. (Because I have. Nobody cares and they ignore you)

    Granted I think the gay bar is better, but it is probably more intimidating. Depends on the circumstances of the person I guess.
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    Jun 03, 2013 2:05 PM GMT
    I actually got laid MORE when I was 70 lbs overweight...probably because I went out more. Now I've developed more daytime hobbies, and usually relaxing at night instead of going out.
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    Jun 03, 2013 2:08 PM GMT
    WaytoDawn saidAs a single, fat, gay male, it's probably more comfortable going to a church. (Because I have. Nobody cares and they ignore you)

    Granted I think the gay bar is better, but it is probably more intimidating. Depends on the circumstances of the person I guess.


    That happens at gay bars too, if you are at all shy.

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    Jun 03, 2013 2:10 PM GMT
    bigDrunner saidJust went to my first gay bar and it was way more intimidating than any church I've been to.


    Are u insinuating that you're fat?
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    Jun 03, 2013 2:15 PM GMT
    if you don't stop calling yourself fat i'm going to assume that you're faking modesty and fishing for compliments
  • Suetonius

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    Jun 03, 2013 4:53 PM GMT
    After the 100th time, it won't feel so intimidating. Like hottjoe said, try a little refreshment while you are there. (Emphasis on the little part.)
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    Jun 03, 2013 5:00 PM GMT
    The club/bar may be more intimidating at first but they sell alcohol and beer.
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    Jun 03, 2013 5:01 PM GMT
    and 5'10" and 175lbs with a 32 inch waist is not anywhere near "fat" dude.

    just saying.
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    Jun 03, 2013 5:14 PM GMT
    HottJoe said
    MisfitToy saidI'd rather go into a thousand gay bars than a church.


    You don't have to twist my arm.


    Lol I just seriously hate churches. They creep me out and the last time I was there for religious purposes I was outed to over 80 people.
  • TroyAthlete

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    Jun 03, 2013 5:54 PM GMT
    Definitely the bar. There's gay men all over church -- they practically run the music departments.

    Conversely, fat gays get run out of the "gay scene", poor fellas.
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    Jun 03, 2013 7:49 PM GMT
    Please do not call yourself fat. You are far, far, far from fat.
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    Jun 04, 2013 12:00 AM GMT
    HottJoe said
    WaytoDawn saidAs a single, fat, gay male, it's probably more comfortable going to a church. (Because I have. Nobody cares and they ignore you)

    Granted I think the gay bar is better, but it is probably more intimidating. Depends on the circumstances of the person I guess.


    That happens at gay bars too, if you are at all shy.

    #liquidcouragehelps


    Kinda thought so. icon_neutral.gif
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    Jun 04, 2013 12:01 AM GMT
    Aristoshark said
    MisfitToy said
    HottJoe said
    MisfitToy saidI'd rather go into a thousand gay bars than a church.


    You don't have to twist my arm.


    Lol I just seriously hate churches. They creep me out and the last time I was there for religious purposes I was outed to over 80 people.

    "Outed"?
    LOL You were outed 5 minutes after you crawled out yo' mama's vajayjay and tried on her shoes.


    I was outed as an Atheist.
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    Jun 04, 2013 12:01 AM GMT
    HottJoe said
    MisfitToy saidI'd rather go into a thousand gay bars than a church.


    You don't have to twist my arm.
    Can I grope it instead?
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    Jun 04, 2013 12:02 AM GMT
    I'd rather go to church cuz there only God's judging you (or has the right to). At a gay bar/club, everyone judges u icon_wink.gif
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    Jun 04, 2013 12:23 AM GMT
    hellass saidI'd rather go to church cuz there only God's judging you (or has the right to). At a gay bar/club, everyone judges u icon_wink.gif


    Good one!
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    Jun 04, 2013 12:29 AM GMT
    So who's fat? I love fat boys.
    I would go with this guy in a second.

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    Jun 04, 2013 12:56 AM GMT
    I once tipped the scales at 250, now I'm 170 and both house judgement, erratic behavior and sin. I choose the one w/ the alcohol it just makes it easier to tolerateicon_eek.gif
  • MikeW

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    Jun 04, 2013 1:27 AM GMT
    1: u r not fat.

    2: yeah, gay bars can be intimidating. i don't like them much either.

    3: as for church, gave up on that. u might like to know that the one i was to be baptized in burned to the ground the day i was to be baptized. true story.