When do you know if someone "straight" is into you?

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    Jun 03, 2013 5:45 PM GMT
    Alright I'm from a pretty conservative town.
    So I was wondering, how do you know when a "straight" guy might be into you?

    Eye contact?
    Friendly?

    What are some signs that you would take as him beig gay that you should jump on it. Lol

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    Jun 03, 2013 6:07 PM GMT
    He sticks his cock in a glory hole and you suck it.
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    Jun 03, 2013 6:09 PM GMT
    Eye contact. Friendly. Hard on. Touchy feely. Grabs your cock. Lays a big sloppy kiss on your lips.

    And many many more.
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    Jun 03, 2013 6:20 PM GMT
    Honestly, you'll never know with straight guys. Some straight guys are very affectionate with gay guys and will give you eye contact, act friendly, flirt, kiss, hug, grab another guys crotch, etc. but have no intention of ever being romantically/sexually involved with a guy.
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    Jun 03, 2013 6:31 PM GMT
    I don't think straight guys would grab crotches in public haha

    So how do you try to pick up a guy on the street would be a better question
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    Jun 03, 2013 6:36 PM GMT
    Dirron11 saidI don't think straight guys would grab crotches in public haha

    So how do you try to pick up a guy on the street would be a better question


    taser him
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    Jun 03, 2013 6:46 PM GMT
    Don't go looking for something that isn't there. Wishful thinking can create some awkward (or dangerous) situations.
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    Jun 03, 2013 6:47 PM GMT
    Dirron11 saidI don't think straight guys would grab crotches in public haha

    So how do you try to pick up a guy on the street would be a better question
    My straight friend at work grabs gay guys' crotches.
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    Jun 03, 2013 6:54 PM GMT
    I think you should trust your first instinct. If you end up really thinking the dude is interested in him, I'd just ask him... I've done it before and been wrong, and it was kind of embarrassing - never talked again... but what if he WAS gay? Would have been a good story
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    Jun 03, 2013 6:59 PM GMT
    HottJoe said
    Dirron11 saidI don't think straight guys would grab crotches in public haha

    So how do you try to pick up a guy on the street would be a better question


    taser him


    That's the answer, could be hot too ;)
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    Jun 03, 2013 7:07 PM GMT
    yourname2000 saidSome of my toughest moments have been with straight guys who are so in tune with their own (hetero-)sexuality that they have no problem being flirty and sexual with a guy. At once they fulfill your sense of equality and yet tease you with affection that you know will never "climax". As I've matured, I see the art is in appreciating the former without feeling too enthralled (and ultimately disappointed) with the latter. icon_smile.gif
    Those type of guys are definitely the most difficult. My two best friends are that way. One of them kisses and hugs me, smacks my butt, holds my hand and pulls me in close for a body squeeze, tells me he loves me, does the intent eye stare or eye avoidance tactics, etc.

    But he's obsessed with women. icon_cry.gif Pretty sure he suspects I have feelings for him, so he reduced the level of affection he gives. So freaking difficult to deal with.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Jun 03, 2013 7:24 PM GMT
    yourname2000 saidIt's easy. If they're straight, they're not into you.

    yup .... this ... save yourself the grief icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Jun 03, 2013 7:37 PM GMT
    leo23 said
    Fiyero27 said
    yourname2000 saidSome of my toughest moments have been with straight guys who are so in tune with their own (hetero-)sexuality that they have no problem being flirty and sexual with a guy. At once they fulfill your sense of equality and yet tease you with affection that you know will never "climax". As I've matured, I see the art is in appreciating the former without feeling too enthralled (and ultimately disappointed) with the latter. icon_smile.gif
    Those type of guys are definitely the most difficult. My two best friends are that way. One of them kisses and hugs me, smacks my butt, holds my hand and pulls me in close for a body squeeze, tells me he loves me, does the intent eye stare or eye avoidance tactics, etc.

    But he's obsessed with women. icon_cry.gif Pretty sure he suspects I have feelings for him, so he reduced the level of affection he gives. So freaking difficult to deal with.


    Wow!! And what you did in return? Did you show him that you are better than women? No!! Play smart buddy!
    Not understanding your question. If he hugs me, I hug him back. If he says he loves me, I say I love him too. What do you think I do?
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    Jun 03, 2013 7:49 PM GMT
    When they first meet you and they have a big smile on their face like roommate meeting.... and then they say something like I met so many people but I'm glad you a good looking. I missed the chance though.
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    Jun 03, 2013 8:05 PM GMT
    Fiyero27 said
    leo23 said
    Fiyero27 said
    yourname2000 saidSome of my toughest moments have been with straight guys who are so in tune with their own (hetero-)sexuality that they have no problem being flirty and sexual with a guy. At once they fulfill your sense of equality and yet tease you with affection that you know will never "climax". As I've matured, I see the art is in appreciating the former without feeling too enthralled (and ultimately disappointed) with the latter. icon_smile.gif
    Those type of guys are definitely the most difficult. My two best friends are that way. One of them kisses and hugs me, smacks my butt, holds my hand and pulls me in close for a body squeeze, tells me he loves me, does the intent eye stare or eye avoidance tactics, etc.

    But he's obsessed with women. icon_cry.gif Pretty sure he suspects I have feelings for him, so he reduced the level of affection he gives. So freaking difficult to deal with.


    Wow!! And what you did in return? Did you show him that you are better than women? No!! Play smart buddy!
    Not understanding your question. If he hugs me, I hug him back. If he says he loves me, I say I love him too. What do you think I do?


    He's suggesting you compete with women...... probably meant it as a joke.