paulflexes saidYes, I would.
Appearance is the first thing people see. If you know that your appearance is less than it's capable of being and you get rejected, then change your appearance to a more pleasing look, it's quite rude to reject a person for being honest.
After all, if YOU didn't like your appearance, you wouldn't have changed it in the first place.
If you are directing this at me. I did like where I was and I was still working out even before I met the guy so I already was working on myself. I like my look and I would never change it just because some guy wanted me to. If they didn't like it, they're better off finding someone who has a look to their standards/desires. So sorry but I just honestly feel I wouldn't want to get to know the person.
But it's cool that you can.
Ohno No, but I wouldn't rub their face in it, I would just avoid them.
Seems reasonable I guess but it'd probably be harder if you lived in the same area with the guy.
TheAntiJock Would a person who rejected you before, but who accepts you after some changes reject you again later because of other changes? Or do we tend to be more visual before we get to know a person and more accepting after we know them for a while? Or is the other person a control freak? Or is the other person stuck in a particular gear, ie would they enjoy you at one stage but reject you as you age?
On our end of it, do we reject the person who rejected us because to accept them now would indicate low self-esteem? Or do we accept a person who rejected us before because to reject them now enslaves us to our pride?
I don't know... I honestly don't know.
[quote][cite]Soulman1969[/cite] Sure, then during the date, go all Revenge on his ass. What's a little arsenic in his drink? [quote]
lol I know I'm not that cruel. I could never do something like that.. lol