Big News! Planning on "coming out" by the end of summer.


  • Jun 04, 2013 5:30 PM GMT
    I think it's time for me to tell those important people in my life that there's a possibility that I might end up with a another guy.
    That I can't help being attracted to both sexes.
    That I believe that accepting it and letting everyone know the truth is better than wanting to die everyday because of something that I can't help.
    I hate that people even have to come out.
    Why can't this be "normal" already?
    Oh well I wonder what'll happen?

    Advice?



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    Jun 04, 2013 5:31 PM GMT
    This may be off topic, but how did you end up walking in a big hairy butt cheek? icon_eek.gif
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    Jun 04, 2013 5:33 PM GMT
    Why does it have to be at the end of summer?
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    Jun 04, 2013 5:33 PM GMT
    Wouldn't worry too much about it mate. Ain't as bad you think, coming out. Am bi too and if people don't like me for being bi, I couldn't give a shit to be honest. icon_biggrin.gif

  • Jun 04, 2013 5:40 PM GMT
    Scruffypup saidThis may be off topic, but how did you end up walking in a big hairy butt cheek? icon_eek.gif


    #wut?

  • Jun 04, 2013 5:41 PM GMT
    Erik101 saidWhy does it have to be at the end of summer?


    Idk, could be by the end of this month.
    I just want it to be before I go to school back to school I guess.
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    Jun 04, 2013 5:44 PM GMT
    You should have someone cater and have a live band there when you do it...icon_lol.gif
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    Jun 04, 2013 5:53 PM GMT
    Every flower when watered and given a ray of light sprouts and its growth is determined by nourishment. If it's by the end of summer that you need, take it. It's essential that your mind and emotionl strength is strong just incase you have to deal w/ anything other than positivity and the welcoming of your honesty.

    Best of luck to you ;)
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    Jun 04, 2013 8:36 PM GMT
    CarpeCervisiam said
    Scruffypup saidThis may be off topic, but how did you end up walking in a big hairy butt cheek? icon_eek.gif


    #wut?


    Hehee. In your main pic....it looks like you're walking on a big hairy butt cheek, approaching the crack.
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    Jun 04, 2013 8:40 PM GMT
    CarpeCervisiam saidI think it's time for me to tell those important people in my life that there's a possibility that I might end up with a another guy.
    That I can't help being attracted to both sexes.
    That I believe that accepting it and letting everyone know the truth is better than wanting to die everyday because of something that I can't help.
    I hate that people even have to come out.
    Why can't this be "normal" already?
    Oh well I wonder what'll happen?

    Advice?





    All the best in coming out. I am in the same boat and I am scared to death about it. It's nice to actually be able to talk to guys on here who have been through it and can help in the process.

    Good luck!
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    Jun 04, 2013 10:38 PM GMT
    Scruffypup said
    CarpeCervisiam said
    Scruffypup saidThis may be off topic, but how did you end up walking in a big hairy butt cheek? icon_eek.gif


    #wut?


    Hehee. In your main pic....it looks like you're walking on a big hairy butt cheek, approaching the crack.


    Nice, way to change the kids mind... hehe.. icon_rolleyes.gif
  • AMoonHawk

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    Jun 04, 2013 11:08 PM GMT
    don't do it ... stay in the closet and live in paranoia of being discovered, get married, have kids and live a lie all of your life sneaking around to bathroom stalls for a chance to suck someones dick (anyone's, even some ugly ass fat old fuck) as long as it is anonymous. Spout off at how horrible gay people are and how they are going to hell and how they are destroying society and how gay marriage will ruin everything and believe that your pious self-loathing self will go to the kingdom of Heaven, so everyone will buy the act that you are straight. No, why in the world would you want to come out? icon_neutral.gif
  • HottJoe

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    Jun 05, 2013 12:06 AM GMT
    It's more than a possibility that you'll end up with a guy. You're going to find a guy who will make you glad to be exactly who you are.
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    Jun 05, 2013 12:22 AM GMT
    AMoonHawk saiddon't do it ... stay in the closet and live in paranoia of being discovered, get married, have kids and live a lie all of your life sneaking around to bathroom stalls for a chance to suck someones dick (anyone's, even some ugly ass fat old fuck) as long as it is anonymous. Spout off at how horrible gay people are and how they are going to hell and how they are destroying society and how gay marriage will ruin everything and believe that your pious self-loathing self will go to the kingdom of Heaven, so everyone will buy the act that you are straight. No, why in the world would you want to come out? icon_neutral.gif

    Ha

    Bad Day?

  • Jun 05, 2013 12:34 AM GMT
    AMoonHawk saiddon't do it ... stay in the closet and live in paranoia of being discovered, get married, have kids and live a lie all of your life sneaking around to bathroom stalls for a chance to suck someones dick (anyone's, even some ugly ass fat old fuck) as long as it is anonymous. Spout off at how horrible gay people are and how they are going to hell and how they are destroying society and how gay marriage will ruin everything and believe that your pious self-loathing self will go to the kingdom of Heaven, so everyone will buy the act that you are straight. No, why in the world would you want to come out? icon_neutral.gif



    You seem like a very happy person.
    Good for you big guy!

  • Jun 05, 2013 12:37 AM GMT
    rwilks said
    CarpeCervisiam saidI think it's time for me to tell those important people in my life that there's a possibility that I might end up with a another guy.
    That I can't help being attracted to both sexes.
    That I believe that accepting it and letting everyone know the truth is better than wanting to die everyday because of something that I can't help.
    I hate that people even have to come out.
    Why can't this be "normal" already?
    Oh well I wonder what'll happen?

    Advice?





    All the best in coming out. I am in the same boat and I am scared to death about it. It's nice to actually be able to talk to guys on here who have been through it and can help in the process.

    Good luck!


    Yeah I'm pretty scared too, I might back out of it! haha.
    I really hope I can though!
    I need to I think life will be better if I do.
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    Jun 05, 2013 12:46 AM GMT
    Why "come out" when you can invite others in?
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    Jun 05, 2013 12:48 AM GMT
    remember, you're just telling people who you are. you aren't asking anyone's permission.
  • Just_Tim

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    Jun 05, 2013 12:49 AM GMT
    Congratulations! I'm not sure setting a deadline is the easiest way to go, but if it works for you then great!

  • Jun 05, 2013 12:56 AM GMT
    willular saidremember, you're just telling people who you are. you aren't asking anyone's permission.



    Probably one of the best things I've read. Honestly thanks!
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    Jun 05, 2013 12:57 AM GMT
    Ease into it by posting a face pic.

  • Jun 05, 2013 1:49 AM GMT
    Scruffypup saidEase into it by posting a face pic.


    None of you are worthy of seeing my face....


    ....Kidding(Haha?).

  • AMoonHawk

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    Jun 05, 2013 2:28 AM GMT
    dustin_K_tx said
    AMoonHawk saiddon't do it ... stay in the closet and live in paranoia of being discovered, get married, have kids and live a lie all of your life sneaking around to bathroom stalls for a chance to suck someones dick (anyone's, even some ugly ass fat old fuck) as long as it is anonymous. Spout off at how horrible gay people are and how they are going to hell and how they are destroying society and how gay marriage will ruin everything and believe that your pious self-loathing self will go to the kingdom of Heaven, so everyone will buy the act that you are straight. No, why in the world would you want to come out? icon_neutral.gif

    Ha

    Bad Day?

    It's always good to know the alternative icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jun 05, 2013 5:21 AM GMT
    willular saidremember, you're just telling people who you are. you aren't asking anyone's permission.

    +1
    I wish you All the best.
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    Jun 05, 2013 5:33 AM GMT
    Scruffypup saidThis may be off topic, but how did you end up walking in a big hairy butt cheek? icon_eek.gif



    Is he Mark Sanchez? It happens icon_confused.gif