How would you respond if a straight guy wanted to have sex with you?

  • breaktheice

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    Jun 07, 2013 6:56 PM GMT
    What would you do?
    I know some guys wouldn't because they would feel used or that its one-sided because the straight guy just wanted to have receive a bj and would only top.

    EDIT:
    i should have said, the guy does not identify as homosexual. Kinda like gay-for-pay pornstars.

    Also sleeping with another guy does not mean you are automatically gay.

    sexual orientation is more complicated. But I do agree that identifying as straight doesn't make you straight.
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    Jun 07, 2013 7:26 PM GMT
    If a straight guy wants to have sex with another guy, then that means he's not straight.
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    Jun 07, 2013 7:45 PM GMT
    I'm open to helping a guy experiment. I'm a good "first timer".
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    Jun 07, 2013 7:49 PM GMT
    Erik101 saidIf a straight guy wants to have sex with another guy, then that means he's not straight.


    I will try to quote something simple for you to understand:

    Wikipedia (and pretty much any dictionnary)
    As a sexual orientation, heterosexuality refers to "an enduring pattern of or disposition to experience sexual, affectionate, physical or romantic attractions to persons of the opposite sex"; it also refers to "an individual’s sense of personal and social identity based on those attractions, behaviors expressing them, and membership in a community of others who share them".


    See why you're wrong, now?
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    Jun 07, 2013 8:03 PM GMT
    I'd teach him how to be a good bottom...icon_wink.gif
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    Jun 07, 2013 8:09 PM GMT
    Rita said
    Erik101 saidIf a straight guy wants to have sex with another guy, then that means he's not straight.


    I will try to quote something simple for you to understand:

    Wikipedia (and pretty much any dictionnary)
    As a sexual orientation, heterosexuality refers to "an enduring pattern of or disposition to experience sexual, affectionate, physical or romantic attractions to persons of the opposite sex"; it also refers to "an individual’s sense of personal and social identity based on those attractions, behaviors expressing them, and membership in a community of others who share them".


    See why you're wrong, now?


    No! You bolded the "enduring pattern" part but yet you didn't bold the "attractions to person of the opposite sex" part. Good try though!
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    Jun 07, 2013 9:07 PM GMT
    Rita said
    Erik101 saidIf a straight guy wants to have sex with another guy, then that means he's not straight.


    I will try to quote something simple for you to understand:

    Wikipedia (and pretty much any dictionnary)
    As a sexual orientation, heterosexuality refers to "an enduring pattern of or disposition to experience sexual, affectionate, physical or romantic attractions to persons of the opposite sex"; it also refers to "an individual’s sense of personal and social identity based on those attractions, behaviors expressing them, and membership in a community of others who share them".


    See why you're wrong, now?


    He isn't. Where does it say that straights have homo sex?

    Self identifying as straight alone doesn't make you straight.

    Like so:

    I eat meat, but I'm a vegetarian.
    Right. icon_wink.gif
  • rnch

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    Jun 07, 2013 9:15 PM GMT
    As Always, it would depend on the other guy
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    Jun 07, 2013 9:30 PM GMT
    meninlove said
    Rita said
    Erik101 saidIf a straight guy wants to have sex with another guy, then that means he's not straight.


    I will try to quote something simple for you to understand:

    Wikipedia (and pretty much any dictionnary)
    As a sexual orientation, heterosexuality refers to "an enduring pattern of or disposition to experience sexual, affectionate, physical or romantic attractions to persons of the opposite sex"; it also refers to "an individual’s sense of personal and social identity based on those attractions, behaviors expressing them, and membership in a community of others who share them".


    See why you're wrong, now?


    He isn't. Where does it say that straights have homo sex?

    Self identifying as straight alone doesn't make you straight.

    Like so:

    I eat meat, but I'm a vegetarian.
    Right. icon_wink.gif


    It says that heterosexuality implies having a "disposition" to straight sex, which means it is your main source of intercourse (leaving open secondary sources of intercourse, like GAY SEX or APPLE-PIE FUCKING).
  • gwuinsf

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    Jun 07, 2013 10:15 PM GMT
    There are straight guys that are willing to be blown or fuck your hole. Guys at are horny. Considering how much work women are and how little work gay guys are, can you blame them?

    If he wanted to blow you, then I'd question his sexuality.
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    Jun 07, 2013 10:48 PM GMT
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    just dont get attached.
  • TheBizMan

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    Jun 07, 2013 11:01 PM GMT
    Rita said
    meninlove said
    Rita said
    Erik101 saidIf a straight guy wants to have sex with another guy, then that means he's not straight.


    I will try to quote something simple for you to understand:

    Wikipedia (and pretty much any dictionnary)
    As a sexual orientation, heterosexuality refers to "an enduring pattern of or disposition to experience sexual, affectionate, physical or romantic attractions to persons of the opposite sex"; it also refers to "an individual’s sense of personal and social identity based on those attractions, behaviors expressing them, and membership in a community of others who share them".


    See why you're wrong, now?


    He isn't. Where does it say that straights have homo sex?

    Self identifying as straight alone doesn't make you straight.

    Like so:

    I eat meat, but I'm a vegetarian.
    Right. icon_wink.gif


    It says that heterosexuality implies having a "disposition" to straight sex, which means it is your main source of intercourse (leaving open secondary sources of intercourse, like GAY SEX or APPLE-PIE FUCKING).

    Utter bull shit. If you are straight you don't have sex with guys.

    Don't read too far into it.

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    Jun 08, 2013 12:46 AM GMT

    Conversely, I think he hasn't considered what the wiki means enough.

    Straight guys supposedly having sex with men as a pattern on the DL is not:

    "an enduring pattern of or disposition to experience sexual, affectionate, physical or romantic attractions to persons of the opposite sex"

    Once is an experiment; more than that and....icon_wink.gif
  • wherewillwebe

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    Jun 08, 2013 1:57 AM GMT
    I got a few offers but I prouldy said noicon_biggrin.gif
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    Jun 08, 2013 2:25 AM GMT
    meninlove said

    He isn't. Where does it say that straights have homo sex?

    Self identifying as straight alone doesn't make you straight.

    Like so:

    I eat meat, but I'm a vegetarian.
    Right. icon_wink.gif


    So we are to reduce the question of sexual orientation to patterns of sexual acts? By that logic, anyone who hasn't made sexual contact with another person has no sexual orientation. I'm pretty sure I knew I was gay well before I lost my virginity (to a guy).

    Does that mean all those prisoners who rape other inmates are gay/bi?

    What of gay men who don't come out until later in life and up until then have only been having sex with women?
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    Jun 08, 2013 3:22 AM GMT
    "bromoflexual said:

    Does that mean all those prisoners who rape other inmates are gay/bi?



    Of course they are bisexual. If I get into a prison where there are only female prisoners, would I start having sex with them? absolutely not.
  • HottJoe

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    Jun 08, 2013 3:30 AM GMT
    I'm sure if your sex life is in theory only it would seem like anything is possible.
  • breaktheice

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    Jun 08, 2013 4:13 AM GMT
    wherewillwebe saidI got a few offers but I prouldy said noicon_biggrin.gif


    what did they say to make you say no?
    Or did you just immediately say no regardless of how it was asked?
  • easterndude69

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    Jun 08, 2013 5:14 AM GMT
    If he wanted to, I'd let him top me and do what he wants with me. I'm always open to helping someone experiment if they come to me first about it. Then it's on them for wanting to do it.
  • wherewillwebe

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    Jun 08, 2013 9:27 AM GMT
    sparemints said
    wherewillwebe saidI got a few offers but I prouldy said noicon_biggrin.gif


    what did they say to make you say no?
    Or did you just immediately say no regardless of how it was asked?


    It's just that I don't want to do anything sexual with straight guys or someone who claims to be one. They normally send me message with thier penis pics or videos of them jerking officon_redface.gif and say that they want some discreet fun with me, possibly a long term. Most of them are married or have girlfriends and I would hate to be one who helps someone cheat on their parters/spouses.

    Although I have never met a straight guy who wanted to have sex with me in person, when I was in the army, some of my senior officers who were married with kids seemed to enjoy playfully touching me, licking my earlobes or putting thier hands under my shirticon_cool.gif
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    Jun 08, 2013 10:29 AM GMT
    GAMRican siad"I'm open to helping a guy experiment, I'm a good first timer"

    I've had my share of first time sex with a guy, but as erik101 said if a straight guy ants to have sex with another guy, that means he's gay.

    But my answer is YES if a straight guy wants to have sex with me i would go for it.
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    Jun 08, 2013 10:39 AM GMT
    i do this everytime & always succeeded ,...... im into Macho guys

    gay or straight
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    Jun 08, 2013 2:42 PM GMT
    Bromoflexual said
    meninlove said

    He isn't. Where does it say that straights have homo sex?

    Self identifying as straight alone doesn't make you straight.

    Like so:

    I eat meat, but I'm a vegetarian.
    Right. icon_wink.gif


    So we are to reduce the question of sexual orientation to patterns of sexual acts? By that logic, anyone who hasn't made sexual contact with another person has no sexual orientation. I'm pretty sure I knew I was gay well before I lost my virginity (to a guy).

    Does that mean all those prisoners who rape other inmates are gay/bi?

    What of gay men who don't come out until later in life and up until then have only been having sex with women?


    lol, I'm working with the definition Rita provided off wiki, which used the word 'pattern' which I don't think a good one.

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    Jun 10, 2013 10:47 AM GMT
    LMFAO

    This is every gay man's #1 fantasy
  • Michaelyolo

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    Jun 11, 2013 7:46 AM GMT
    That's a really good question. I don't know what I would do maybe say no but I would be really shock and nervous.