HOW OFTEN DO YOU HAVE SEX?

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    Mar 18, 2007 11:12 AM GMT
    Are you with a partner or are you single?

    I have a partner and when we are together we make it a point to have it everyday at least once. Sometimes it is a quicky in the shower - but that does not count.
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    Mar 18, 2007 12:48 PM GMT
    sex in the shower doesn't count? wow..several of the guy's I've been with are going to be disappointed, then.. thot they were having sex...lol...
    think i know what you mean...the longer, more romantic version, that isnt just a wham-bam-thank-you-bud, sort of deal-
    Im single, and have plenty of chances for sex with other guy's of varyinging ages on fairly regular basis, but have cut back recently, purely on the basis of personal restraint and desire to find little more than what I have...want more than just getting off.
    although, getting off is very nice too...and still like it in the shower (grin)and I do call it sex-
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    Mar 19, 2007 11:37 PM GMT
    So do I like a quickie too, no matter where! It can be more exciting too.
  • duglyduckling

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    Mar 26, 2007 1:43 AM GMT
    single and definitely not having enough! LOL but then I'm just too shy and worry too much that I am not that good. Probably the reason why...
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    Apr 03, 2007 2:22 AM GMT
    single and not enough
  • hotversguy

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    Apr 17, 2007 5:14 AM GMT
    single ,and when i want to have it i have it. i guess i shouldn't complain. except that i find that i don't want to have it that much.

    should get that checked out. what IS the cure for 38?
  • MikemikeMike

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    Apr 18, 2007 6:29 PM GMT
    38-- u can have ur testosterone checked I'm 38 yrs old and have it daily-Going to the gym 5 times a week has increased my sex drive.
  • hotversguy

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    Apr 19, 2007 4:37 AM GMT
    my testosterone is through the roof actually. i was hakf-kidding. i just hate finding a new "playmate." I like my stable of fuck-buddies. But down the road I want something more serious.

  • hotversguy

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    Apr 19, 2007 4:37 AM GMT
    my testosterone is through the roof actually. i was hakf-kidding. i just hate finding a new "playmate." I like my stable of fuck-buddies. But down the road I want something more serious.

  • MikemikeMike

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    Apr 19, 2007 5:03 AM GMT
    Cool hotvers- glad ur ok bro.
  • GQjock

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    Apr 19, 2007 11:49 PM GMT
    it depends on if I find a hot guy or not...lol
    then it's like why bother getting out of bed
    ...but generally it averages out to be twice a week
  • hotversguy

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    Apr 29, 2007 6:46 AM GMT
    thanks mikex3.

    someone has to look out for me :)
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    Apr 29, 2007 6:27 PM GMT
    im single = no sex, which i kno i could be and sometimes i do with my ex. which is bad i kno. but i can live without it for like a two or three weeks and i dont masterbate. im rather quite happy when i do get it. but i dont need it. and when i am in a relationship my sex drive is as active and his, im ready whenever he is. im a btm in most realtionships but if u arnt quite dominate. i know what i have to do to put them into a horny rage.
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    May 06, 2007 1:21 AM GMT
    single and don't get any. would ideally like to have sex once or twice a day with a long term partner would be fantastic but jacking off is just as good if i don't get sex. i find when im bored i want sex more often especially when you're single.
  • BlackJock79

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    May 17, 2007 12:37 AM GMT
    I'm single and I can never have enough sex. I wish I had a boyfriend to screw 2 or 3 times a day. I have a VERY high sex drive and I'm always wanting sex. It's kind of embarrassing because all of my friends just think I'm a horndog/whore. LOL, I may have sex 3 or 4 times a month. On a good month 2 or 3 times a week. I need more fb's.
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    May 19, 2007 1:53 AM GMT
    question for you all..

    been with my guy for a few years. We used to have sex all the time, but it slowly went down. We went through a rough patch but recovered. I noticed a significant difference in how often we do it, I could do it everyday more than once if I wanted and he hardly wants to do it at all. We have tried toys and things, it just seems like temp fixes. He swears its not me, that he just isnt in the mood as much as I and claims that when he took an antidepressant years back that it killed his sex drive. But when we met a few years ago we were doing it alot...does this happen in all relationships and its just something that happens? Everything else in the relationship is great but how often I would like to have sex. He would like to do it more, but isn't sure how to make himself get in the mood more often, starting to wonder if its medical or what? Or just different body chemistry. At times it can be frustrating. I know things like work stress and being tired contribute but it seems for me that doesnt stop me from wanting it. I did read online about low sex drive, and read that sometimes just engaging in it and trying to get aroused more often does help..any ideas? And yes we have tried porn and again that does sometimes help but its a temp fix.
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    May 19, 2007 3:52 PM GMT
    themotohello,

    You may just need to be gentle with the guy as stress can play a big part in the sex drive.

    Try a massage on your partner as part of forplay.

    When you do have sex and if it is quality, don't complain. Tell him how good it was. When the time is right tell him how huch you want him.

    Is there still romance, cuddling and kissing in your relationship or has that declined as well?
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    May 21, 2007 11:28 AM GMT
    We have sex one way...
    He is only think for himself...
    I want to have sex 4 times in a week, he don't...
    His mind won't let him, I offer him al lot but hi is giving me not many in return...
    Wil it come...?
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    May 27, 2007 1:20 AM GMT
    I am 37 years old. I am single right now, so I do not get it as often as I like. But when I was with my last boyfriend. We had sex atleast 4 times a day. Before we got out of bed, during our lunch breaks at work "we would met some where". As soon as he walked in the door at night. Then during or after dinner and then once back in bed. Sex in the shower is just that sex. It counts. Sometime in the shower in the morning after the morning in bed.
    I hope my sex drives never dies. But one thing that will slow your sex drive down is porn. It kills you wanting to do it more. I gave up porn 10 years ago when I was only in the mood three times a week. If I do jack off, I close my eyes and picture some hot stud I saw that day or something. But no visual aids...
    Hope this helps...
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    Jun 12, 2007 12:53 AM GMT
    I don't think you can have too much sex...the more the better. The only danger is that it might become routine and then the excitement and thrill of anticipation is gone.

    Personally, not getting enough.
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    Jun 12, 2007 12:53 AM GMT
    I don't think you can have too much sex...the more the better. The only danger is that it might become routine and then the excitement and thrill of anticipation is gone.

    Personally, not getting enough.
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    Jun 13, 2007 12:31 PM GMT
    My boyfriend and I have sex at least 4 times a week. We dont do it everyday so it doesnt turn into routine. We change it up alot, and try new things. No toys though or at least not yet. I bought a video camera recently if that tells you anything.
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    Jun 17, 2007 3:14 PM GMT
    Does sex with yourself (i.e. j/o) count?
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    Jul 21, 2007 11:32 AM GMT
    I am a married bisexual and women and men are alike with respect to the wanting of sex. Usually, the alpha male (TOP)or the male in an hetero relationship may want more than the bottom or the female in a hetero relationship. When I am with the wife I like to fuck her everyday, but when I bottom for her (read that a strapon)I may not want to have it everyday because it wears me out even though I am just taking it doggy or missionary style. If I am riding it, then it is more tiresome.

    I do get screwed at least two to three times a month, and love the encounters, but it has to happen when the wife does not want to be screwed herself since It kill my libido for at least two to three days.
  • GQjock

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    Jul 29, 2007 1:32 PM GMT
    Usually twice a week...
    with some self-maintenance in there between as needed