Oblivious?

  • ekim1793

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    Jun 09, 2013 4:39 PM GMT
    So ive been having a problem lately and i wanted to see if i could get an opinion on it. i'm more recently out of the closet(well its been 4 years but i finally just began talking to guys and going out to the club)
    so the problem i keep having is i cant seem to get the hang of this whole how to tell a guy is interested or not type of deal. I keep going out but i never seem to be able to tell whos interested in me or not. any tips here on how to tell if someone is interested so that i can stop being so oblivious and start flirting around and maybe being able to talk to guys normally.
  • Fable

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    Jun 09, 2013 4:56 PM GMT
    When they eye fuck you.
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    Jun 09, 2013 10:13 PM GMT
    fable saidWhen they eye fuck you.
    OMG. This is so annoying but so true. If a guy is interested in you, he'll shoot some Blue Steel at you. And when catch him looking, he turns away. When you go back to what you were doing, he'll stare at you again. This goes on and on until you give him some Blue Steee back, or walk over to him.

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    Jun 09, 2013 10:22 PM GMT
    I find my friends notice before I do. Or rather, they ask me the next day why ignored the guys checking me out, and I say "because I didn't see them"!
  • ekim1793

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    Jun 09, 2013 11:52 PM GMT
    see i generaly have that issue where i never seem to catch them and when i do and go talk to them they act as if i dont exist. that or my friends notice and they tell me the next day. what do i do at that point then i guess is the question?
  • HottJoe

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    Jun 09, 2013 11:56 PM GMT
    ekim1793 saidsee i generaly have that issue where i never seem to catch them and when i do and go talk to them they act as if i dont exist. that or my friends notice and they tell me the next day. what do i do at that point then i guess is the question?


    If they're not being receptive then you're best bet is to move on. You want someone who will light up when you approach him.
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    Jun 09, 2013 11:57 PM GMT
    ekim1793 saidsee i generaly have that issue where i never seem to catch them and when i do and go talk to them they act as if i dont exist. that or my friends notice and they tell me the next day. what do i do at that point then i guess is the question?


    Ok simple walk up to the said guy, open your mouth and say Hi Im (insert name here) and take it from there.
    If he ignores you, move on no one likes desperation
    If he engages you keep talking and keep it about him or generall things, ie chit chat.
    It is amazing how introducing yourself and engaging someone in polite conversation can get you quite far.

    Dont be another silly poof playing the eye dance, that my friend is for children