Phoenix_of_Doom saidSomeone please help me understand why would someone want to beat their lover, spouse etc. From out of nowhere an attack on their love, please clarify.
I changed my name to Phoenix of Doom by the way
From what? I forget already.
Well, I can't answer your question, it's gonna be different in many cases - drugs, alcohol, mental instability, abusive childhood, etc, etc.
But I can say that when it happened to me, just once, I moved out of the guy's house at the earliest opportunity, and not long afterwards found a new BF. I still don't entirely know what his problem was that caused him to leave bruises on me, but I knew that becoming a victim of domestic violence wasn't going to be MY problem.
If your question relates to a situation regarding yourself, as the victim, then consider dropping this guy immediately.