Having a three sum can be stressful?

  • pharmstudent

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    Jun 14, 2013 1:05 AM GMT
    I met this guy while on family vacation, and I've to admit its been really crazy adventure. So last night, we met one of his best friend to help us replace the motor boat and he happen to be incredibly hot--pretty much my type. He ended up staying after to drink and stuff. I kinda figured he was bi and that he knew what we've been uptoo. Anyways, we started fooling around and I can't help but ignore the other guy and makeout with the new guy. I just couldn't spare any moment. I mean I tried to improvise but it was too obvious..

    since I had to get home we only madeout, just "a preview"and we're planing to continue sometime this week. But im worried I might be too stressed out while trying to balance my affection to both.

    Do you guys think it's rude to spend more time with one of the guy while in menage trios?
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    Jun 14, 2013 1:28 AM GMT
    It often happens when couples invite a third for sex that they both focus more on the new guy. However should newbie be more interested in one of them, the other guy might feel left out.

    Talk things over first with you bf, FB, fwb, whatever.

    Good rule for all three or more-somes is to focus on giving pleasure to the others, instead of receiving.
  • Apparition

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    Jun 14, 2013 1:42 AM GMT
    personally if you are in any way a possessive type, or the kind that would ask the question, "will one guy feel left out" I don't think you should be having threesomes with guys you have any kind of feelings for.

    threesomes should be dirty and animal and not emotional...or they end badly.
  • HottJoe

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    Jun 14, 2013 1:50 AM GMT
    Apparition saidpersonally if you are in any way a possessive type, or the kind that would ask the question, "will one guy feel left out" I don't think you should be having threesomes with guys you have any kind of feelings for.

    threesomes should be dirty and animal and not emotional...or they end badly.


    blunt, but true.
  • pharmstudent

    Posts: 162

    Jun 14, 2013 1:59 AM GMT
    Haha you're agreeing with him too. I just need to find a way to shut my mind off, may be I wasn't tipsy enough?
  • AMoonHawk

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    Jun 14, 2013 2:06 AM GMT
    As long as your blowing the new guy while getting pummeled by the old guy, I think you'll be perfectly fine icon_biggrin.gif