Giving up on guys/love

  • IsrealiBoy

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    Jun 14, 2013 5:14 AM GMT
    I'm young, attractive and nice.I try really hard to meet guys but no one is interested in me besides really annoying guys or creepy old guys that want to see me naked. I'm just done trying, like seriously.. what shud i do?
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    Jun 14, 2013 5:16 AM GMT
    Good God not another one!!!!!


    But you should just move into a forest and become a hermit. There is NOT A SINGLE good gay man in the world. That is a scientific fact. Save yourself time and heartache dude.
  • Suetonius

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    Jun 14, 2013 5:24 AM GMT
    You're Israeli, but can't spell it?

    Move to Telaviv? Lots of gays there.
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    Jun 14, 2013 6:49 AM GMT
    jmusmc85 saidGood God not another one!!!!!




    Summer is starting. Young gays are out of school and with enough free time on their hands to spend entirely on creating forever alone threads.
  • Webster666

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    Jun 14, 2013 7:08 AM GMT
    GEE, you're 19 years old, and you haven't found "Mister Right," YET ?!
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    Jun 14, 2013 12:24 PM GMT
    You should take the time do the things you love and someday someone will come a long and love doing you(I mean this in the most romantic sense possible)

    I find that when we too focused on finding love we come off a tad bit desperate and like the jerk(who isn't really a jerk - i just call him that because he told me I reeked of desperation at one stage) said when you love yourself and are independent enough to live and love yourself the men will come flocking in. He was right, men flock when you let things happen naturally.

    So my advice to you: take some time to discover who you really are and I promise you somewhere along the line someone worth while will come along.
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    Jun 14, 2013 12:57 PM GMT
    Webster666 saidGEE, you're 19 years old, and you haven't found "Mister Right," YET ?!
    hahahahahahhahaha!!!!! dude its really is a tragedy icon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gif
  • urhereurthere

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    Jun 14, 2013 1:15 PM GMT
    the moment you forget about getting someone and arent "looking for men" it will appear this group of fat ladies singing "its raining men". its really when you least expect. i for one can never get someone when im looking. i must be found ahahah but thats me xD
  • calibro

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    Jun 14, 2013 2:16 PM GMT
    commit seppuku i suppose
  • Hothouse

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    Jun 14, 2013 3:45 PM GMT
    Just give in to the creepy old guys.
    It's gonna happen eventually.

    (When you are one.)
  • mmnt

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    Jun 14, 2013 3:53 PM GMT
    You are too young to complain already. You know that many older guys are still single. Get a hobby and have fun, desperation only frustrates you more.
  • CityofDreams

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    Jun 14, 2013 4:03 PM GMT
    All you biatches do is complain. May God be with you.
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    Jun 14, 2013 4:27 PM GMT
    calibro saidcommit seppuku i suppose


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    Jun 14, 2013 4:32 PM GMT
    Webster666 saidGEE, you're 19 years old, and you haven't found "Mister Right," YET ?!


    At least it's not close to valentines day...
  • jackooh

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    Jun 14, 2013 6:15 PM GMT
    i wasnt even out the closet till i was 20.. jumpin the gun a bit mate!
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    Jun 14, 2013 6:24 PM GMT
    jmusmc85 saidGood God not another one!!!!!


    But you should just move into a forest and become a hermit. There is NOT A SINGLE good gay man in the world. That is a scientific fact. Save yourself time and heartache dude.


    Amen
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    Jun 14, 2013 7:32 PM GMT
    Nothing is quite as poetic as a young man who can't find love and feels the need to croon softly while he weeps about it on an online forum.

    Get real.

    Try living even fifty years ago as a gay man, in a very different time with an extremely different view on homosexuality, and then come cry to us about how hard your life is.

    Fack.
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    Jun 15, 2013 12:07 AM GMT
    jmusmc85 saidGood God not another one!!!!!


    But you should just move into a forest and become a hermit. There is NOT A SINGLE good gay man in the world. That is a scientific fact. Save yourself time and heartache dude.

    Tell me about it.

    Might have to wait...I'll never give up. Guess it's half timing and the other halfs luck. Wherever you are, whenever it's right, you'll come out of nowhere and into my life.

    (I'd make a gif but I'm lazy right now)

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    Jun 15, 2013 12:27 AM GMT
    You don't have a problem meeting guys. You have a problem meeting guys that you share a mutual attraction with. It could well be that you don't have the right appeal for the type of guys you're pursuing.

    Not much you can do about that if you don't want to change. If you are, then you can work on increasing your appeal in the meantime. You should also learn to be patient because, at 19, you've got a lot of life to go ahead of you.
  • Splendidus_1

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    Jun 15, 2013 12:30 AM GMT
    IsrealiBoy saidI'm young, attractive and nice.I try really hard to meet guys but no one is interested in me besides really annoying guys or creepy old guys that want to see me naked. I'm just done trying, like seriously.. what shud i do?


    You sound just like one. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Jun 15, 2013 12:32 AM GMT
    What should you do?

    Not give up.

    Life is nothing but a series of disappointments. If you stop to throw yourself a pity party every time, nothing will ever change.

    Stay positive, move on, and be open to the one that will come your way.
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    Jun 15, 2013 1:37 AM GMT
    Animus saidYou don't have a problem meeting guys. You have a problem meeting guys that you share a mutual attraction with. It could well be that you don't have the right appeal for the type of guys you're pursuing.

    Not much you can do about that if you don't want to change. If you are, then you can work on increasing your appeal in the meantime. You should also learn to be patient because, at 19, you've got a lot of life to go ahead of you.


    Most sensible comment so far.

    OP, it's OK to change to become more attractive, but try not to repeat the Little Mermaid tragedy. Romantic love is not worth every sacrifice.
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    Jun 15, 2013 10:29 AM GMT
    You are cute and sexy. You need to get out more. You are only 19 yrs old. Don't "poor" me
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  • WApilot

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    Jun 15, 2013 11:48 AM GMT
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    Cry me a f*cking river. You're 19 years old and you already feel like giving up because of a few creepers?

    Get over yourself! You only get what you put out there, so stop searching for guys in the local bathrooms and craigslist postings. Get involved with events and gatherings of gay men of all ages... whatever you're in too.

    But spare us all this, "whoa is me, I'm young, attractive and nice, men only want me for sex" bullshit!
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    Jun 15, 2013 3:54 PM GMT
    I think your first priority should be to learn how to spend the name of your own country to be perfectly honest with you.

    -Flog