Dating an amputee

  • Import

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    Jun 14, 2013 8:07 PM GMT
    I met an amputee last night...his right arm was lost due to a car accident several years ago. We met for dinner.

    It turned out great. His little nub was...um, interesting to say the least.
    I thought I'd kinda be freaked out by it...like if it was discolored or had skin hanging off of it... or something

    surprisingly, it wasn't so bad. When we first met--I went to shake his hand and then had to say "oops!" lolz. That was the only embarrassing part. Otherwise, a great guy! and cute too.

    Anyway, has anyone else had expereince in dating an amputee? How did u find it? Sexually?



  • AMoonHawk

    Posts: 11406

    Jun 14, 2013 8:11 PM GMT
    Had one nighters with 1 girl and 2 guys each who had a missing leg. (no not all at the same time ... at different times in my life)
  • Import

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    Jun 14, 2013 8:15 PM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidHad one nighters with 1 girl and 2 guys each who had a missing leg. (no not all at the same time ... at different times in my life)


    deets!! i want deeets.
    Wow, one leg must have been interesting? Were they topping u? lolz jk. could u imagine?
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    Jun 14, 2013 9:34 PM GMT
    I had sex with a guy who had 3 testicles. Does that count?
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    Jun 14, 2013 10:02 PM GMT
    Not what you asked but one of my friends was a one armed bodybuilder. They interviewed him on TV and I put it on YouTube for him.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rpYjF0Ba2SM&feature=youtube_gdata_player

    They were praising him for not letting anything stop him but they did not speak of the absurdity there. He lost his arm because he had diabetes and kept passing out at the wheel. After a few safe crashes, he lost his arm. It would have been better if he *did* let things stop him.

    I can relate to your story, Import. One day at the gym he said to me, "I fell down the stairs last night and got my stump all bloody. See?"
    As he proceeded to roll up his sleeve, I thought, "Oh God in Heaven catch me. I'm going to pass out."
    But it wasn't that bad.
  • HottJoe

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    Jun 14, 2013 10:34 PM GMT
    I once made out with a guy who waited until we were both ridiculously drunk to tell me he'd lost his dick when a lighter exploded in his pocket. We were in a hotel room and I'm pretty sure I passed out shortly after, because it's the last thing I remember. The next morning we ate breakfast and I never saw him again. I always think about how wasted he had to be to tell me... He was really cute, too.icon_sad.gif
  • NeuralShock

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    Jun 14, 2013 10:37 PM GMT
    In about a few years from now I'll be one of the people working on getting mechanical limbs back on these people.

    Serious.
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    Jun 14, 2013 10:58 PM GMT
    Import said
    Anyway, has anyone else had expereince in dating an amputee? How did u find it? Sexually?

    I dated a guy missing a leg below the knee. I didn't even give it a thought. Why should I? He got around well enough.

    But we didn't hit if off otherwise. I'm not sure if his being an amputee was a factor, but if so it was in his own mind, not mine.

    Because my own Father was an amputee. Lost part of his left hand in a farm accident in 1917. icon_exclaim.gif Yeah, that's how old I am. All 4 of my grandparents were born in the 1800s.

    When WWII came he was deferred as 4F, already on the upper age range as well, but he fought for a special waiver to enlist. He got it, but with the restriction that he could never be an Officer, was never promoted above Staff Sergeant. But what a hero he remains in my mind, who could have remained comfortably at home during the War, no shame if he hadn't put on a uniform.

    When I became an Army Officer 25 years later he thanked me, saying as his son I had fulfilled his wish of being an Officer himself. He really did! You think I didn't cry over that one? Not in front of Dad, though, of course.

    And never did I ever think of my Father as an amputee. I know it helps that I grew up with it, what made it normal to me, but that's the point - it's only an issue if you make it one in your own mind. If you don't, it isn't.

    So I hope no guys here will write off an amputee. They can be a better man than you'll ever be, as my late Father was compared to me. And as for sexually, well, I suppose that depends on what was amputated. icon_eek.gif